women in their 30's and up are more sexual and like longer sessions. younger women have to paint their fingernails and toenails and have places to go and people to see...and the party to go to.
what does it matter to you? women typically lie prone, face up or down, and that's the long and short of it. and i don't give a fuck if your jaw hurts, with the amount of talking you do, you'd think it wouldn't matter.
I only half ass read your post but if a younger guy is having sex issues with you it's probably due to you. Many men, of all ages, are intimidated by "aggresive" women or even successful women. My advice would to be to quit trying to use the strapon with him.....