Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below sorry I just had to vent this. I broke up with a SERIOUS girlfriend that I thought was the "one" Just wondering if any bros are going through the same shit. It makes everything hard, especially in a cycle! its already been a few months and it still is really hard to swallow. I saw her a month ago at the club, and DAMN she was looking good! sucks for me.
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ColumboWeiser
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wish you luck bro...it will pass, make sure to keep your mind off her by staying in the gym and planning your next cycle
DesertTiger
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Suck it up. Train harder and show her what she's missing. Make her go home and say DAMN he looked good.
Yea, I would go with DeserTiger on that on. Whenever I go through shit like that I get great gains bc I get so pissed off and jacked up that all I want to do is go and hit the gym. You definately can't let yourself get depressed. That would be the worse. Just get you shit together and bust some ass!
Hey man I feel for yah!!
I agree with desert!! My girl and I broke up about 2 months ago,but about 2 weeks ago I ran into( out of the million people around) her and we did talk and she did the I love you shit and all that,and because of a hore friend 20 minutes later she didnt even know me!!
So I am definetly training harder and harder becuase next time she sees me( besides the fact that I use to fuck her like no other) she is gonna be DRUELING!!
best of luck,and hold your head!!!
samson
I agree with desert!! My girl and I broke up about 2 months ago,but about 2 weeks ago I ran into( out of the million people around) her and we did talk and she did the I love you shit and all that,and because of a hore friend 20 minutes later she didnt even know me!!
So I am definetly training harder and harder becuase next time she sees me( besides the fact that I use to fuck her like no other) she is gonna be DRUELING!!
best of luck,and hold your head!!!
samson
Bobber
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Me and my girl took a little break from each other a few weeks ado and in one week my arms grew a half inch, and this is off cycle. But we got together and now they are back down to there old self again. I find that it is easier to get bigger when you dont have a girlfriend. But I know how you feel b/c I think that I am with the "one" and wouldn't like it if we split for good. Just keep your head up bro and find some other ass to play with while she comes around, nad you know she probably will.
2legit2quit
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Same shit happened to me friday night bro. I really thought this girl was going to be the one for me too. I'm also right in the middle of a cycle, but I don't see it affecting my training at all. Thank God I just got a new job though in an office full of women. I've been flirting my ass off, and been getting hit on for the last two weeks, so that definitely makes the break up easier..........I've got the pick of the litter at work!
I did what you guys are talking about and the feeling is oh-so good!
Let me explain. I was going out with this chick from Febuary-March to the end of april. At the time we started dating, I haden't been in a gym for over 1.5 years. A shoulder injury and other personal problems led me to depression. For 1.5 years all I did was smoke weed and pop pills. When I got up to 210 lbs at WELL over 20% BF (at 5'8), I had a 41 inch waist, and I finally decided to get back to training.
When I started, I swear I could not lift the fucking bar! I trained only my shoulders up until April to get them strong again. One day in April, I woke up, and I was able to bech 165 lbs for 8 reps. It may have been a warm up for me a year ago, but that did it, I was hooked again. I started enjoying the pain of training again and started to train twice a day. My diet was so clean it was almost sick.
She started to nag me. Why are you eating this, (the bitch use to bake cookies), why won't you eat my cookies, why can't you go out, why don't you spend more time with me...and it goes on and on...
At the end of April, I was 180lbs at with a 34-35 inch waist. I was going to start bulking. Now that I was eating her cookies, she complained, why are you eating so much, 2 weeks ago you weren't eating anything, you're so full of contradictions! You are going to get fat! why do you want to put all that size on it's all fat anyway! I told her I was going to put muscle on with fat and then diet off the fat: she said bullshit, it doesn't work.
Finally, she made me choose between BB and her, guess what I choose! The only problem was that she sat in front of me in my law class at school. What a pain that was.
Anyway, summer started and I stopped seeing her alltogether. After my bulking, I was up to 200lbs, but pretty flabby maybe 18%. But I had added so much of my muscle back. I got down to about 194 through dieting and my waist was about 36 inches.
What was my point again? Oh, one day I came into a pharmacy near my gym looking for a gelpack. I had just trained, and was fully pumped. There she was at the cash! She couldn't even keep her mouth closed when she saw me, she started to stutter, and couldn't even hide her amazement.
Man, I can't describe the feeling of satisfaction that gave me.
This post is very long, so I'm sorry, but the best thing for you is to use that frustration to drive you to become a monster. One day you will see her again. I can promise you that: things have a way of working out.
(Btw, I'm now 190lbs with a 35 inch waist, I did all that naturally.)
Let me explain. I was going out with this chick from Febuary-March to the end of april. At the time we started dating, I haden't been in a gym for over 1.5 years. A shoulder injury and other personal problems led me to depression. For 1.5 years all I did was smoke weed and pop pills. When I got up to 210 lbs at WELL over 20% BF (at 5'8), I had a 41 inch waist, and I finally decided to get back to training.
