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So apperently there is 3 different ways a woman can orgasm

Agathe

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The only way that my gf achieves orgasms right now is through my private region rubbing agaisnt hers(clit), friction I guess. I tried reading up on g-spot and different techniques to make her cum but it doesnt happen. Maybe I havent found it yet. She says she barely every ograsms and to this day she doesnt even really know if she did or not. The way she put it is that at some point she really really enjoys it and thats what she thinks the g-spot orgasm is. No tingling feeling in her body, plus she says the way she orgasms now is better which I think means that she really hasnt orgasmed from a gspot. Am I right? I just want her to experience it cause the way they put it is that it's the greatest feeling in the world. Plus she has never really cummed or left wet spots in bed so that's another reason I think she has never reached g-spot orgasm.

She has only been with 3 guys and tells me that this is the best way she has reached an orgasm cause at least this way she knows it. When she masturbates this is the one that she gets apperently.


We are both 20 and rookies but whatever, I'm confused so if someone could enlighten me a little I'd appreciate it.


Yea and girls if you could describe the difference between the 3 that would be great.
 
3 different ways,

clit stimulation
vaginal
gspot

so far I can only make her achieve first and second sometimes but I guess she likes the first more. I tried everything when itcomes to gpsot and it just aint happening.
 
hamstershaver said:
klu gets off from anal where is that on your list?
omg hush
 
OH YES......it's there....


roundish......sizewise between a nickel and a quarter

slightly spongey feeling....gets more rigid with pressure friction

OH LOL


I mean in general -lol
 
The Shadow said:
LOL

OH YES......it's there....


roundish......sizewise between a nickel and a quarter

slightly spongey feeling....gets more rigid with pressure friction
oh dear
shhhhhh
 
The Shadow said:
LOL

OH YES......it's there....


roundish......sizewise between a nickel and a quarter

slightly spongey feeling....gets more rigid with pressure friction
im glad i dont know what you are talking about
 
Agathe said:
The only way that my gf achieves orgasms right now is through my private region rubbing agaisnt hers(clit), friction I guess. I tried reading up on g-spot and different techniques to make her cum but it doesnt happen. Maybe I havent found it yet. She says she barely every ograsms and to this day she doesnt even really know if she did or not. The way she put it is that at some point she really really enjoys it and thats what she thinks the g-spot orgasm is. No tingling feeling in her body, plus she says the way she orgasms now is better which I think means that she really hasnt orgasmed from a gspot. Am I right? I just want her to experience it cause the way they put it is that it's the greatest feeling in the world. Plus she has never really cummed or left wet spots in bed so that's another reason I think she has never reached g-spot orgasm.

She has only been with 3 guys and tells me that this is the best way she has reached an orgasm cause at least this way she knows it. When she masturbates this is the one that she gets apperently.


We are both 20 and rookies but whatever, I'm confused so if someone could enlighten me a little I'd appreciate it.


Yea and girls if you could describe the difference between the 3 that would be great.

She's 20? Give her another 5-8 years and she'l start to cum like a dog.
 
Cumming is good.


Carry on.
 
awittyusername said:
Lock this thread!!!! Everyone knows women can't have orgasms!!

Oh, I have a good comment to this, but I will probably piss someone off (again). I will let this one go.

Yes, we do.
 
In case anyone missed it.
the deal with circles......use them all over a womans body.....light circular touches around the breasts....stomach..lower back....

when you go down.....position her legs so that your arms go between her calves and hamstrings.....this allows you to use your hands AND tongue simultaneously....

begin with a sharp pointed tongue....in circles on the outside of the hood.....switch to a flattened softer tongue and make long strokes with the tongue all the way up and down her opening...while doing this...use a thumb to gently massage the clit in the circular motions.....

at this point listen to her breathing and pay attention to how her body responds.....slide two fingers in and turn the fingers up and make a "come hither" motion along the G-spot while you then gently suck on the clit

she will EXPLODE.

rinse, lather, repeat...
 
velvett said:
In case anyone missed it.


rinse, lather, repeat...


I thought that was taught on Day 1? What are the youngsters learning these days, anyway?!?


:rolleyes:
 
ChefWide said:
I thought that was taught on Day 1? What are the youngsters learning these days, anyway?!?


