Agathe said:
I found a spot which was similar to what u guys discribe and she scratched my fuckin neck and made it bleed pretty much but there was still no orgasm i don't think. I did this till my hand pretty much fell off. Can you always tell that she cums from a g-spot orgasm? She said she has never had that happened so I dont think she has actually ograsmed. She also believes that she's one of those types that can't do it cause her best friend can't do it either and she's 27.
What's up with the age thing? how does that make a difference even though I hear it a lot.
I'm still confused. Can you ladies tell me how I can tell if she orgasmed or not from a gspot?
Ok while some women ARE different and predisposed to one type of orgasm or another (my wife cant clit orgasm...go figure), on AVERAGE (generalization here) many women don't fully mature to the point of having regular, strong orgasms til about age 28. That's why 30+ year olds are great in bed (and older yet still). Until things start to dry out later in life for the ladies, things work MUCH smoother in bed for them AFTER they start to mature into that "orgasmic age". Orgasms for women start to become much better, easier and more intense from about 25 onwards. 28 seems to be a magic number which may or may not coincide with the old bio-clock kicking in.
For some women their bodies have to LEARN to orgasm. It takes practice (which really is worth it!!!). Trying a couple of times just doesnt cut it. They have to try, and try again. Often once they actually start to be able to masturbate to orgasm, it gets easier for them each succesive time.
There are women out there who've never orgasmed until well into their 50's just because they didn't "teach" their bodies until then (and my heart goes out to them).
And, ladies correct me if I'm wrong here, but women do not "ejaculate" like those porn movies where they look like tasty water fountains spewing juice 3 feet out their hole. Women get wet and sort of "seep" fluid to facilitate sex, more and more as they get exited, some more than others. Later in life this effect often "dries up" and lube is need frequently to allow for non-painful sex.
I've given out plenty of O's and have yet to see some lady "spurt" fluid in my face like a fountain. I'd love to have that happen, but I think those porn flicks are having these women fake orgasm and contract their muscles after filling their vaginas with water or something.
Am I getting this right ladies??
Be mature about it with your girlfriend and be patient and it will eventually come (pardon the pun...lol). Believe me, it's worth it for you (for everything you'll learn) and DEFINATELY worth it for her. Experiment too, there is no "one" method (although circles are a common method with success) and it may be different for her. I knew a chick that couldn't cum without something up her ass. Just wouldn't happen otherwise. Another couldn't cum if something was touching her tits...go figure. EVERYONE is different. Find out what works. Start with the ladies suggestions on this board.
Good luck.
(I'm going to go masturbate now......)