Nw'sgirl said:
I heard that I should take my ideal body weight (135lb) times 10 and that should be my min/average calorie intake a day... (1350) does this sound right ?
That would be too low a kcaloric value for you initially; you may not like this answer, but the best way to
permanently lose bodyfat is by losing it gradually. Ideally, you want to train your body to live at a new fat setpoint and not fight to go back to the old bodyweight at the drop of a hat. To do this, you lose 5-10 lbs., and maintain that weight for 4-6 weeks (the longer the better). Once your body has adjusted, you can try to lose another 5-10 lbs., hold your new weight another 4-6 weeks, etc., and continue losing weight in this manner. Yes, it may take a while, but you didn't put the fat on overnight, either. And, your chances of keeping the weight off permanently increase greatly.
With this in mind, at a 10 lb. initial weight loss, your "ideal" bodyweight would be 160 lbs (170 - 10). 10x160 = 1600 kcals/day. If you drop kcals too fast, your body will revolt and go into starvation mode. So, you want to keep them as high as possible and still lose 1-2 lbs./week.
Now, if you were to actually start lifting and increase your muscle mass, you may actually get to the point where you could increase your kcals and continue to lose weight. That's the best of all worlds! Of course, you have to figure out that muscle is your friend, not your enemy, and no matter how hard you train in the gym - even if you're a freak of nature - you're not going to build a lot of muscle. Unless you started using AAS - even then, you have to live, eat, train, and have the genetics for significant muscle development.