When I started, I swear I could not lift the fucking bar! I trained only my shoulders up until April to get them strong again. One day in April, I woke up, and I was able to bech 165 lbs for 8 reps. It may have been a warm up for me a year ago, but that did it, I was hooked again. I started enjoying the pain of training again and started to train twice a day. My diet was so clean it was almost sick.
She started to nag me. Why are you eating this, (the bitch use to bake cookies), why won't you eat my cookies, why can't you go out, why don't you spend more time with me...and it goes on and on...
At the end of April, I was 180lbs at with a 34-35 inch waist. I was going to start bulking. Now that I was eating her cookies, she complained, why are you eating so much, 2 weeks ago you weren't eating anything, you're so full of contradictions! You are going to get fat! why do you want to put all that size on it's all fat anyway! I told her I was going to put muscle on with fat and then diet off the fat: she said bullshit, it doesn't work.
Finally, she made me choose between BB and her, guess what I choose! The only problem was that she sat in front of me in my law class at school. What a pain that was.
Anyway, summer started and I stopped seeing her alltogether. After my bulking, I was up to 200lbs, but pretty flabby maybe 18%. But I had added so much of my muscle back. I got down to about 194 through dieting and my waist was about 36 inches.
What was my point again? Oh, one day I came into a pharmacy near my gym looking for a gelpack. I had just trained, and was fully pumped. There she was at the cash! She couldn't even keep her mouth closed when she saw me, she started to stutter, and couldn't even hide her amazement.
Man, I can't describe the feeling of satisfaction that gave me.
This post is very long, so I'm sorry, but the best thing for you is to use that frustration to drive you to become a monster. One day you will see her again. I can promise you that: things have a way of working out.
(Btw, I'm now 190lbs with a 35 inch waist, I did all that naturally.)
..reminds me i gotta call her...Hugh Gellatts
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Sexual frustration=great rage and intensity. You know why Jet Li brutally kills scores of people in every film?... the writers never let him get with the girl.
Keep it beefy
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yup, just got in a nice little fight tonight
Diesel3d
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a couple months ago i had a little one month thing with a girl i met and it was amazing. I really felt like she was the one and we had something.... She at the time was different than any other girl i had ever met.
then she just blew me off. started not returning my calls, and then she just left for vacation for a month. She completely blew me off. A really fake person. Could not even be honest with me. She had to play baby games so end it..... so that crushed me and since then i have been going crazy in the gym,... all i know is , the next time she sees me i will be huge, and will not give the time of day if she tries to talk to me again...
Fucking bitch.
IMO these days girlfriends are not worth it. Just go out and get laid. I mean what's the point of having someone? I would rather be alone and free of strees.
It really does not matter what you do as long as you are getting laid. IMO thats all that matters, because that's all i will ever need from a girl.
So i guess i can relate a little to your problem. But just suck it up. Live your life and do things to improve youself. And most of all go and try to get laid. After that you will realize that girl really had nothing to offer you.
then she just blew me off. started not returning my calls, and then she just left for vacation for a month. She completely blew me off. A really fake person. Could not even be honest with me. She had to play baby games so end it..... so that crushed me and since then i have been going crazy in the gym,... all i know is , the next time she sees me i will be huge, and will not give the time of day if she tries to talk to me again...
Fucking bitch.
IMO these days girlfriends are not worth it. Just go out and get laid. I mean what's the point of having someone? I would rather be alone and free of strees.
It really does not matter what you do as long as you are getting laid. IMO thats all that matters, because that's all i will ever need from a girl.
So i guess i can relate a little to your problem. But just suck it up. Live your life and do things to improve youself. And most of all go and try to get laid. After that you will realize that girl really had nothing to offer you.
Everything great I've done in my life I did when I was single!
Now that I have a woman I am a lifeless piece of shit. Luckily, I still manage to train my ass off.
But other than that all I do is cater to this selfish bitch. One day will come and I will kick her lazy ass
off the gravy train. Don't know why I haven't done it yet - but you guys are motivating me to dump this
wench and start training like a goddamn barbarian!
Now that I have a woman I am a lifeless piece of shit. Luckily, I still manage to train my ass off.
But other than that all I do is cater to this selfish bitch. One day will come and I will kick her lazy ass
off the gravy train. Don't know why I haven't done it yet - but you guys are motivating me to dump this
wench and start training like a goddamn barbarian!
meanstreak
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Take the anger out in the gym. Same thing happened to me awhile back and the biggest problem I had was keeping my appetite up. I have a new wonderful girl now , the aerobic instructor at my gym but I still want to see how much bigger I can get before I run into my ex again. I'm up 21 pounds since I last saw her, I ran into her mother right after working out (fully pumped) last week and she couldn't stop looking at me, great feeling. Trust me bro, time will heal the pain and there will be another one even better.