:rolleyes:

OMG please tell me day one starts AFTER you move out of your parents house...

:worried:

My son better not ever mention circles... not even draw them .. or hell run in circles.
 
Agathe said:
The only way that my gf achieves orgasms right now is through my private region rubbing agaisnt hers(clit), friction I guess. I tried reading up on g-spot and different techniques to make her cum but it doesnt happen. Maybe I havent found it yet. She says she barely every ograsms and to this day she doesnt even really know if she did or not. The way she put it is that at some point she really really enjoys it and thats what she thinks the g-spot orgasm is. No tingling feeling in her body, plus she says the way she orgasms now is better which I think means that she really hasnt orgasmed from a gspot. Am I right? I just want her to experience it cause the way they put it is that it's the greatest feeling in the world. Plus she has never really cummed or left wet spots in bed so that's another reason I think she has never reached g-spot orgasm.

She has only been with 3 guys and tells me that this is the best way she has reached an orgasm cause at least this way she knows it. When she masturbates this is the one that she gets apperently.


We are both 20 and rookies but whatever, I'm confused so if someone could enlighten me a little I'd appreciate it.


Yea and girls if you could describe the difference between the 3 that would be great.


*sigh* I'm such a funsucker.

ASSume she's on her back and you are not. Hold your hand palm up. Are you looking at your palm? Good.

Stick one (or two, whatever) fingers in her hole. Can you still see your palm? Good.

Now, use your finger to touch the top of her vagina... the fingers inside the hole. If you move your fingers from side to side, rubbing the wall of her vagina, you should feel an area that is 'rougher' textured than the rest. It might feel like you would imagine a wet sponge would feel if you rubbed your fingers gently across it. Feel the difference from the rest of the vagina? Yippee! You've found the g-spot!

The difference? Clit orgasms happen with external friction against the... clit. She would feel this with you playing with her, perhaps with your nutsack hitting her clit during doggie style, and in some man on top positions where the man in the boat gets rubbed.

Gspot orgasms happen in many positions where your penis rubs against the front (ie: belly side) of her vagina. Cowgirl/reverse cowgirl is a good one.

Vaginal orgasms... I would think this is similar to a gspot orgasm. I've never really tried to dissect where my cum came from.

PS: you realize you could have googled all this information, right?
 
Frisky said:
OMG please tell me day one starts AFTER you move out of your parents house...

:worried:

My son better not ever mention circles... not even draw them .. or hell run in circles.


If he's older than 7, I'm sure he already knows a lot more than you think. Or maybe my friend and I were just fucking perverts at a young age. I was stealing my dads playboys when I was 7
 
Delinquent said:
If he's older than 7, I'm sure he already knows a lot more than you think. Or maybe my friend and I were just fucking perverts at a young age. I was stealing my dads playboys when I was 7

Oh I know he knows WAY TO MUCH!

he's 10

the one good thing is he talks to me about everything he knows.. he's not shy about it at all. No of course this puts mommy dearest in some really weird situations.. LOL but i answer all of his questions to the best of my ability and without going overboard.. I mean I don't have one of those man tools so I can only fill him in on so much.. LOL

I just don't want to have to answer about circles... Not now anyway. :worried:
 
I found a spot which was similar to what u guys discribe and she scratched my fuckin neck and made it bleed pretty much but there was still no orgasm i don't think. I did this till my hand pretty much fell off. Can you always tell that she cums from a g-spot orgasm? She said she has never had that happened so I dont think she has actually ograsmed. She also believes that she's one of those types that can't do it cause her best friend can't do it either and she's 27.


What's up with the age thing? how does that make a difference even though I hear it a lot.

I'm still confused. Can you ladies tell me how I can tell if she orgasmed or not from a gspot?
 
by the way, I'm not pressuring her or anything. We just talk about it sometimes and I want it to happen sometime
 
The Shadow said:
There is NO doubt.....if she wonders...she hasnt.

and if she's not completely at ease and comfortable she 9/10 won't cause her body will tense up...
 
omfg..

Ok so I was gonna try to get a picture for you.. you know link and some other info.

Well this is what I find..

bwhahaha

http://www.findthegspot.com/
 
this is pathetic I know, but she think its impossible so I wanna prove her wrong.

