Virginity -religion aside

[OMEGA]

yeah, i really think the whole gradual physical relationship is the way to go. I mean i dont understand the guys that are sexing women they havent even kissed yet.
Good to see someone who thinks the same way.

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I think people have been duped, and are tircked into treateing people as objects, some say its evil, some say its simply the cosumer culture we have....
I belive Evil exists and can influence people if they dont fight back....
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So are swans the one of the only animals that mate for life? I'm pretty sure others do too, right?

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lots of Species mate for Life
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I dont know yet if I'll make virginity a requirement in the female partner that I marry. .
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keep your side of the fence clean do what you know is good
and listen to it as if it were a life saver.........
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[OMEGA]

years from now you'll look back on this and wonder why the hell you didn't get some teenage ass while it was still on the menu. And college ass too,

thats a bunch of bullshit..........

no offense...

I passed that point and am VERY happy I only made a handfull of mistakes

 

[foreigngirl]

That's like the second time I've heard that. Wtf does it even mean! lol

putting it on a throne, giving it too much significance

 

[Deleted member 33117]

I tend to agree that he is making too much out of this. The Catholic priest example is a good one. Suppressing one's sexually is unnatural and very emotionally healthy in the long run. Sooner or later everyone has to have an outlet for that pent up sexual energy and fustration.

 

[foreigngirl]

I tend to agree that he is making too much out of this. The Catholic priest example is a good one. Suppressing one's sexually is unnatural and very emotionally healthy in the long run. Sooner or later everyone has to have an outlet for that pent up sexual energy and fustration.

the ONLY thing I am worried about is that there is hardly any virgin girls left from age, lets say 18 and up (I know they start having sex way before that)

 

[alien amp pharm]

Just remember, most people who brag about banging chicks left and right are usually full of shit and/or have more std's than I have fingers.

You are trying to allow people to influence you. That's the worst mistake you can make. Let them live their lives their way and you live your your way.

Growing up I use to try to be like other people, only to find out that they are more fucked up and have more problems than I did. Now I couldn't be happier living for myself and being who I am.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Oh and remember, typically the more you do OPPOSITE of everyone else, the better off you are.

Don't follow the herd.

 

[jackangel]

lol at fg not getting the 40YOV reference. ah, it could happen. don't mind me.

but fyxgel, i just don't think your reasons are built on foundations of air.

i can understand being a person of extremes...but the way you look at this is odd. for example, it doesn't make any sense to me to ask what you gain by being with just 2 women, for example. obviously, you're gaining the chance to be with 2 people that you hopefully care about, or even love. or at the least, enjoy.

and this notion of holding onto something just to be unique and different...is extremely dubious. i can understand wanting to be different, but only in a "better" way. in others ways, i want to be the same and feel like i belong to the rest of the world. being different in a way that doesn't help you or make you better, but denies you a lot of fun or potential happiness, that isn't a good kind of different.

so you have to determine if it really is good for you, or if it makes you a person of higher character. maybe it does. but that's tricky, as it's pretty much all in your mind.

 

[foreigngirl]

lol at fg not getting the 40YOV reference. ah, it could happen. don't mind me.

what?

 

[Frisky]

If you find someone you really care for, someone you plan on spending your life with... nothing wrong with it. Marriage is a man made thing, Who says you have to appear before another mortal to vow oath to someone else. If you vow to be loyal to that person, your word is your word. I see you really put this on high standards, and for that I applaude you, (in a good way) I didn't lose my virginity until I was a 18 and it was after being with someone for a long time. Don't do it just to do it, but if indeed it does happen, don't think less of yourself for it. You can give yourself to someone without a paper saying so, as long as you are honest and truthful...