I have swore of girls until I am happy with my self! I started my cycle a couple of weeks after I broke up with my GF I was at 205 34" waist and flabby. I started my cycle and now I am at 218 with a 32-33" waist still flabby some. My goal is 220, and then going to diet and get ripped. Girls seem to get in the way with going out to eat and all the relationship BS. Don't get me wrong I have a good looking friend With privleges that gives me some and wants nothing in return. I may not talk to her for a week and then call her late at night go over do my bus and leave. She is cool with that. She is not the type I want to date or anyting. She is also a nurse and gets me my pins and stuff. There is plenty of time to find that special someone but If you aren't happy with your self it hard to be happy with someone IMO.
We've all been there bro, just stick through it! This happened during my first cycle ever and it screwed it up for me, but I learned a lot. Train hard, and take this time to reflect and realize there are tons of girls out there.
Now I just manwhore my way to happiness. You can too!
Now I just manwhore my way to happiness. You can too!
Hey bro, just got twisted off a three year relationship here. I mean, she was wearing my ring and all, and we were working on a baby. Then one day, I see her riding off in some guys car, and next thing I know, half my shit is on the doorstep along with my ring. God, I have never known pain like that in my life. And sure she wasn't perfect, but no amount of hoe fucking could ever make me feel better, its just on a completely different level. The only way to get better is time, so give yourself time to get over it, in the end, you'll find yourself more motivated than ever to be a better person for your self. But I know what you're going through man, but trust me, it will get better. And whatever you do, trust me on this, don't ever let her see you being weak, as much as you want to.
Tigerparks
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Been there, done that, got the t-shirt.
Happened to me a few years ago. The thing is it took me a couple of months b4 it could get back on track. I was so low I thought what's the point in training?
Then suddenly you snap out of it, a trigger. And I just turned around my whole lifestyle, eating right, training hard. All with the intention of seeing her again and having her think: WOW!
It's only this year I started juicing. And I'm really starting to look different. Everyone is telling me I'm bigger/more vuscular etc etc....
And the thing is, if I see her now I'll just walk on by. Rather than stand there, chat a while and wish "Oh I do hope you think I look good." Right now I got the attitude "I KNOW I LOOK GOOD AND YOU AINT GETTING NONE OF THIS!" No I'm not bitter - just over it.
What made it better was my friend saw her with her fella and told me, "Damn, she's now with this skinny under nourished guy, looks like if you farted you'd blow him over!"
Now take my advice: get yourself in that gym, shove that needle in your ass, and eat like it's going out of fashion. Watch yourself explode, like her wishes of getting u back when she sees u again.
Happened to me a few years ago. The thing is it took me a couple of months b4 it could get back on track. I was so low I thought what's the point in training?
Then suddenly you snap out of it, a trigger. And I just turned around my whole lifestyle, eating right, training hard. All with the intention of seeing her again and having her think: WOW!
It's only this year I started juicing. And I'm really starting to look different. Everyone is telling me I'm bigger/more vuscular etc etc....
And the thing is, if I see her now I'll just walk on by. Rather than stand there, chat a while and wish "Oh I do hope you think I look good." Right now I got the attitude "I KNOW I LOOK GOOD AND YOU AINT GETTING NONE OF THIS!" No I'm not bitter - just over it.
What made it better was my friend saw her with her fella and told me, "Damn, she's now with this skinny under nourished guy, looks like if you farted you'd blow him over!"
Now take my advice: get yourself in that gym, shove that needle in your ass, and eat like it's going out of fashion. Watch yourself explode, like her wishes of getting u back when she sees u again.
TheBear, sorry to hear of your probs, but look at it this way, it could be worse. You could have gotten married and then she could have left you taking all your money and posessions as well as going after you for child support(if any kids), spousal maint and what ever the hell she felt like. You think a break up is bad, try a divorce, it sucks shit, especially when your old partner is greedy and selfish and tries to take everything......Oh, and then you have the 10k in lawyers bills......need I go on?
I Understand!!
Hi Bear!
Well I understand how U feel. I was engaged to marry last year and bought a house for her and her 2 children (mortgage in UK). After 3 months she fucked off and left me with the house and a large amount of debts. I turned to drink for 4 months and got no where. I used to train big time and got a good size, then in the space of 4 months dropped 15lbs. Thats depression man it'll kill you but after my drinking spree I channelled all my aggression in the gym, now Im up 20lbs with the help of a cycle. The bitch is screwin some 120lb ass-hole, the only thing that keeps me sane is that when I see her again Im gonna be one BMF. Women arent worth it man, enjoy getting bigger and get some other chicks.
Good Luck
R
Hi Bear!
Well I understand how U feel. I was engaged to marry last year and bought a house for her and her 2 children (mortgage in UK). After 3 months she fucked off and left me with the house and a large amount of debts. I turned to drink for 4 months and got no where. I used to train big time and got a good size, then in the space of 4 months dropped 15lbs. Thats depression man it'll kill you but after my drinking spree I channelled all my aggression in the gym, now Im up 20lbs with the help of a cycle. The bitch is screwin some 120lb ass-hole, the only thing that keeps me sane is that when I see her again Im gonna be one BMF. Women arent worth it man, enjoy getting bigger and get some other chicks.
