To the guys dating older women.............

[gonelifting]

You're not wasting your time. If you guys connect, it's all good.

I married 2 years younger than me. Just happened that way, but I've ALWAYS dated older than me. Always. This one is some of the first I've had younger. I was mature for my age I think. That's why the older was better for me. i didn't like games, and the older chicks understood that more.

The minds/maturity gotta match too, and age CAN help with that. Good luck

 

[FreakMonster]

why would this really matter if you loved someone and have things in common? 10 years in not much anything over that is harder

Yea I guess I'm just freaking out because the last relationship didn't work out.

 

[jh1]

When I was 21, I dated a girl that was 28. 3 Years... she was 31, I was 24 - it didn't work out.

When I was 28 I dated a girl that was 19 - we had a little girl, got married. That will last about 3.5 years. I'll let you know the official length later.

 

[gonelifting]

20 and 30 is much different than 30 and 40.

 

[jh1]

20 and 30 is much different than 30 and 40.

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You can say that again.

 

[digimon7068]

i'm married to one. . .she's 39. . .of course i'm 42

 

[ponyfitness]

My g/f is 4 years older and she's fine - plus I find dealing with older women easier because they already know what they want and there aren't nearly as many mind games or emotional crap. Plus they are usually better in bed.

 

[katdav]

I think as you get older a lot also depends on fitness and activity level. I have a friend who is in her late 40's, her husband is 10 yrs older and he has slowed way down. It really bugs her..... They've been married for 27 yrs.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I have for the most part dated older than me, though there were rare exceptions where I dated younger.

My first husband was about 6 years older - total ass. But then again I was barely 21 when we got together. So WTF did I know?

My current (and last) husband is 16 years older and I couldnt have even dreamed him. HE IS THAT GOOD TO ME! This time round I was 39 when I married.

 

[DannoMight]

My fiance is 3 years older than me and we've been going strong for over 3 years now and we have 2 wonderful kids and I couldn't imagine my life without them. I am currently 26. We will be getting married around next spring.