want to get more sex from the gf

[crew9]

Maybe you aren't emotionally satisfying her?

 

[Spartacus]

fixing her is gonna be harder than replacing her

so get a 2nd girlfriend till she finds out and dumps you. then get another one. keep doing that till you find what you want

thatll be 5 bucks thanks

they use dollars down under?

 

[heatherrae]

No amount of cajoling or talking a woman into sex will make her horny.

Let me ask you this: If a big ugly lady came up to you and gave you a long whiney speech about why your dick should be hard for her, your dick wouldn't get hard, would it? Why not? BECAUSE SHE IS NOT APPEALING TO WHAT TURNS YOU ON.

You are trying to talk her into it or to be very good sexually isn't hitting her hot buttons. 99% of good sex is in the mind first. You have to make her feel special, loved, safe, etc. first and foremost. Treating her like the only value you place on her is the frequency of your sex together will have the opposite of your intended effect.

 

[Forge]

lol im not actually begging its just annoying sometimes and im pretty spontaneous and i try to take control but when i try to kiss and touch her she will say no and push me off of her. When we do have sex i usually focus on her and after she orgasms she kinda leaves me hangin sometimes and im stuck sitting there horny and with a boner

Wow, she is either:

1. not horny at all and has a very low sex drive, or

2. just not that interested in you

You have to either find a way to get her in the mood, or live with the bad sex, or leave her for someone who wants to please you. An omen of this magnitude is a very bad sign in a relationship, actions speak louder than words bro.

 

[chris350]

no she is not selfish at all and is the nicest person and we have a great relationship in every other aspect and I love her very much. I just wish we had sex more often

 

[Freddie de Lux]

my gf and i only have sex like 2 times a week. Some of that has do with busy schedules etc.. i feel like i almost have to beg for it to get some when i want it and some times she will only go for like 5 minutes which is basically not even worth it and then do nothing sexual for the whole rest of the day. she says girls arent as horny as guys which i think is BS and whenever she does want sex Im always ready to go... i was thinking about turning her down the next time she wants some so she can see what it feels like if i start turning her down sometimes and have her start to beg me when she really wants it.

Twice a week... I think I hate you.

In any case, Darling, if you deny her sex to try and prove a point, even though you are in the mood, it is almost certain to backfire: she will feel rejected and will probably feel uncomfortable making an overture the next time around. Could you give her more foreplay to put her in the mood? Kiss her neck, slide your hand under her skirt...

 

[velvett]

lol im not actually begging its just annoying sometimes and im pretty spontaneous and i try to take control but when i try to kiss and touch her she will say no and push me off of her. When we do have sex i usually focus on her and after she orgasms she kinda leaves me hangin sometimes and im stuck sitting there horny and with a boner

Ok, that's really bad.

I was going to ask if you verbal ask for sex or if you initiate physically but you just answered the question.

Unless she has some past mental/emotional baggage (abuse, rape or religion) that prevents her from enjoying sexual activity I don't see your relationship surviving much longer (unless you have the patience of a saint).

While I hate the idea putting so much importance of sex to determine the success of a relationship, a part of sex is affection and when some is constantly physically pushing you away they will eventually push you away emotionally as well and the relationship will die.

 

[Tweakle]

If she's on some kinds of BC that can lower sex drive (the ones that reduce androgens are the worst AFAIK)

but it sounds like you're in need of a new girl. Anyone pushing you off is gonna have some major problems

 

[CENTURION44]

no sex = bad sign for the relationship.

exactly...might be time to reevaluate wether or not shes the one..and if not..move on...never settle or try to change someone..

 

[Freddie de Lux]

Could you entice her by letting her use a strap on or put a finger (or two) up your toockas? Seriously, it would spice up the sex. Some women get very turned on about that.