Good Luck
R
Wow...this has been a very very helpful thread!!
Quick story..
I was with my girlfriend for 3 years(all through HS), and i was always a fat ass. Senior year 5'8'', 225lbs. When i finally realized that i was wasting my youth, i left her and began train seriously...in 13 months i lost 50lbs and had a six pack at 8% BF. The next time i saw her in a club she couldn't stay away from me, but at that point i had fucked so so many more hot chicks she did wasn't even in my mind at all.
Now i am stuck in the same situation again with a different chick(3 months), my BF% is up to 11-12%, which really hurts because i worked my ass off to get where i was. And in my mind i know this girl is not good, but i can't seem to bring myself to leave her.
Seriously reading this thread made me realize how much more dedicated i was when i was single...i trained like an animal, never missed cardio, diet was PERFECT!, and hit my abs ED!!
Think i have come to a decision...
...time to get ripped again!!!
M56M(sorry for the long post..had to get it off my chest)
Quick story..
I was with my girlfriend for 3 years(all through HS), and i was always a fat ass. Senior year 5'8'', 225lbs. When i finally realized that i was wasting my youth, i left her and began train seriously...in 13 months i lost 50lbs and had a six pack at 8% BF. The next time i saw her in a club she couldn't stay away from me, but at that point i had fucked so so many more hot chicks she did wasn't even in my mind at all.
Now i am stuck in the same situation again with a different chick(3 months), my BF% is up to 11-12%, which really hurts because i worked my ass off to get where i was. And in my mind i know this girl is not good, but i can't seem to bring myself to leave her.
Seriously reading this thread made me realize how much more dedicated i was when i was single...i trained like an animal, never missed cardio, diet was PERFECT!, and hit my abs ED!!
Think i have come to a decision...
...time to get ripped again!!!M56M(sorry for the long post..had to get it off my chest)
bigdaddycool
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hey all,
well i feel for all u bros and right now i am also at the fucking depression stage. my girl left me after 4 years relation, she was a fine ass russian chick, oh well. The worse thing is that what she said in the end!!!!
"look, i am a girl, i was emotional, but u were a MAN, u should know what u were doing, its u who is responsible for all that...."
Moral of the story:
Whatever she has done, whatever she said and claim the love she had for u, all could be written off in the excuse that she was emotional, a girl, not her fault. But u are stuck as a man, u should know what ur doing, u cant be emotional, and should be more stable, right????
well NEVER let your heart fell for a woman bro, none of them are worth it, in the end, its your body, ur temple, and you. Don't let it get ruined for ANY reason.....I know its hard to forget her, but hell with her. develop your temple and fuck the hell out of other bitches....
Big daddy cool
well i feel for all u bros and right now i am also at the fucking depression stage. my girl left me after 4 years relation, she was a fine ass russian chick, oh well. The worse thing is that what she said in the end!!!!
"look, i am a girl, i was emotional, but u were a MAN, u should know what u were doing, its u who is responsible for all that...."
Moral of the story:
Whatever she has done, whatever she said and claim the love she had for u, all could be written off in the excuse that she was emotional, a girl, not her fault. But u are stuck as a man, u should know what ur doing, u cant be emotional, and should be more stable, right????
well NEVER let your heart fell for a woman bro, none of them are worth it, in the end, its your body, ur temple, and you. Don't let it get ruined for ANY reason.....I know its hard to forget her, but hell with her. develop your temple and fuck the hell out of other bitches....
Big daddy cool
Ercole
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Break-ups are hard, especially if you have to see her ona regular basis afterwards. (That's why it's a good rule not to date girls from work or the gym or any place you go on a daily basis.)
The cold hard fact is, if she doesn't want to be with you, she isn't THE ONE and never will be. Brush off your wounded pride and enjoy the freedom of being single for a while.
But some of you guys who recommend taking out your frustrations by using or abusing other women -- grow up! Other girls aren't responsible for what your ex did to you. Don't lay that shit on them.
And every girl you screw over will be tempted to turn around and screw over the next guy she dates. Maybe your girlfriend treated you that way because some guy like some of you who posted above fucked her over previously.
If you go around using, deceiving, or manipulating girls, what right have you to complain when they do the same to you?
Just my 2 cents.
The cold hard fact is, if she doesn't want to be with you, she isn't THE ONE and never will be. Brush off your wounded pride and enjoy the freedom of being single for a while.
But some of you guys who recommend taking out your frustrations by using or abusing other women -- grow up! Other girls aren't responsible for what your ex did to you. Don't lay that shit on them.
And every girl you screw over will be tempted to turn around and screw over the next guy she dates. Maybe your girlfriend treated you that way because some guy like some of you who posted above fucked her over previously.
