What is the most attractive feature you find in the opposite sex?

[cindylou]

Thanks for that, the becoming an adult is really important to me as well.

I think I am quite judgemental of women who never grow up. There really isn't any less attractive than a woman who is 30 + who is still acting 'cutesy', or a man who is still acting like jack the lad.

Another deal breaker for me, well it will never get started, is someone who HAS to be in a relationship. If you have never stood on your own two feet and had a period of your life where you were single, I won't go there.

There are people who have someone lined up, so just move from one relationship into the next.

awwww I think thats what keep people young at heart!

though my attitude could change as i get older

i love seeing the little boy in my husband when he comes out. I dont ever want that to go away

 

[layinback]

that was pretty funny.

I know how a childhood like that is like. I never knew when my stepdad was going to get in the mood to beat my mother. I was a nervous wreck as a child.

me too. i have a residual anxiety that persists to this day. years of 12 step work,
healthy introspection and therapy help, but some of this shit is indelible.
being forced to look at your self in an honest light is preferable to a quite life
of desperation.

i do love me some crazy women. the sex, passion and turbulence are exhilarating.
i've dated a few gals who had their shit together and it was less than exciting.
crazy girls tend to adore and alternately denigrate.........it's a matter of timing!
when you see the hammer coming down, it's time to move on.

 

[Bikini Mod]

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me too. i have a residual anxiety that persists to this day. years of 12 step work,
healthy introspection and therapy help, but some of this shit is indelible.
being forced to look at your self in an honest light is preferable to a quite life
of desperation.

i do love me some crazy women. the sex, passion and turbulence are exhilarating.
i've dated a few gals who had their shit together and it was less than exciting.
crazy girls tend to adore and alternately denigrate.........it's a matter of timing!
when you see the hammer coming down, it's time to move on.

My father was BEYOND volatile and my mother was stoic and spoke with a forked tongue (consistently nasty).

Interestingly enough my old grump is neither of those (my ex was BOTH)... yet I still am waiting for that shoe... Maybe one of these days I will realize my husband walks softly, so softly in fact, that he doesn't wear shoes at all.

 

[miplank]

My father was BEYOND volatile and my mother was stoic and spoke with a forked tongue (consistently nasty).

Interestingly enough my old grump is neither of those (my ex was BOTH)... yet I still am waiting for that shoe... Maybe one of these days I will realize my husband walks softly, so softly in fact, that he doesn't wear shoes at all.

so your saying he has dirty feet?

 

[chesty]

the cooter, the hoo hoo, brains and commitment along with being faithful, honest, caring, and able to communicate.

 

[Oceano]

Why do women stay with guys who beat the ish outta them?

 

[Bikini Mod]

Why do women stay with guys who beat the ish outta them?

Can't tell you. I kicked my ex out after the first time he put his hands on me. I didn't give him a second chance.

 

[layinback]

My father was BEYOND volatile and my mother was stoic and spoke with a forked tongue (consistently nasty).

Interestingly enough my old grump is neither of those (my ex was BOTH)... yet I still am waiting for that shoe... Maybe one of these days I will realize my husband walks softly, so softly in fact, that he doesn't wear shoes at all.

the grump is very fortunate.

i can tell you'd be very easy to love.

 

[Tatyana]

awwww I think thats what keep people young at heart!

though my attitude could change as i get older

i love seeing the little boy in my husband when he comes out. I dont ever want that to go away

If that is all he had though? The little boy act?

It would wear thin really quickly.

There is a difference between mucking about and having a giggle every now and then and never growing up.

 

[stosstruppe]

A good sense of humor....I could never get along with a woman who was serious all the time.

+1

Sense of humour is muchos attractive.