Sad story - Met girl from Internet

[Taps]

I might have missed it, but how old is she? She sounds immature.

I had a similar experience -- dated one of my best friends for about 6 months, everything was great then she just stopped talking to me and talking my calls. About a week later she moved to another City -- havn't seen her since.

Who the fuck knows why people do stuff like this. Maybe they're insecure...maybe they're just assholes..who knows...?? The only thing I can say is don't wast time wondering "why"? You'll never figure it out and only make yourself crazy. Just say fuck it, and move on.

Think about it this way -- would you rather have her pull this shit now, or after you've been together for a few years?

It's for the best dude.

 

[casualbb]

Fonz is completely right. Bottom line, after meeting you, something about you turned her off. Maybe you weren't her type. Maybe she didn't find you attractive. Maybe she didn't like your mannerisms. It really is nothing more than that. And few people (men included) have the balls to just come out and say "I don't find you attractive, I'm not interested in pursuing a relationship."

I mean, I know guys who will flirt with girls that like them then brush them off when they suggest hanging out. These same guys complain about how women aren't upfront. It's totally hypocritical.

So please, let's stop the woman hating. Every man who was ever left for alone and confused, SOMETHING you did over the course of your relationship turned your lady off. Try to figure out what that something is so you don't do it next time. 99% of the time it's from not being enough of a challenge, of coming on too strong.

-casual

 

[velvett]

I still say she had a boyfriend.

and I will have to agree with Fonz and ADD to that line of thinking that she didn't see you as her new replacement for current beau.

This is by no means any kind of insult towards you - it's just the unfortunate and cruel ways of romance.

 

[Austin316]

dude, I knw how you feel, but my situation was soo sooo sooooooooooooooooo much worse and I got jus annihilated....ask Frackal or Raina lo I don't wanna go nto the story but basicaly finally met her after a year and all of a suddenshe did a 180 (she knew what I looked like too) I dunno screw it all, Im having fun now and am over it

 

[biteme]

dude, I knw how you feel, but my situation was soo sooo sooooooooooooooooo much worse and I got jus annihilated....ask Frackal or Raina lo I don't wanna go nto the story but basicaly finally met her after a year and all of a suddenshe did a 180 (she knew what I looked like too) I dunno screw it all, Im having fun now and am over it

That's the attitude. The longer you live the thicker your skin gets. Just move on. Life's too short.

 

[Big Johnson]

Don't listen to these dorks. They don't know you, this chick, or their ass from a hole in the ground. She wanted you to pump it, plain and simple.

As to my statement about strong attraction usually being mutual, I'm not going to try and prove it to you. However, you WILL agree with me one day as you look back and realize how blind you once were.

 

[Austin316]

oh yea, at first Igot the Iwant to just be friends thing, a week before she was sayng she loved me haha, and then two weeks into that she told me she just wanted to stop talking period and never ould answer me directly wha happened..we talked evry single ight for a year straight, she was sared to meet, I waited stupidly, I gave her 2 big chances, I was a fucking moron, Ill never change for a girl again.,...you will never get an answerfrom her, so just drop her from your thoughts and mve on,shrug it off fuck it jst know this, don't trst anyone, don't put faith into anyone until they are able to prove i to you wihtouta shadow of a doubt, think of everyone as sharks until they prove otherwise and look out for yourself and don't nbeat yourself up oiver something that is out f your control..sorry fr my spelling I still have the same busted keyboard, need a new one

 

[revexrevex]

Great post austin.

Guys/Girls, just drop it and let this thread disappear.

I've realized its no use analyzing this anymore.

 

[Fonz]

I still say she had a boyfriend.

and I will have to agree with Fonz and ADD to that line of thinking that she didn't see you as her new replacement for current beau.

This is by no means any kind of insult towards you - it's just the unfortunate and cruel ways of romance.

Thats why the concept of cyber dating is doomed to disaster 99% of the time.

You just can't judge a persons real persona, specially her body
mannerisms.

Body mannerisms of a person(in real life) say A LOT about that person...specially if she sees you as attractive(and is interested) or not. If she does, she will get closer, touch you on the arm, or just be close to you in general. Both physically and mentally. If not, she will maintain her disatance both physically and mentally.

You can't tell any of that from a computer or phone.

Well anyways, thats my take on it...but I'm more of a face to face talk kind of guy.

Fonz