Wow, Easbah1. Hadn't seen this thread in a while.
I have changed a few things... I did move out... which drastically changed her approach to things. I got me a few shirts... from BUCKLE of all places... that fit pretty nice, but not painted on. And I started to act like what she does doesn't bother me anymore. And she's REALLY mellowed out.
I have been a bit more social with females, and paid more attention to how they talk to/look at me. Not that I'm arrogant... but hell... I've turned a few heads.
Last night at a wrestling show we did... I had girls all over the place. It was crazy. Asking to take pictures with me while I was flexing, and everything. It was cool.
So my confidence is getting on track in a big way. She's now asking for all my stuff to be taken out of storage, and put back in. She wants to take a trip to Vegas. She wants a ring to put on her finger to deter guys from even asking, because they'll figure she's married.
I'm not taking it as she's totally changed, and it's set in stone... Just taking it a day at a time. If it lasts... fantastic. If not... I have no choice but to take the train and move on.