Possible to like a girl a lot after a week

[mrplunkey]

She's cheating on you.

^^^ this

It is embarrassing this thread made it to page two without someone pointing this out.

Phoenix, you are now more man than 99% of EF. Grats.

 

[binö]

get these girls working for you
pimping out seeds, you should get a mlm setup going
with chics selling them like avon

 

[-SD-]

get these girls working for you
pimping out seeds, you should get a mlm setup going
with chics selling them like avon

Best 5-year plan of all time.

 

[-Ariel-]

At least wait til you're no longer a virgin to hand out girl advice DJ.

LOL

Where the hell is PM?

 

[princesa]

DUDE don't send that shit!!!! you are part of what it feels like for her to be on her own!! being banged out by a stud. dude, if she came around and said she liked you as much as you like her, you'd get tired of her so fast and be out trying to nail other girls within days.

you can do whatever you want with her, even act gay and couple-ly, whatever. just let this thing play out man, get out of her head and think about what you want (just remember that you are always better off keeping your options open and not putting all your eggs in one basket). you hardly even know her, you have no idea what can happen. don't pass up on something potentially awesome just because you are scared of getting hurt.

^^Listen to this guy

 

[calveless wonder]

DUDE don't send that shit!!!! you are part of what it feels like for her to be on her own!! being banged out by a stud. dude, if she came around and said she liked you as much as you like her, you'd get tired of her so fast and be out trying to nail other girls within days.

you can do whatever you want with her, even act gay and couple-ly, whatever. just let this thing play out man, get out of her head and think about what you want (just remember that you are always better off keeping your options open and not putting all your eggs in one basket). you hardly even know her, you have no idea what can happen. don't pass up on something potentially awesome just because you are scared of getting hurt.

listening to (most..princesa and phoenix are exmpt) girls for dating advice is retarded.

i'm glad you jumped in to save a bro from setting himself up for failure.



the truth is glad bro, this is probably the first in awhile you've "reasonably" liked. But i think at the end of the day the warning signs are all there that this girl isn't anything special. but either way, you barely know her..so just let things play out. the more you focus on 1 specific situation, the more anxiety and build up you create for yourself. the more you just live your life and let things come to you as they may (that's not an excuse to not put yourself out there) when it comes to girls, is when you can think clearly and not get so worked up emotionally about things.

i've been in your shoes, trust me. once you fully realize your own value as a person, it'll open up a lot more doors and you won't really sweat a girl that quickly.


from what i gather from your posts over time, i think the whole thing with your ex kinda dented your overall confidence. it happens...but eventually you figure out you got the tools to bang most girls your age and you don't overvalue "1" just because she of whatever situation (examples..she likes you more than other girls, or she's hard to get, or she's the hottest girl you been with etc.)

 

[the.gladiator1987]

So the girl texted today and said she wants time to think about everything and everything has happened fast but when shes confident in what she wants she "inform" me. LOL fine bitch! IM over it. Thanks for all the advice EF'ers now its time to save up for a car

 

[-Ariel-]

So the girl texted today and said she wants time to think about everything and everything has happened fast but when shes confident in what she wants she "inform" me. LOL fine bitch! IM over it. Thanks for all the advice EF'ers now its time to save up for a car

Didn't read the entire thing. However, I echo Nimbus.
It's probably a timing thing. Sides, the post relationship exodus by her would've been complicated for U and her to navigate, and be on the same page.

 

[the.gladiator1987]

Yea im glad she said shed call me when she figures it out. Now how do i play it from here on? Im sure she will call in a week or 2, ill be myself but should i just jump back in like i did or should i distance myself

 

[orange2]

instead of worrying about all the baggage and relationship crap, you should have been taking her out n having a goodtime, getting her drunk and nailing the shit out of her. N you call yourself a player?.