If you go around using, deceiving, or manipulating girls, what right have you to complain when they do the same to you?
Just my 2 cents.
EAT THIS!
A code to live and die by - and by a fellow Irishman too!
Never give all the Heart
- W.B. Yeats
Never give all the heart, for love
Will hardly seem worth thinking of
To passionate women if it seem
Certain, and they never dream
That it fades out from kiss to kiss;
For everything that's lovely is
But a brief, dreamy, kind delight.
O never give the heart outright,
For they, for all smooth lips can say,
Have given their hearts up to the play.
And who could play it well enough
If deaf and dumb and blind with love?
He that made this knows all the cost,
For he gave all his heart and lost.
i bet I have a story that beats most: Goin out with a woman for two years ,livin together , all that jazz, after one of those years , she goes out and tattoos my name on her ass (I've been wonderin if I should post the photos!) , crazy to get married and stuff.
Final year of college , need to study , some support woulda helped too , bitch starts goin out all the time and eventually cheats on me.
Lost 20 pounds (never used AS - yet) , fucked in final year exams , just got back on top , put back on 30 lbs , guess what - she spent the last two weeks cryin down the phone to me from Germany.
Ercole - the difference is men don't claim to be fucking perfect , women are always cursin men for cheatin , I lived in a co-ed house for two whole semesters , out of 110 people (roughly 50/50) , EVERY woman who was attached cheated, only one guy did the same. I hope you're payin' attention to that statistic guys.
BTW She still has the tattoo.
A code to live and die by - and by a fellow Irishman too!
Never give all the Heart
- W.B. Yeats
Never give all the heart, for love
Will hardly seem worth thinking of
To passionate women if it seem
Certain, and they never dream
That it fades out from kiss to kiss;
For everything that's lovely is
But a brief, dreamy, kind delight.
O never give the heart outright,
For they, for all smooth lips can say,
Have given their hearts up to the play.
And who could play it well enough
If deaf and dumb and blind with love?
He that made this knows all the cost,
For he gave all his heart and lost.
i bet I have a story that beats most: Goin out with a woman for two years ,livin together , all that jazz, after one of those years , she goes out and tattoos my name on her ass (I've been wonderin if I should post the photos!) , crazy to get married and stuff.
Final year of college , need to study , some support woulda helped too , bitch starts goin out all the time and eventually cheats on me.
Lost 20 pounds (never used AS - yet) , fucked in final year exams , just got back on top , put back on 30 lbs , guess what - she spent the last two weeks cryin down the phone to me from Germany.
Ercole - the difference is men don't claim to be fucking perfect , women are always cursin men for cheatin , I lived in a co-ed house for two whole semesters , out of 110 people (roughly 50/50) , EVERY woman who was attached cheated, only one guy did the same. I hope you're payin' attention to that statistic guys.
BTW She still has the tattoo.
Diesel3d
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well I don't recall anyone saying they wanted to use women and abuse them, but there are plenty of girls out there who want to be used for pleasure and nothing more. I have a couple girlfriends that are strictly fun relationships. We don't even care about each other. It's clear we use each other and we can see other people and are open about it. I don't care about her, she don't care about me. Fine.
There is no reason these days to be tied down to a girl or wife. The only point of getting married IMO is to have kids and I don't want any. That's is. This world is too fucked up for love and all that stuff. That's all fantasy. If you can find it, that’s great.... 1 in a 1000, but be careful because these fucking girls are never satisfied. And that’s the key thing. Satisfied…
After reading this thread over and thinking my own thoughts in my mind I have now devoted my life to be single, and self centered. I will never get married or take any girl seriously. All I want is sex from them, and for myself I will improve my body, my career / success, wealth, travel, fuck and enjoy life.
If I ever want kids when I am in my mid 40's ill take it from there and find a girl that will be useful as a good mother.
that’s me…
Sexual Mustard
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I feel ya, TheBear....I just broke up with my g/f a little over 2 months ago (er, she broke up with me rather). I too thought that this was "the one"..... and it's still tough and I'm still depressed, although I hide it from friends/family.
Because of the outcome of that relationship I will never have the same respect for girls ever again....
Because of the outcome of that relationship I will never have the same respect for girls ever again....
Ercole
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Damn, Mandinka, was that a coed house or a cathouse your were staying in?
I still think if you go into relationships presuming girls are THE ENEMY OUT TO DESTROY YOU, it will be a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You give girls the benefit of the doubt, at least you're giving them the option to live up to it. If you assume every girl is a lying whore like the one who broke your heart (sniff sniff), that's who you'll end up with: lying whores.
2 more cents ...
I still think if you go into relationships presuming girls are THE ENEMY OUT TO DESTROY YOU, it will be a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You give girls the benefit of the doubt, at least you're giving them the option to live up to it. If you assume every girl is a lying whore like the one who broke your heart (sniff sniff), that's who you'll end up with: lying whores.