Anyway, we are about as comfortable as it can get so I dont think there's any pressure or anything like that.
 
Agathe said:
She also believes that she's one of those types that can't do it cause her best friend can't do it either and she's 27.

Google is your friend.

http://www.mwsexual.com/readingroom/articles/female-orgasm.htm

My favorite part from this article is:

Some women rarely experience orgasm, or may never do so. If you are one of these women, try not to think of yourself as "non-orgasmic." Rather, try to think of yourself as "pre-orgasmic," as a woman whose range of sexual pleasures could be enhanced.

Pre-orgasmic.... in other words she just hasn't found a lay that knows how to make her orgasm yet. ummmm, not saying that's the problem in your case, of course.

Honestly, my advice would be to buy her a vibe and let her experiment with herself if she is comfortable enough with her body. When SHE finds the magic spot, she can show you where it is. Or if she is not comfortable enough to play alone, use the vibe to experiment. There are plenty out there that are designed for gspot stimulation.
 
insert two fingers....turn them pad side up...like you are making a "come here" motion.....you will find the area just up and behind the pubic bone..usually between 10 and 12 o clock
 
The Shadow said:
insert two fingers....turn them pad side up...like you are making a "come here" motion.....you will find the area just up and behind the pubic bone..usually between 10 and 12 o clock
oh dear

oh dear
gulp
 
The Shadow said:
insert two fingers....turn them pad side up...like you are making a "come here" motion.....you will find the area just up and behind the pubic bone..usually between 10 and 12 o clock

Okay, yeah, um . . . . I forgot what I was going to say.


Someone is a very lucky woman. :qt:
 
The Shadow said:
insert two fingers....turn them pad side up...like you are making a "come here" motion.....you will find the area just up and behind the pubic bone..usually between 10 and 12 o clock


I'm working on it
 
aright so can you just answer this simple question. If she orgasms from a gspot she will ejeculate right?

That's when we'll both know, am I right or wrong?
 
I find it feels like little bumps and rises when she is getting closer to orgasm

The Shadow, woman should thank you all around the world, you made somebodys night VERY special

Oh and dont forget the "other" hole :supercool
 
Gguy9 said:
I find it feels like little bumps and rises when she is getting closer to orgasm

The Shadow, woman should thank you all around the world, you made somebodys night VERY special

Oh and dont forget the "other" hole :supercool


I acutlaly found something like that
 
Agathe said:
I found a spot which was similar to what u guys discribe and she scratched my fuckin neck and made it bleed pretty much but there was still no orgasm i don't think. I did this till my hand pretty much fell off. Can you always tell that she cums from a g-spot orgasm? She said she has never had that happened so I dont think she has actually ograsmed. She also believes that she's one of those types that can't do it cause her best friend can't do it either and she's 27.


What's up with the age thing? how does that make a difference even though I hear it a lot.

I'm still confused. Can you ladies tell me how I can tell if she orgasmed or not from a gspot?

Ok while some women ARE different and predisposed to one type of orgasm or another (my wife cant clit orgasm...go figure), on AVERAGE (generalization here) many women don't fully mature to the point of having regular, strong orgasms til about age 28. That's why 30+ year olds are great in bed (and older yet still). Until things start to dry out later in life for the ladies, things work MUCH smoother in bed for them AFTER they start to mature into that "orgasmic age". Orgasms for women start to become much better, easier and more intense from about 25 onwards. 28 seems to be a magic number which may or may not coincide with the old bio-clock kicking in.

For some women their bodies have to LEARN to orgasm. It takes practice (which really is worth it!!!). Trying a couple of times just doesnt cut it. They have to try, and try again. Often once they actually start to be able to masturbate to orgasm, it gets easier for them each succesive time.

There are women out there who've never orgasmed until well into their 50's just because they didn't "teach" their bodies until then (and my heart goes out to them).

And, ladies correct me if I'm wrong here, but women do not "ejaculate" like those porn movies where they look like tasty water fountains spewing juice 3 feet out their hole. Women get wet and sort of "seep" fluid to facilitate sex, more and more as they get exited, some more than others. Later in life this effect often "dries up" and lube is need frequently to allow for non-painful sex.

