Virginity -religion aside

[Tweakle]

years from now you'll look back on this and wonder why the hell you didn't get some teenage ass while it was still on the menu. And college ass too, it's all slipping by you as you waste your life on EF. Tight little booties start to sag as they hit their late 20's and by the time you finally get a taste of it those once perky teenage titties will be looking all National Geographic.

but on the plus side you probably won't ever need a doc to burn anything off your mint condition pee-pee, so I say stay home and try to clock up another thousand posts

 

[Sub-Zero]

As most EF peeps know, I'm a virgin (for religious reasons). And I've been strongly encouraged by many on here to loser my virginity, and been told that religious laws dont apply to sex anymore.

Anyway, I wanted to have a discussion about virginity without religion being involved, so here it goes:

Obvious many people do indeed care about the number of people their partner has banged. Whores tend to be less preferred in general. Ive also heard virgins sometimes are less preferred. But some also say that a person who keeps their virginity by choice is cool, and has something special to give to the first person they have sex with.

Lets get real now, I'm 22. I've kept my virginity for this long, if I gave it up now, wouldnt I be a loser, since all my years of remaining a virgin at youth would have gone to waste? I mean I might as well save it so that I can marry another virgin chick, and we can be special for each other right?

I tend to believe in extremes. Either soak up all the sex you can and be completely saturated with hotties in your pants, or be a virgin, like a pure diamond, and the desire of every woman who wants to take your v-card.

If I just pick the middle of the road, and have sex now with a couple chicks, what do I have to gain? I'll have missed out on both the good extremes.

sex is overrated, but with that, so is saving it when you feel like you wanna lose it.

if you have found someone u wanan do it with, do it. just be safe and have fun, and dont expect too much out of it.

you can have sex without being a whore and being irresponsible

 

[Sub-Zero]

bro do what YOU FEEL AND NOBODY ELSE cause thats whats going to matter. most guys on here are going to tell you to get laid, get pussy your a fag, etc etc.... dont listen to them just do what you feel you should. if you find someone speacial and you feel you should then go for it. if you want to save it and give it to "the one" then do that just dont be pressured into doing something you will regret cause you didnt make the decision and did it because everyone else told you to.

your the one that will have to live with the decision not them.

i think this is what i meant to say

 

[Bikini Mod]

You have to do what pleases you and not simply go along with something because others think it is cool whether we are talking having sex or abstinence. It is YOUR body afterall. You should share it with whomever you deem worthy. Having said that, I honestly dont get what is "so cool" about only ever having been intimate with one person your whole life. I mean if both peeps are happy with that = GREAT. But there is a wholelotta sex to be had between one and one hundred partners. Do you get what I am saying?

No need to go to extremes.

IMHO sex is a GIFT to be shared between two mutually consenting adults.

 

[Lestat]

At some point it is respected, at another point it just makes people feel weird and creepy. Imagine a chick in her mid 20s who has slept with 2-3 dudes, then meets you. You would make her feel like a slut for one, and she'd be put into the role of teacher, which a lot of women don't like. The man should be the take charge and dominant one in bed, but how would you be able to do that with no experience is what she is thinking.

All religious reasons aside, I feel you should just do what feels right. If you start dating a woman seriously and exclusively, I would think you'd feel some desire, or pressure, or both to have sex with her after a few months at the most. If it felt right, go for it, no need to hold out. You never know, one girl you date may end up being your wife.

 

[bigmann245]

At some point it is respected, at another point it just makes people feel weird and creepy. Imagine a chick in her mid 20s who has slept with 2-3 dudes, then meets you. You would make her feel like a slut for one, and she'd be put into the role of teacher, which a lot of women don't like. The man should be the take charge and dominant one in bed, but how would you be able to do that with no experience is what she is thinking.

All religious reasons aside, I feel you should just do what feels right. If you start dating a woman seriously and exclusively, I would think you'd feel some desire, or pressure, or both to have sex with her after a few months at the most. If it felt right, go for it, no need to hold out. You never know, one girl you date may end up being your wife.

i dont agree with that. my first time i was 17 and the girl was younger but she was more experienced. how experienced i dont and didnt care cause all my friends were having sex since they were like 13 and put a lot of pressure on me to just do it so i did. but SHE taught me things and i learned a lot and surprised her when it lasted about 30 minutes. she actually thought i lied about it being my first time. but thats besides the point. i dont think it matters who's "dominant" in bed. at leased not to me anyway.

 

[Wulfgar]

Your putting the pussy up on a pedestal

 

[Rabid_Goose]

Your putting the pussy up on a pedestal

That's like the second time I've heard that. Wtf does it even mean! lol


Anywho, I don't rate a person on how many they had sex with, to do so is close minded I think. I rate them on how skanky the person they had sex with. Sex is a pleasureable experience and is nothing at all sacred, least to me. Other people see it as some Holy thing they need to keep only for certain people. If you see it like that, do it.

If you're holding onto it because you think you would be a loser after falling off your V-wagon at 22, then that is crazy, man. Sex is great, I was a virgin till 19, and married the girl I had sex with. She didn't like having to be the one I learned with. I imagine a woman at 25-26 defintly will not like it.

 

[CrazyRussian]

Yeah...call me a sacrilegious bastard but I don't see sex as something that is "sacred" and "should be saved". Instead, I see it as a very enjoyable activity (mentally, physically) that I'd do as often as I had the chance to.

 

[CrazyRussian]

Also, life is way too short (not to mention sex is only good within a certain period of that short life) to neglect one of your primal needs because you want it to be special. I think after a few times it gets to be pretty much the same thing anyways, so the thrill comes not only in just doing it but in doing it with someone new.