need advice...i wanna break up

[markshark]

ive been with a girl now for almost a year...things have been really good but theres a problem and i dont know what to do...the thing is in highschool and college i never got a chance to go mess around with other girls mainly because i was never the most attractive guy and had serious self confidence issues. i now have opportunities to be with a lot of other really attractive girls but i wont because i wont cheat on someone. so basically i feel i should break up with her before i do something because i have so many urges to i cnat help ,myself. i dont know what to do here..i know what i have to do but its gonna so hard because i dont wanna hurt her feelings. she thinks things are so great and i care about her but i have never gone out and had my fun ever in my life and now that i finally have the chance to i have a girlfriend....please someone give me advice...its gonna make me sick to tell her i dont want to be with her but i have to do it.

 

[taekwondokid]

How old are you? Almost a year....how serious is it? I'd try for a open relationship, although when you've been with her for so long as a boyfriend its hard to turn it around. I've only seen it done once in my lifetime (21yo) where it turned out well, aka the girl didn't go nuts about it and they became fuck buddies and have been for a while now since the 'break up'.

I faced a similar dilemma but I knew it wouldn't work and I decided to end things. I'm too young to stay committed whatsoever, and I don't wanna deal with the fallout if I "mess up" during the weekend if I'm going out and cheat.

 

[bigbox]

lol You found a girl who was willing to be with you when you were ass ugly, don't screw up a good thing for selfish reasons!!!

 

[-SD-]

Ive done this before and it will fuck your mind for a long time afterward except I had a better reason than yours. You better have a better reason than you just want to go fuck around or dumping her will haunt you for a long time.

 

[jdugan]

yea dude, you better keep a good thing, a good thing!

 

[-SD-]

yea dude, you better keep a good thing, a good thing!

dude, this thread is 3 months old.

 

[DJ_UFO]

and the dude never came back with updates. Probably never broke up with the girl but is fucking around like a rabbit anyways. Men will always do that tho. Married, dating, single, doesn't care. Is what we were made for.

 

[bigbox]

just let this post die out already.

 

[markshark]

and the dude never came back with updates. Probably never broke up with the girl but is fucking around like a rabbit anyways. Men will always do that tho. Married, dating, single, doesn't care. Is what we were made for.

to be honest i did fuck around once....i will never do it again. i thought it would be the right thing to do because it would get that want to do it out of me but in reality im a basket case. boxhdn, i know we argued, but i know where youre coming from now. what i did was selfish and stupid...ive told my girlfriend i love her since that happened...and i do love her but i wish i wouldnt have cheated.

 

[DJ_UFO]

to be honest i did fuck around once....i will never do it again. i thought it would be the right thing to do because it would get that want to do it out of me but in reality im a basket case. boxhdn, i know we argued, but i know where youre coming from now. what i did was selfish and stupid...ive told my girlfriend i love her since that happened...and i do love her but i wish i wouldnt have cheated.

lol wait til you're married brother...