Sad story - Met girl from Internet

[big_bad_buff]

I think some things , if they affect you so much that your health deteriorates, need to be adressed. Even if it does have to deal with a woman, it needs to be gone back to and dealt with.

Like i said, bring your gun lol

 

[Reelbig Gunz]

Like i said, bring your gun lol

im in killeen bor. wear you want me to go

 

[Frackal]

I'm in such a fucking bad mood right now

 

[biteme]

I'm in such a fucking bad mood right now

Masturbate man. It will take the edge off.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

I'm in such a fucking bad mood right now

Let me guess, the Amish Chick dicked you over already?

 

[Mandinka2]

Sorry dude, but you set yourself up to get your butt kicked. Never spend that much energy and time into a chick unless you've at LEAST met her. You can't have relationships over the phone and the net. You still have to eventually do it the old fashioned way. In person.

you just learned the hard way.

-= nav =-

You know the funny thing is I agree with you , for all the bullshit talk of personality and communication blah blah , the truth seems to be a short half-drunken convo in a bar beats the hell outta hours and days of collective soul searching over a cable. I need to start drinkin again...

 

[anabolicmd]

Ok I got this whole thing solved. First of all, you set your expectations way too high. You werent ready for all possible outcomes. Going from talking on the net to meeting in person is a big change, especially if you expect that you two will immediately fall into each others arms, run off to Vegas and get hitched. Maybe you wanted more, and she just wanted to meet you? Who knows, but you have to be more realistic. Speaking of realistic, were the pics you sent her current, or where they "best-of" type pictures? If you sent her pics of you as a a smiling buff college guy but now you are ten years older fat and bald, that would also freak a girl out. Either way, you have to examine yourself to find out how you set yourself up for this to happen. Good luck.

 

[Lumberg]

You know some girls can pick up neediness and maybe for her it was a little game that she liked but when she met you in person you were way more into her than she was into you. YOu guys each had a different perspective, and there is no bigger turn-off than some member of the opposite sex that is all clingy and in love with you when you are still kind of neutral.

Just a simple misunderstanding, it's perfectly understandable to be in the position you were in and the position she was in.

In NASCAR when people crash and it's not really any one person's fault they say "It was just one of those Racin' deald"

Well this was one of those lovin' deals.

 

[Canadian Jelly]

..you don't know what she did any of this? Ask the bitch. There's no 'relationship' so snap on that bitch like there's no tomorrow, and make her explain everything to you..

thinking about "why", "what ifs?" only drives you crazy. get a straight answer from her.

 

[supersizeme]

sorry this happened to you, but this is the way of internet hookups. you spend a significant amount of time talking to someone and opening yourself up, and then when you meet, 95% of the time either you're not up to her expectations physically or she's not up to yours. then it's either awkward because you're feeling shallow for not being attracted to them, or you're hurt because they're not into you after all that time getting to know each other and "connecting."

meet people in real life. you get throw all initial physical attraction bullshit really quickly and don't have to deal with things like that.