Need advice for a funny situation

[BUBBLES]

Tell her honestly what the nature of the relationship between you and this guy is and get the guy to tell her upfront that he is not interested in her. bc/ he is seeing someone else.

 

[Gymgurl]

I thnk I should give her the book that sassy mentioned lol....we'll see what happens tonight on "as the gym turns".....

 

[jenscats5]

No I don't think they have a clue since no one else has ever even thought twice about it..I worked yesterday and was with a member so she just avoided me...i think the best thing to do is maybe let someone know what is going on just in case...and avoid her unless things don't stop. You think once high school is over things would go away like this lol...but your right...she is jealous and has nothing better to do with her time...i am the type of person that i take it personally and wonder what I did wrong....

I agree... you might want to mention this "in passing" to a boss/mgr just in case something gets back to them, crap like this usually does eventually....

As for your high school comment -- I find that, in some people, it gets worse after high school......

 

[habitualhealth]

Unfortunately when men & women are friends there are all sorts of dynamics between the two primary people as well as a whole truckload of peripheral people.

Maybe you should get that lady a copy of the "He's Just Not Into You"...

Hah! I'm with Sassy on this one...

....I would confront the chic head on. Course, that's the italian in me. But it's better than having your name slandered. Unfortunately, you can't control what people think...free will sucks sometimes....however, you can control the situation. Confront her with the upper hand...(no not literally...can't pound the chic) be the bigger gal. Tell it to her straight...hell, befriend the hell out of her in front of everyone...take it to the next extreme and call her over to you when you're talking to the guy she's into. Make it so darn obvious that what she's gossiping about and thinking is so way OFF...you'll end up embarrassing the poo out of her....just because you were being friendly. Sometimes that saying kill 'em with kindness....pays off BIG time. If that doesn't work, break it down old school for her...meet her in the locker room. No mercy. Heh. (if only we could settle things that way these days)

 

[PaganPunkstress]

shes crazy!
and obviously jealous of you.
that chick needs a life
that lil green eyed monster

 

[Gymgurl]

Hah! I'm with Sassy on this one...

....I would confront the chic head on. Course, that's the italian in me. But it's better than having your name slandered. Unfortunately, you can't control what people think...free will sucks sometimes....however, you can control the situation. Confront her with the upper hand...(no not literally...can't pound the chic) be the bigger gal. Tell it to her straight...hell, befriend the hell out of her in front of everyone...take it to the next extreme and call her over to you when you're talking to the guy she's into. Make it so darn obvious that what she's gossiping about and thinking is so way OFF...you'll end up embarrassing the poo out of her....just because you were being friendly. Sometimes that saying kill 'em with kindness....pays off BIG time. If that doesn't work, break it down old school for her...meet her in the locker room. No mercy. Heh. (if only we could settle things that way these days)

I love this!!! Last time I met someone is the locker room I had in school suspension for ramming her head into the wall lol

 

[SoKlueles]

She sounds very jealous to me. have you told ur hubby about it? because she may try to start stuff with him or something.....and tell ur bosses.
dang woman, ur always getting into some trouble

 

[Gymgurl]

I told evryone last night so they are aware....She had her daughter come up and ask me a question for her...she is a odd woman.....I need to learn to keep my big ass mouth shut and that would stop alot of the problems.....