2 more cents ...
Bodega
Sorry i didn't get bcak to you Bodega , had some trouble lately...
Anyway , it was a University residence right in Dublin, there were people from almost every country in Europe as well as Canada and the U.S.A. .
I don't think all women are whores , not at all , but when I was younger I used to watch too much t.v. I think and thought , "Oh Yeah , I'm gonna treat women (cos they're so faithful) like gold and they'll do the same back to me" , Man was i duped.
The girl in question was SO popular with her female friends by the way , it was a lot like "Sex in the City" , so everytime I hear women go on about "Men get away with being sluts , women have to lie about it" - I think bullshit.
Sorry i didn't get bcak to you Bodega , had some trouble lately...
Anyway , it was a University residence right in Dublin, there were people from almost every country in Europe as well as Canada and the U.S.A. .
I don't think all women are whores , not at all , but when I was younger I used to watch too much t.v. I think and thought , "Oh Yeah , I'm gonna treat women (cos they're so faithful) like gold and they'll do the same back to me" , Man was i duped.
The girl in question was SO popular with her female friends by the way , it was a lot like "Sex in the City" , so everytime I hear women go on about "Men get away with being sluts , women have to lie about it" - I think bullshit.
Now i really add to this thread....
This past week got into a fight(over a misundrstanding) with my girl, we seemed to have had things fixed...or at least i thought.
Well to make a long story shot, the fight was last Tuesday and we saw each other Wed. Things were fine. Well Thurs we didn't talk much, she didn't want to see me on Fri(i understood she was probably still a little upset) Well its Monday and she has not returned any of my phone calls and it doesn't seem like she is going to. What a way to say Good Bye after over 3 months together....didn't think anyone could be that cold. Well it hurts but my quote says it all...
M56M
This past week got into a fight(over a misundrstanding) with my girl, we seemed to have had things fixed...or at least i thought.
Well to make a long story shot, the fight was last Tuesday and we saw each other Wed. Things were fine. Well Thurs we didn't talk much, she didn't want to see me on Fri(i understood she was probably still a little upset) Well its Monday and she has not returned any of my phone calls and it doesn't seem like she is going to. What a way to say Good Bye after over 3 months together....didn't think anyone could be that cold. Well it hurts but my quote says it all...
M56M
Darksong2k1
New member
Finally a thread I can relate to.
I had been seeing this girl for a little while, not too long... and in that short amount of time, we became really close. She is a good Christian girl, and I'm in the church scene myself. There was a mutual respect there in that relationship for each of our own beliefs. I even got really pulled into the family scene. Her mom called my house, on a couple of occassions, to say "Hi honey, how are you?", and tell me about how Megan just kept going on and on about how great I am, smart I am, whatever...
Well, needless to say, it all came tumbling down. We went to see a movie on a Saturday, and she really wasn't herself. Out of nowhere. So she curls up against me, and I ask what's up. She says it's just the whole notion of leaving for college in Oklahoma, and losing F2F contact with her parents for the first time scares the hell out of her. That atop the fact that she doesn't want to leave me. Yeah, right! Trying to be the good person I am, I of course comforted her and assured her it'd be alright. Sure the hell would. She would in fact kiss me goodnight, then the very next day tell me at church she needed a "Break". AT CHURCH OF ALL PLACES! I called it right away, though I didn't say a word. I loved that girl, and I had hopes that maybe it WAS true ... just a break, with all the stress. Wrong. I bit, and I got slapped with a brick for it. She didn't talk to me for 3 months... and left for college.
I still miss the bitch to this day, and it hurts more and more every time I think about it. As pussy as it is, I still cry sometimes at night, missing her.
But it all boils down to a quote from somewhere: "If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with." - And that, is yourself. Make the iron your bitch, and you've just found a relationship wilder than your wildest dreams. Content yourself to know that you're going to go in that gym, day in and day out... bust ass, and the next time that girl comes home for break, or wherever... she's gonna look at you and wonder, just what the hell she was thinking when she never said goodbye.
Chin up, bro. You ain't alone. We're in this together.
I had been seeing this girl for a little while, not too long... and in that short amount of time, we became really close. She is a good Christian girl, and I'm in the church scene myself. There was a mutual respect there in that relationship for each of our own beliefs. I even got really pulled into the family scene. Her mom called my house, on a couple of occassions, to say "Hi honey, how are you?", and tell me about how Megan just kept going on and on about how great I am, smart I am, whatever...
Well, needless to say, it all came tumbling down. We went to see a movie on a Saturday, and she really wasn't herself. Out of nowhere. So she curls up against me, and I ask what's up. She says it's just the whole notion of leaving for college in Oklahoma, and losing F2F contact with her parents for the first time scares the hell out of her. That atop the fact that she doesn't want to leave me. Yeah, right! Trying to be the good person I am, I of course comforted her and assured her it'd be alright. Sure the hell would. She would in fact kiss me goodnight, then the very next day tell me at church she needed a "Break". AT CHURCH OF ALL PLACES! I called it right away, though I didn't say a word. I loved that girl, and I had hopes that maybe it WAS true ... just a break, with all the stress. Wrong. I bit, and I got slapped with a brick for it. She didn't talk to me for 3 months... and left for college.
