Why are men like this?!

[Spartacus]

It seems like when men want a woman, they pull out all the stops, but once they "get her", they pull away!
Then when the woman pulls away, the guy is all over here again!

What is this about? How do you make it stop?!

perhaps you shouldn't date teenagers
yo yo

 

[PICK3]

ololololol! @ the notion men are the only ones who change the rules when they think they set the hook

 

[Spartacus]

when I date a teenager I view it like an amusement park ride
yay yay
then the ride ends

 

[PICK3]

this thread got sum serious potential!

 

[PICK3]

Guide to Men
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old brain = spread your seed

new brain = find a mate

our emotional stuff probably comes from our new brain, because it binds us to a specific woman.

our old brain is always trying to pull us away to others.

trick is to mix it up to confuse our old brain so our new brain can do its thing. remember our old brain just wants to get laid.

mix it up = outfits, sex in weird places, new positions, new girlfriend enthusiasm, initiation

cliff's notes: trick our old, dumber brain into thinking you're a different girl while our new brain locks you in as our mate.

HTH!

weight ... my brain doesn't work anything like that



just sayin'

 

[Spartacus]

them youngsters are less hung up on the relationships longevity
they're still experimenting with their bodies
and I'm dr zhivago

 

[Spartacus]

Guide to Men
--------------

old brain = spread your seed

new brain = find a mate

our emotional stuff probably comes from our new brain, because it binds us to a specific woman.

our old brain is always trying to pull us away to others.

trick is to mix it up to confuse our old brain so our new brain can do its thing. remember our old brain just wants to get laid.

mix it up = outfits, sex in weird places, new positions, new girlfriend enthusiasm, initiation

cliff's notes: trick our old, dumber brain into thinking you're a different girl while our new brain locks you in as our mate.

HTH!

that's the coolidge effect
pick cut and paste the coolidge effect

 

[thelocal]

well i dont really date anymore if you read my other tread youd see but men usually act like that because.he realizes shes not interested no more and that in his mind make him go into chase mood ..its kinda like a push pull thing

like a kid once he gets a lets say game he plays it and beats it right? then he doesn't play it again,that doesn't mean he doesn't like or does not want that game that just means that some how along the way he lost something that motivated him to play that game,but if we take that game away he will do whatever it is to get it back to replay it,and it becomes like hes playing it for the first time..

you like this guy?you want him?

these are some hints ok

if yall go back out on a date or whatever first dress really sexy

be playfull every time he goes to kiss you or something like that dont let him do a playful umm whats the word?do a playful not yet type of thing ex.He goes to kiss you turn your head and say something like slow down tiger ,we have to finish dinner first or some other bullshit..would be called a neg but lets not get into all that

the whole idea is to get him to chase you


and when he goes to do something not let him,then youll reward him by something..complement.anything that makes you show interest then you push him back,then show interest and basically repeat





thats just one way you can use psychology to your advantage,,,if you disagree then disrgard what i said

 

[princesa]

I don't think that's true of men and women.

I had this talk with someone the other day kind of.

You're describing a relationship where one person cares more about their partner than the other. Sometimes that's the man, sometimes that's the women. I've been both the person who cares more and the person who cares less, but there is a such thing as meeting in the middle. That's the point of dating is to find it.

Successful relationships are the ones where you both give the exact same amount of shit about each other, to put it eloquently.

I'd love to believe your theory lol but in reality someone Always has the upper hand.

 

[Spartacus]

well i dont really date anymore if you read my other tread youd see but men usually act like that because.he realizes shes not interested no more and that in his mind make him go into chase mood ..its kinda like a push pull thing

like a kid once he gets a lets say game he plays it and beats it right? then he doesn't play it again,that doesn't mean he doesn't like or does not want that game that just means that some how along the way he lost something that motivated him to play that game,but if we take that game away he will do whatever it is to get it back to replay it,and it becomes like hes playing it for the first time..

you like this guy?you want him?

these are some hints ok

if yall go back out on a date or whatever first dress really sexy

be playfull every time he goes to kiss you or something like that dont let him do a playful umm whats the word?do a playful not yet type of thing ex.He goes to kiss you turn your head and say something like slow down tiger ,we have to finish dinner first or some other bullshit..would be called a neg but lets not get into all that

the whole idea is to get him to chase you


and when he goes to do something not let him,then youll reward him by something..complement.anything that makes you show interest then you push him back,then show interest and basically repeat





thats just one way you can use psychology to your advantage,,,if you disagree then disrgard what i said

why do you regard it as a battle?
fuckin' ding bat