Sex

[Destroyer1986*]

My honest opinion, she's so jaded by life she will never allow a man to have any "emotional power" over her. Especially a male that would be viewed as a booty call/inferior(much younger) Of course it carries over into the relationship...especially the sexual part, when it's primary....I'm old and jaded too so I know these things...

, thats too bad. My partner is 15years older than I am and we fell in love before we actually had sex. So to say that you cant seek fullfillment in a younger person isnt always the case with everyone.

BTW, you are in your thirties, that is far from being old.

 

[EnderJE]

, thats too bad. My partner is 15years older than I am and we fell in love before we actually had sex. So to say that you cant seek fullfillment in a younger person isnt always the case with everyone.

BTW, you are in your thirties, that is far from being old.

So, you're partner is 34.

Wow. I remember what I was like at 19. Although, I could imagine being with some sexually who was 34, I don't think I'd use the "love" word to describe them.

If it's real, then kudos for you.

 

[Frisky]

Read my post below....you're unavailable emotionally...and with a younger man..I have no doubts...

true.. i don't deny being unavailable emotionally.. it will take a special man to tap into that part of me.

I've never dated a younger man this is the first for me. And i can honestly say we are on two different wave lenghts... not clicking at all. But I can't peg all younger men in that area. I do know that.

 

[EnderJE]

true.. i don't deny being unavailable emotionally.. it will take a special man to tap into that part of me

I would like to meet that man.

He must have a strong stomach.

 

[Destroyer1986*]

So, you're partner is 34.

Wow. I remember what I was like at 19. Although, I could imagine being with some sexually who was 34, I don't think I'd use the "love" word to describe them.

If it's real, then kudos for you.

Yep, it is real. She sacraficed alot to be with me as did I. I dont think someone would do that if they thought the relationship was going no where or was fake.

 

[javaguru]

, thats too bad. My partner is 15years older than I am and we fell in love before we actually had sex. So to say that you cant seek fullfillment in a younger person isnt always the case with everyone.

BTW, you are in your thirties, that is far from being old.

I would never proclaim any insigt into your relationship but erzulie is pretty open. I dated a woman eigteen years older for an year and a half. Everyone always commented o how hott she was but secondarily also questioned why iI was with her. Her oldest son is two years younger than me and she has a 20 and 18 year old....

 

[EnderJE]

Yep, it is real. She sacraficed alot to be with me as did I. I dont think someone would do that if they thought the relationship was going no where or was fake.

Then, good for you. You're lucky enough to find someone that cares about you and someone that you care about.


I must be wearing the halo tonight. No sarcastic posts yet.

 

[javaguru]

lol

I've been really carefull with him, didn't bring out any thing unless asked.. but of course he know's he's not keeping up because ill be damned if ill lie and tell the poor lad hes doing an excellent job when hes not.

fuck that

Yeah..but I know he has the strapon in the back of his mind...

 

[EnderJE]

I would never proclaim any insigt into your relationship but erzulie is pretty open. I dated a woman eigteen years older for an year and a half. Everyone always commented o how hott she was but secondarily also questioned why iI was with her. Her oldest son is two years younger than me and she has a 20 and 18 year old....

Amazing how or when that happens. I've had friends date older and younger. I couldn't give a fuck. As long as your happy...

 

[Destroyer1986*]

I would never proclaim any insigt into your relationship but erzulie is pretty open. I dated a woman eigteen years older for an year and a half. Everyone always commented o how hott she was but secondarily also questioned why iI was with her. Her oldest son is two years younger than me and she has a 20 and 18 year old....

Ahh yes, my partner actually looks 10years younger than what she is .

Erz I dont know if you are looking for a relationship or just sex?