I still miss the bitch to this day, and it hurts more and more every time I think about it. As pussy as it is, I still cry sometimes at night, missing her.
But it all boils down to a quote from somewhere: "If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with." - And that, is yourself. Make the iron your bitch, and you've just found a relationship wilder than your wildest dreams. Content yourself to know that you're going to go in that gym, day in and day out... bust ass, and the next time that girl comes home for break, or wherever... she's gonna look at you and wonder, just what the hell she was thinking when she never said goodbye.
Chin up, bro. You ain't alone. We're in this together.
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dballer
Guest
Her Bear...
I got a long story that I don't feel like typing.... it is just like the ones you have already read. But I suggest reading Rollins Books... I swear to god.. they kept me from losing my mind when me and the bitch split up.
Looks like alot of bros here with simalar stories... you will make it... just don't let it take you over. Go get "The Soloplist" By Henry Rollins.... when you are not in the gym read that... and plot how to get that stupid girl out of your mind.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!
I got a long story that I don't feel like typing.... it is just like the ones you have already read. But I suggest reading Rollins Books... I swear to god.. they kept me from losing my mind when me and the bitch split up.
Looks like alot of bros here with simalar stories... you will make it... just don't let it take you over. Go get "The Soloplist" By Henry Rollins.... when you are not in the gym read that... and plot how to get that stupid girl out of your mind.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!
To all you guys missing your girl...
Obviously we all have been through this, I sure have.
Remember when you felt the best about yourself? Well, that is still there inside you, and DON'T forget that. Go look yourself in the mirror. FUCK THAT BITCH!!!
YOU CAN HAVE ANY BITCH YOU WANT!!!
Missing a girl goes away, and right after it is gone, your confidence will shine again, and always remember.....
YOU ARE THE SHIT BRO!!!!
It will all be back to normal again, I promise......
TD
Obviously we all have been through this, I sure have.
Remember when you felt the best about yourself? Well, that is still there inside you, and DON'T forget that. Go look yourself in the mirror. FUCK THAT BITCH!!!
YOU CAN HAVE ANY BITCH YOU WANT!!!
Missing a girl goes away, and right after it is gone, your confidence will shine again, and always remember.....
YOU ARE THE SHIT BRO!!!!
It will all be back to normal again, I promise......
TD
Darksong2k1
New member
LOL, I like that.
badazzwhitedude
New member
Same shit happened to me about 3 weeks ago. But I have been eating big and training hard, and I am already stronger now than I was 3 weeks ago. I have put on a couple of pounds to boot. And in less than 3 weeks, I am starting a good Test cycle.
But, at times, I feel kind of down about it. It could always be worse though. Things could have been reversed. You might still have had the girl, but what if you seriously injured yourself in one way or another, and could never really lift "heavy" again because of it? Now which would you rather lose: The girl, or the physique you have always dreamed of? Think about it. As long as you take care of yourself, you will always have what you love most.
But, at times, I feel kind of down about it. It could always be worse though. Things could have been reversed. You might still have had the girl, but what if you seriously injured yourself in one way or another, and could never really lift "heavy" again because of it? Now which would you rather lose: The girl, or the physique you have always dreamed of? Think about it. As long as you take care of yourself, you will always have what you love most.
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I feel you guys...i was broken up with about a month ago, and it was a 2 year relationship. I didn't ever juice cause i was scared she'd find out, and i still looked good naturally, but that wasn't good enough....so guess what, i'm single, and i'm juicing....those women will all be jealous of us guys, just stick to the plan, train hard, and you will have girls hanging on you (i hope)....lets all keep our heads up...its happens to the best of us...BIGNBEEFY
MuSuLPhReAk
New member
Been there. After awhile the hurt and pain turns to anger. Use the anger to propel u to do something better with yourself.
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dballer
Guest
someone said they would not have the same respect for women ever gain... well I say to him.... Good for you! There is no reason to give it to them. Let those scumbags crawl to the alter that is your feet and beg!!!!
Just like the man said... look in the mirror and smile... you got them beat!!! It is in your pants.... they don't have it... we do!!!!
Yes... I am a full blown male chauvinist. But I am still a nice guy!!!!
Just like the man said... look in the mirror and smile... you got them beat!!! It is in your pants.... they don't have it... we do!!!!
