oh boy what to do she;s only 20 help

[theoak01]

well heres an update so i can make things a little clearer.my current gf is an older women she is 10yrs my senior she also quite sexy for her age .weve had our fair share of trouble along the way and a few times thought best to go each others way however we try nad work things out as couples do,yes i do love her.us as human beings seem to not be able to commit on to 1 person on a sexual level in fact studies show women leading the way in extramarital affairs.this young lass is not a bimbo to the person who called her that she is in fact a very swwet and atractive young women who admits she has had not alot of sexuall experience and would like me to be a teacher if u will.again she is not looking to complicate things.oh to others who asked if this is my first time getting hit on i say no so its not an ego boost to me either.people for get as u get older u start to question things like is it wrong or right to have sex with another person seems like the majority out there have not problems doin it so top phsycologist say.wopuld i like it if my gf did it to me well all ican say is im a pretty open guy i dont think it would in fact we chatted about a younger women and she said if i did then we should go our own way,but later that night she fucked the hell out of me more so than ever (did this thought turn her on but she wont say i dont know).i do think i would regret it if i didnt, weather she was a 20 or 30 or 40 yr old she is still quite attractive and the chemistry is building.so there ya go cheers.

seems like your mind was made up before you posted this ,you just wanted us to say it was the cool thing to do.

good luck

 

[kristie_doll1980]

Sounds like you have made up your mind and no one else's opinion is going to sway you. Just realize what you risk losing and don't bother asking for forgiveness when you get caught.

And this young girl who has little experience and wouldn't dream of messing it up with your girlfriend has you blinded. Do her and just sit back and wait for the trouble to start. Phone calls to your cell phone, emails, hugs and kisses where people can see it... Eventually your gf will notice something.

 

[pictureperfect]

It sounds like you are pretty confident that your gf will either not find out, or won't care. Has this happened before, that you know you can get away with it? Speaking from experience, it'll be all fun & games, until this other woman starts to "have feelings". Is this more for a turn on, just the thought of it? hmmm

 

[Sta11ion]

I didnt know about your girlfriend until reading the post, if you luv you girl it would'nt even cross your mind...regarding to cheat.

 

[bigmusclehead]

I didnt know about your girlfriend until reading the post, if you luv you girl it would'nt even cross your mind...regarding to cheat.

sorry bro i think some folks on this board dont know the the dif betweem love and lust.lets be honest how many of us look at and think about the possibility of shagging some one else .we r all human last time i checked.i never said i was going through with it i just said the thought was there.

 

[TruBalla4Real]

In my opinion, the fact that you and your gf have had problems and are still trying to work it out for, in my opinion, love should tell you something

 

[Gymgurl]

sorry bro i think some folks on this board dont know the the dif betweem love and lust.lets be honest how many of us look at and think about the possibility of shagging some one else .we r all human last time i checked.i never said i was going through with it i just said the thought was there.

Thoughts are normal...I have them many times a day...to act on them is different.....Good Luck

 

[bigmusclehead]

Thoughts are normal...I have them many times a day...to act on them is different.....Good Luck

at last .yes gym gurl i agree,thanks

 

[rudeboyja]

What are you worried about? You said you'd have no problem living with the guilt. Only problem I see if that you think you know what this 20 year olds intensions are.

 

[tahoe2003]

Ask your girl to you and the 20 year old