My Quest to COMPETE - BEAT THE DISEASE!

[JKurz1]

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Nice job locking out that deadlift. lol... It's felt like 5 minutes have gone by for me before locking out some heavy deads, tough stuff.

I really hope you can stick to a 3 or 4 day a week lifting schedule.... it'll do you so much more good than you realize.

thanks brutha....I will...4 days MAX........

CHEST/DELTS
BACK/TRPS
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LEGS
ARMS
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to start..........

 

[Neo22]

This post needs to be bumped everyday

Anybody that works out, and knows how to manipulate their diet, which is most of us, realize that we have the power to make these changes to our own bodies. You are exhibiting the SAME behavior as a grossly obese person, who continues to stuff himself and is deaf to good advice. You ignore the very words that would give you what you want. An obese person has a million reasons, genetics, big-boned, whatever, and the more intelligent they are, the more reasons they can come up with to convince themselves that they can't control this. Bodybuilding isn't about letting yourself self destruct, it is just the opposite. Take control, seek professional help, take the steps necessaryto be who you want to be. Life is too short for this torture that you are putting yourself through. You have frustrated the best advisors here, and BigT should be nominated for sainthood.Most of us have seen the results of a good diet and strength programs and they are supposed to have good endings. You are pissing us off because you are sabotaging yourself!

This post needs to be bumped everyday! This post needs to be bumped everyday

 

[blut wump]

Real life doesn't always have good endings; there's sometimes only a rocky road to travel and the horizon to aim for.

 

[wags8]

Real life has very few happy endings. You die. Real life will throw heart breaking sadness at you, things happen that are just unfair, things that you can not predict or prevent. This person needs to put things in perspective, take a walk through a children's cancer ward or a burn unit. Believe me, that WILL put your shit in order. Based on the info given he has the means, to get the help he needs to smooth out his rocky road. Spine is right, the Marines would have been a major benefit to his adult mindset. The horizon spoken of isn't well defined abs.

 

[JKurz1]

Ok...enough.......I get the point......I do have feelings.......it's over....please.

 

[wags8]

I can't speak for everybody, but honestly we feel like we know you and truly want this to be a feel good success story. I speak from my heart.

 

[blut wump]

What you say it, of course, true and has been pointed out to JK many times throughout the thread. The aspect many here seem to overlook, though, is that they suggest he needs psychiatric help and then knock themselves out wondering why he acts as though he is crazy.

There are two good explanations for this thread, one of which we already decided to dismiss in another thread. The other is that he really, truly needs help that we have failed to give over many months and over the past four and half months in particular. He knows that he needs to see a specialist but denial requires that he persevere without one.

As posters on a basically anonymous chat board we have only two choices: give him attention and help, each in our own way, or to ignore him. Personally, as I've mentioned to him in another thread, I think he's committed to running himself to destruction. I suspect many others are transfixed to the thread wondering how bad it's going to get before we find the happy ending. There isn't going to be a happy ending until JK wants one and that isn't going to happen any time soon.

 

[wags8]

I agree... there ain't no easy button. I have a 16 yr old daughter who is bi-polar and I know from experience that I don't know shit about mental disorders. You try to help and cross your fingers that they will take the right steps to help themselves. Good post Blut.

 

[Quadsweep]

I agree... there ain't no easy button. I have a 16 yr old daughter who is bi-polar and I know from experience that I don't know shit about mental disorders. You try to help and cross your fingers that they will take the right steps to help themselves. Good post Blut.

Yes it was a good post but thsi is not the place (nor should it be!) where people completly untrained in the field. (myself included and I have read several pyche books to help me deal with clients) What he gets into here could make matters much worse so I feel somehow he is being done more of a disservice here than he is being helped even though intentions are good. Jkurz, you have to know this is not normal behavior so why do you insist after all this time......you are essentially on the same path. Please, go get help.

Quad

 

[JKurz1]

Yes it was a good post but thsi is not the place (nor should it be!) where people completly untrained in the field. (myself included and I have read several pyche books to help me deal with clients) What he gets into here could make matters much worse so I feel somehow he is being done more of a disservice here than he is being helped even though intentions are good. Jkurz, you have to know this is not normal behavior so why do you insist after all this time......you are essentially on the same path. Please, go get help.

Quad

Actually, you are right, its not normal....but it def. effects many bodybuilders....depression is huge....once you are ripped, it's very very hard on the mind to lsoe it all