Why do some women get FAT after they been in a relationship for a while?

[*The_West*]

guys do it aswell you know. its just because there in a comfort zone, like they feel "we've been going out 9 months now, i dont need to try as hard as when we first started out"
tell her bro, i know there's a risk of sounding superficial/shallow, but tell her "you've started putting on a bit too much weight, il be honest with you, im not as attracted to you as when we started seeing each other, i'd be more than happy to help you train and lose the weight if you want"

 

[JayC9]

tell her "you've started putting on a bit too much weight, il be honest with you, im not as attracted to you as when we started seeing each other, i'd be more than happy to help you train and lose the weight if you want"

lol subtle, like your approach

 

[seaking420]

call her fatass........she might get the hint

 

[*The_West*]

call her fatass........she might get the hint

nah man lol, the guy said he was worried she'll cut his balls off while his sleeping!
but seriously, try my approach, and if she's at all reasonable and considerate she will appreciate your honesty and willingness to help her with it. then give you a blowie.

 

[heavy_duty]

I know a girl who went from 150-250 after she found her man and that was before any babies.

Now she has a 1 year old. I bet she's 300 now and aint seen the gym in years.

Your girl will be there 2 years from now. (a super heavy weight)

If you cant handle that ...better just leave her now.

Sounds like she was just working out to find a man, not to keep a man.

 

[*The_West*]

or maybe she's actually suffering from depression, feeling really low and not caring what she looks like at the moment?in which case she needs her man who she's been with 9 months to reassure her that he is there for her and get her through this rough patch, and then back up to a sexy little minx when she's feeling good about herself again.

 

[Tatyana]

OH, the couple bubble.

Tell her if she wants to eat like a BBer she also has to train like a BBer.

Even healthy food can make you fat, if you eat too much of it (which has obviously happened to her).

Other options:

1. Tell her you want to go on a beach holiday somewhere that is KNOWN for great looking girls in bikinis, or some variation where she would have to get into a swimming costume.

That might just be a bit of a rude awakening

2. Get her to start posting on Elite

3. Start looking at pics of bikini comps, figure comps and ask her is she had ever thought about doing one, and that you really like the look of trained women

 

[*The_West*]

OH, the couple bubble.

Tell her if she wants to eat like a BBer she also has to train like a BBer.

Even healthy food can make you fat, if you eat too much of it (which has obviously happened to her).

Other options:

1. Tell her you want to go on a beach holiday somewhere that is KNOWN for great looking girls in bikinis, or some variation where she would have to get into a swimming costume.

That might just be a bit of a rude awakening

2. Get her to start posting on Elite

3. Start looking at pics of bikini comps, figure comps and ask her is she had ever thought about doing one, and that you really like the look of trained women

correct me if im wrong tatyana, but i thought people should change because they want to, not because their partner prefers the look of toned,oiled, bikini clad beauties? if he wants to stay with her, my man's got to make her feel special so she wants to look special.

 

[heatherrae]

snacks taste GOOD. That's all I'm saying.

 

[Tatyana]

correct me if im wrong tatyana, but i thought people should change because they want to, not because their partner prefers the look of toned,oiled, bikini clad beauties? if he wants to stay with her, my man's got to make her feel special so she wants to look special.

People change for their partners all the time.

If it is a change for the positive, is it such a bad thing?

A relationship is all about give and take, negotiating things.

I think it is great when couples start training together.

I do get where you are coming from, as there are those that approach this in a manipulative/dominating way, it is a fine line.