Yes... I am a full blown male chauvinist. But I am still a nice guy!!!!
primetime21
Banned
I am with you guys 100 percent. I get my best workouts after breakups. Its all about motiviation. After every break up, i am upset for a little then realize that i am going to have the best workouts for the next couple of weeks at least. And whenever i need the extra motivation to do 110 dumbell presses, i conjure up an ex, and bam i am ready to go! Not saying that breakin up is great, but it sure has its benefits. Let me list:
1- better workouts
2- freedom
3- no more annoying girls telling you what to do
4- options (ie other girls)- Girls are great but, i tend to get bored with the same one
5- More money- damn are chicks expensive.
1- better workouts
2- freedom
3- no more annoying girls telling you what to do
4- options (ie other girls)- Girls are great but, i tend to get bored with the same one
5- More money- damn are chicks expensive.
I had a hard breakup in the Spring, I was depressed for a about a month, then I met another girl whom I really like and just recently became really attached to and she has basically made me forget about my old GF. It took me a few months of being with her before I would consider trusting a girl again, but she has proved herself. Of course, there was a few week period right around the time I met her that I was banging every attractive thing in sight, which was good for me at the time, but when I look back on it now, it's like I was out for a vengeance or something. Of course, not for one second do I regret any cum that was shot at these girls...
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dballer
Guest
bump
O.K, Been just lurking here (Learning!) for a long time
but I had to jump in on this and give my sob story
I was with the 'one' for 20 years,dating for 7, Married for 13 years. We had 2 kids together. I treated her
like a queen, new cars, trips to hawaii, jewelry,
did the housework, you name it. I did it because I
loved her and wanted to be partner's. She had cancer
5 years ago and for a year I worked, kept house,
cleaned up , singled parented 2 young kids while
she recovered. Anything she ever wanted.
You all know the drill.
Then, in a few weeks last summer....Boom! I'm out the
door, she's phuckin my buddy (who's 11 years older than us), worst is...she competely slandered my name,
saying I was abusive and that I beat her and choked
her and shit like that. Just to make me look bad and
justify her affair. I was like coaching hockey at the time
and some parents just up and yanked their kids off my team cause these 2 are doing the propaganda thing on me.
Making me out to be bad.
Well, I was as low as I could get.
I thought about doin myself several times even!
Going thru the divorce was miserable, I had to see her
all the time and all I could think of was getting back together. But.....Finally it starts to get better.
Finally it starts to pass.
I got busy, got in much
better shape and I took the high-road on it.
Today, I'm happy, engaged to a hottie, life has never
been better. Her.....out of work, losing her house,
no friends left, They all figured it out eventually.
Whew! Sorry for the long Rant!
So I guess my advise is.....Hang in there!
It does get better. Even in the worst cases.
As for my-ex and my good Buddy 'Gene'
but I had to jump in on this and give my sob story
I was with the 'one' for 20 years,dating for 7, Married for 13 years. We had 2 kids together. I treated her
like a queen, new cars, trips to hawaii, jewelry,
did the housework, you name it. I did it because I
loved her and wanted to be partner's. She had cancer
5 years ago and for a year I worked, kept house,
cleaned up , singled parented 2 young kids while
she recovered. Anything she ever wanted.
You all know the drill.
Then, in a few weeks last summer....Boom! I'm out the
door, she's phuckin my buddy (who's 11 years older than us), worst is...she competely slandered my name,
saying I was abusive and that I beat her and choked
her and shit like that. Just to make me look bad and
justify her affair. I was like coaching hockey at the time
and some parents just up and yanked their kids off my team cause these 2 are doing the propaganda thing on me.
Making me out to be bad.
Well, I was as low as I could get.
I thought about doin myself several times even!
Going thru the divorce was miserable, I had to see her
all the time and all I could think of was getting back together. But.....Finally it starts to get better.
Finally it starts to pass.
I got busy, got in much
better shape and I took the high-road on it.
Today, I'm happy, engaged to a hottie, life has never
been better. Her.....out of work, losing her house,
no friends left, They all figured it out eventually.
Whew! Sorry for the long Rant!
So I guess my advise is.....Hang in there!
It does get better. Even in the worst cases.
As for my-ex and my good Buddy 'Gene'
bigdaddycool
New member
damn binky,
20 years!!!! fuck and i was complaining cause i was with the bitch for 4! i meean ur story really fucking tops it all, doesnt matter whose fault it was, but for 20 yrs??? DAMN!!!!! do me a favor, when u get 6 pack, go by her house and wear tight shit and act like u heard she needed money but then make the hiottie come right after and tell her, forget it, ur bage got nice ass!!! hehe
20 years!!!! fuck and i was complaining cause i was with the bitch for 4! i meean ur story really fucking tops it all, doesnt matter whose fault it was, but for 20 yrs??? DAMN!!!!! do me a favor, when u get 6 pack, go by her house and wear tight shit and act like u heard she needed money but then make the hiottie come right after and tell her, forget it, ur bage got nice ass!!! hehe
I'll never figure her out.Yeah, it seems women are usually the ones most likely to end a relationship. I never been in a serious relationship, so I can't really say I miss it.