I've given out plenty of O's and have yet to see some lady "spurt" fluid in my face like a fountain. I'd love to have that happen, but I think those porn flicks are having these women fake orgasm and contract their muscles after filling their vaginas with water or something.

Am I getting this right ladies??

Be mature about it with your girlfriend and be patient and it will eventually come (pardon the pun...lol). Believe me, it's worth it for you (for everything you'll learn) and DEFINATELY worth it for her. Experiment too, there is no "one" method (although circles are a common method with success) and it may be different for her. I knew a chick that couldn't cum without something up her ass. Just wouldn't happen otherwise. Another couldn't cum if something was touching her tits...go figure. EVERYONE is different. Find out what works. Start with the ladies suggestions on this board.

Good luck.

(I'm going to go masturbate now......)
 
Griz1 said:
And, ladies correct me if I'm wrong here, but women do not "ejaculate" like those porn movies where they look like tasty water fountains spewing juice 3 feet out their hole. Women get wet and sort of "seep" fluid to facilitate sex, more and more as they get exited, some more than others. Later in life this effect often "dries up" and lube is need frequently to allow for non-painful sex.

I've given out plenty of O's and have yet to see some lady "spurt" fluid in my face like a fountain. I'd love to have that happen, but I think those porn flicks are having these women fake orgasm and contract their muscles after filling their vaginas with water or something.

Am I getting this right ladies??

Maybe about the porn, but not about the rest. LOL.

Women CAN ejaculate. It just takes a very intense orgasm for it to happen. I have had it happen a handful of times, not many... and it's not "reproduceable"... meaning I can't just will it to happen.

here's a quote from the link I posted earlier in this thread:

When orgasm occurs, some women experience an "ejaculatory" response in which a small amount of fluid is expelled from glands located just above the vaginal entrance. This fluid is not urine, but a special substance chemically similar to the man's pre-ejaculate. Only about 25% of women ever experience this "ejaculation." Those who do should not feel embarrassed by it. Trying to stop the ejaculation will only lessen your pleasure, and may well prevent you from having orgasms at all.

I wish I could have it more often. It was truly a mind blowing experience.
 
Griz1 said:
So you're saying it's all wrong? Clearly it doesnt apply to you. Your one of the lucky ones. I'm glad to hear it!

http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=generalization

ROFL

YOU asked if you were right, AND asked to be corrected if you were wrong. Since you asked, I answered you. I know from personal experience AND, AND... here's the kicker... I posted a link (that's the 2nd quote) from a PhD who has written about women's orgasms.

Here's the article the quote came from: http://www.mwsexual.com/readingroom/articles/female-orgasm.htm . If you want to attack his credentials and say that women don't ejacualte, please take that up with him. I don't know for a fact, but I'm ASSuming that if he included it in a paper about women's orgasms, I'm probably not one of just a handful of lucky ones. In fact, according to him... about 1 in 4 women get that glorious opportunity.

And don't get pissy with me just because you haven't had a woman squirt in your face.
 
aandd said:
ROFL

YOU asked if you were right, AND asked to be corrected if you were wrong. Since you asked, I answered you. I know from personal experience AND, AND... here's the kicker... I posted a link (that's the 2nd quote) from a PhD who has written about women's orgasms.

Here's the article the quote came from: http://www.mwsexual.com/readingroom/articles/female-orgasm.htm . If you want to attack his credentials and say that women don't ejacualte, please take that up with him. I don't know for a fact, but I'm ASSuming that if he included it in a paper about women's orgasms, I'm probably not one of just a handful of lucky ones. In fact, according to him... about 1 in 4 women get that glorious opportunity.

And don't get pissy with me just because you haven't had a woman squirt in your face.

First off, who's gettin pissy. and YOU said I was right about the porn and wrong about the rest of the stuff (check your english).

I asked: "Am I getting this right ladies??"
You answered: "Maybe about the porn, but not about the rest. LOL"

So you were effectively telling me everything else i said was bullshit, further, you never addressed it. Correct me on some details but don't tell me that the complete text of what I wrote is "bullshit" without support for it all.

I'm not the one getting pissy here. I made a generalization regarding age and learning to orgasm. By your statement you think that is wrong, well once again look up the word generalization cause you are one of the lucky few to whom that DOESN'T apply

Clearly, considering the fact that AS A GENERALIZATION, most women I've spoken to regarding the subject matter agree that it's a general rule with exceptions. I actually know a woman who's been orgasming since she was 12 on a regular basis but she hardly fits the generalization.)

