This is why every woman should have their own personal manual to give to their b/f, husbands... too damn comlicated ! Im a spare of the moment type of guy sometimes and what if I dont wanna sit there and take the time to "heat her oven". Thats bullshit, lets put the shoe on the other foot for once in a while. Like say your sittin there on your couch watching tv and your g/f comes over and just starts on ya. Its great ! Romantic sex is great as well, but spare of the moment times can be just as good. I used to date a spare of the moment type of girl, she used to even message me on occasions telling me what shes plans on doing to me when I came over. I loved it. It made it fun and romantic, to me at least.