My father was an OB/GYN - as a kid I liked to help him load the slides for his conferences.
He also made me watch them.
I have seen photos of diseases that would make the strongest stomach turn.
SHOCK - REALITY
THAT is what should be included in SEX ED. Personally I think kids should learn this stuff at home but that won't cover the parents that think if they don't talk about it their kids won't have it or at least they won't have to know about it.
If they are going to have sex regardless - they might as well have the access to condoms and they should be shown how to use them. Does giving them a condom license to have sex? Perhaps, but I think they are gonna do so either way, you're just making it easier for them to have sex with a condom.
I was 19, nearly 20 my first time and frankly I was like - that's the big deal? At 12, 13, 15 - I don't know how you could enjoy it if you really don't know what you are doing. Perhaps I'm just ignorant to how much sex young teens are having.
I think the element of FEAR should be instilled more. Not only the fear of pregnancy, disease or death but parental fear and fear of shaming your parents into not acknowledging you as a part of your family.
Perhaps I grew up differently - but fear of my parents and not getting what the big deal was more prevalent to me than having sex. If I were to do it again - I would have waited even longer, no doubt.