Please read closer next time.

And once again, I stand corrected on the ejaculate thing...sheesh!
 
a women hasn't had an orgasm till her whole uterus contracts
 
Griz1 said:
First off, who's gettin pissy. and YOU said I was right about the porn and wrong about the rest of the stuff (check your english).

I asked: "Am I getting this right ladies??"
You answered: "Maybe about the porn, but not about the rest. LOL"

So you were effectively telling me everything else i said was bullshit, further, you never addressed it. Correct me on some details but don't tell me that the complete text of what I wrote is "bullshit" without support for it all.

I'm not the one getting pissy here. I made a generalization regarding age and learning to orgasm. By your statement you think that is wrong, well once again look up the word generalization cause you are one of the lucky few to whom that DOESN'T apply

Clearly, considering the fact that AS A GENERALIZATION, most women I've spoken to regarding the subject matter agree that it's a general rule with exceptions. I actually know a woman who's been orgasming since she was 12 on a regular basis but she hardly fits the generalization.)

Please read closer next time.

And once again, I stand corrected on the ejaculate thing...sheesh!


My bad then. I was only referring to the rest of the ejaculatory reference, because that was that was what you were asking for ladies input on ("correct me if I'm wrong" seems to be directly relating to your following statements, re: ejaculation - and not to the rest of your post) . One of my previous posts actually concurs with some of the rest of your post (ie: masturbation and getting comfortable with her own body).

25% seems, to me, to be statically significant and too large percentage to say that MOST women don't. That would be open to interpretation of 'most', though and since I made a C in statistics I'm probably not the authority there.

As for my english - I'm typing on a message board, not working on a grad paper. As long as the basic grammar is taken care of, I rarely quibble about the rest (such as run-on sentences in relplies).
 
so anyway, how are clit orgasms? they good? cause i can make her do that one so far and sometimes its even pain in the ass cause we gotta get the motion right
 
Agathe said:
so anyway, how are clit orgasms? they good? cause i can make her do that one so far and sometimes its even pain in the ass cause we gotta get the motion right

shit ......... she can't even get a clitoral O

damn

She's too damn uptight or just isn't intune with her body. Practice.. Practice.. practice

Hell I can have an oragasm kissing my Chef :p
 
Frisky said:
shit ......... she can't even get a clitoral O

damn

She's too damn uptight or just isn't intune with her body. Practice.. Practice.. practice

Hell I can have an oragasm kissing my Chef :p


Its all in the inspiration, Friskers...

:heart:






The absolute key is COMUNICATION... all the technique in the world wont mean earth shaking O's if your timing is off because you arent listening you her reaction, her body, her words... or if SHE isnt listening to her own needs due to some fears or something that is making her uptight and distracted.

Mental set and mental setting are the first two concerns, even if that means eating her pussy on the hood of the car on a country road in broad daylight! Just listen to the signs and follow them.. if they are confusing ASK. Set up a love life where you and your partner can ASK for anything at anytime and never EVER be told NO or made to feel like they shouldnt ask.

THEN technique is the door to greater, mind bending sex.
 
Frisky said:
shit ......... she can't even get a clitoral O

damn

She's too damn uptight or just isn't intune with her body. Practice.. Practice.. practice

Hell I can have an oragasm kissing my Chef :p

well i can make her do the clitoral one actually
 
No such thing as gspot orgasm. Its considered a vaginal orgasm. The difference is that if you hit the gspot it creates a more powerful vaginal orgasm. Mrs. Freak Nasty actually soaks (not pee) the bed when I hit her gspot.

really only two..vaginal and clitoral.....orgasm from anal? well....maybe the movement is causing some vaginal contractions. Otherwise it may be emotional which leads to a good sensation which leads to a vaginal orgasm.

BTW women do "ejaculate". I know how to get my wife off 99% of the time if I want to leave a pankcake size spot on the sheets that go through several layers.

You just have to know where your woman's buttons are, then press them gently....then hard.....then gently......


until your and her groin area are covered with sweet orgasmic goodness.
 
