I used to do that - give in all the time so that I would avoid fights. I think a lot of guys do - but then I thought - fuck that! Why do I keep trying to avoid fights and making my life miserable? So - now - with my wife - I stand up to everything I think is important enough to. I fight about everything I can and after 3 years - we are starting to work out the 50/50 thing and everything is cruising along nicely. Of course - now we have a kid coming in October - so we'll have to start all over.