The phone sex thing is kinda cool. I've been in 2 major long term/long distance relationships (both with the same girl - both a few years appart - THERE is a story...) anyway, it is the only option in these times of need. She was AMAZING (I happen to love her voice too BTW so it was extra good) at stiring my inner desires etc. It really IS a skill though, I have attempted it with some gals and it just ROTTED. So, I guess my point it - try it and see if its good .