Freak Nasty said:
BTW women do "ejaculate". I know how to get my wife off 99% of the time if I want to leave a pankcake size spot on the sheets that go through several layers.
QUOTE]

Yeah the puddle. Let's me know I've done my job...lol. But can she spray you in the face from 4 feet away?

I want a woman who can do that! I want to shower in pussy juice!

Fill a cup, mix in a little vodka...mmmmmm!
 
Griz1 said:
Freak Nasty said:
BTW women do "ejaculate". I know how to get my wife off 99% of the time if I want to leave a pankcake size spot on the sheets that go through several layers.
QUOTE]

Yeah the puddle. Let's me know I've done my job...lol. But can she spray you in the face from 4 feet away?

I want a woman who can do that! I want to shower in pussy juice!

Fill a cup, mix in a little vodka...mmmmmm!


I think that is faked.Ive seen some videos and you can tell they were pissing. I would think that an female orgasm is similar to a males in the sense there are contraction of the whole groin area. On the video you could tell she was pushing. her a-hole was poking out bigtime.

I dont think it will stream out like in the movies. even a sexologist will tell you that. besides there are no muscles that are involved during orgasm that can push with that much force.
 
Spraying just sounds gross.

I cum plenty but I don't ejaculate. not sure that I believe that anyway. :rolleyes:
I would have to see it. got any links of homemade stuff since your wife ejaculates? no porn movies cause it can be faked. show me proof and i'll believe.
 
i dont video. KD, I was skeptical too until my wife did it. like i said its not like shes spraying. During the orgasm it sounds as if some one was unpluging a toilet with a plunger (best example i could think of). When all is said and done, we are both really wet down there and the wet spot is there also.
 
kristie_doll1980 said:
Spraying just sounds gross.

I cum plenty but I don't ejaculate. not sure that I believe that anyway. :rolleyes:
I would have to see it. got any links of homemade stuff since your wife ejaculates? no porn movies cause it can be faked. show me proof and i'll believe.

It's real. I've done it a few times.
 
Brain Areas Shut Off During Female Orgasm

By EMMA ROSS, AP Medical WriterMon Jun 20, 5:32 PM ET

New research indicates parts of the brain that govern fear and anxiety are switched off when a woman is having an orgasm but remain active if she is faking.

In the first study to map brain function during orgasm, scientists from the Netherlands also found that as a woman climaxes, an area of the brain governing emotional control is largely deactivated.

"The fact that there is no deactivation in faked orgasms means a basic part of a real orgasm is letting go. Women can imitate orgasm quite well, as we know, but there is nothing really happening in the brain," said neuroscientist Gert Holstege, presenting his findings Monday to the annual meeting of the European Society of Human Reproduction and Embryology.

In the study, Holstege and his colleagues at Groningen University recruited 11 men, 13 women and their partners.

The volunteers were injected with a dye that shows changes in brain function on a scan. For men, the scanner tracked activity at rest, during erection, during manual stimulation by their partner and during ejaculation brought on by the partner's hand.

For women, the scanner measured brain activity at rest, while they faked an orgasm, while their partners stimulated their clitoris and while they experienced orgasm.

Holstege said he had trouble getting reliable results from the study on men because the scanner needs activities lasting at least two minutes and the men's climaxes didn't last that long. However, the scans did show activation of reward centers in the brain for men, but not for women.

Holstege said his results on women were more clear.

When women faked orgasm, the cortex, the part of the brain governing conscious action, lit up. It was not activated during a genuine orgasm.

Even the body movements made during a real orgasm were unconscious, Holstege said.

The most striking results were seen in the parts of the brain that shut down, or deactivated. Deactivation was visible in the amygdala, a part of the brain thought to be involved in the neurobiology of fear and anxiety.

"During orgasm, there was strong, enormous deactivation in the brain. During fake orgasm, there was no deactivation of the brain at all. None," Holstege said.

Shutting down the brain during orgasm may ensure that obstacles such as fear and stress did not get in the way, Holstege proposed. "Deactivation of these very important parts of the brain might be the most important necessity for having an orgasm," he said.

Donald Pfaff, professor of neurobiology and behavior at Rockefeller University in New York, said the interpretations were reasonable. "It makes poetic sense," said Pfaff, who was not connected with the research.

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