I like to say it in a daring way, just walk right up and say look I would like to hit that ass, but if you can't handle the fact that I only want the poosie, then by all means please do not accept. You would be surprised how well and often this works. Me being a married dude and all, I do not do this anymore, but this was my way and it worked very well. Women often like to show you that you think you're all this but this poosie will drive you crazy, I mean what women don't think she has the best vag in the world, for a man to think he is gonna get it and then be able to live without it is more than most females can handle. Truth be know jacking your cawck will produce the same end result, with a lot less fucking cuddling and headachs.