Why are men like this?!

[blueta2]

It seems like when men want a woman, they pull out all the stops, but once they "get her", they pull away!
Then when the woman pulls away, the guy is all over here again!

What is this about? How do you make it stop?!

 

[mrplunkey]

Because once we have them we realize they aren't that much fun in the first place!

 

[blueta2]

Really?

 

[princesa]

I keep wondering the same thing, blue!


Is it possible to meet in the middle?

 

[PICK3]

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Why are men like this?!

yeah, why don't I just give you the password to teh secret men's handbook

 

[PICK3]

asking to move in with you KNOT = pulling away



just sayin'

 

[princesa]

One of my friends said something that hit home, she said "Men love to chase! If you are the one chasing him, he is definitely chasing after someone else."

 

[mrplunkey]

Guide to Men
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old brain = spread your seed

new brain = find a mate

our emotional stuff probably comes from our new brain, because it binds us to a specific woman.

our old brain is always trying to pull us away to others.

trick is to mix it up to confuse our old brain so our new brain can do its thing. remember our old brain just wants to get laid.

mix it up = outfits, sex in weird places, new positions, new girlfriend enthusiasm, initiation

cliff's notes: trick our old, dumber brain into thinking you're a different girl while our new brain locks you in as our mate.

HTH!

 

[princesa]

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yeah, why don't I just give you the password to teh secret men's handbook

Please! You (men) don't even know what that password is. I think you guys make shit up as you go along.

 

[AFeedz]

I don't think that's true of men and women.

I had this talk with someone the other day kind of.

You're describing a relationship where one person cares more about their partner than the other. Sometimes that's the man, sometimes that's the women. I've been both the person who cares more and the person who cares less, but there is a such thing as meeting in the middle. That's the point of dating is to find it.

Successful relationships are the ones where you both give the exact same amount of shit about each other, to put it eloquently.