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Men..why..why do you refuse sex....
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StickFigure
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FEISTY11975 said:
Then what da prolem is???
feisty11975
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StickFigure said:
It was a joke damnit!!!!!!
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StickFigure
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FEISTY11975 said:It was a joke damnit!!!!!!
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LOL!! I know baby!
REFUSE? HELL NO. Never happen, unless she is butt ugly or something, and I just ain't drunk enough.
I just find that under some circumstances my desire to attack my significant just ain't there. She ain't offerin so I just leave it be. BUT, should she offer, bring it on baby. 
Well, I am guilty of wanting to complete whatever it is I be doing at the time. That seems to be a turn off for her so I get shut out afterward.
I just find that under some circumstances my desire to attack my significant just ain't there. She ain't offerin so I just leave it be. BUT, should she offer, bring it on baby.
Well, I am guilty of wanting to complete whatever it is I be doing at the time. That seems to be a turn off for her so I get shut out afterward.
mrplunkey
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Men are genetically programmed to spread their seed, which is in direct opposition of the notion of spending the rest of your life in a monogomous relationship. The initial, intense sexual energy can drop off -- sometimes dramatically.
So is all hope lost for monogomy? Most definately not. You just have to "trick" your male partner's built-in evolutionary urges. Dress-up, roleplay, spontenaity, sex in strange/dangerous locations, different positions, different techniques... all these things send low-level signals that say "hey, this is different! You've got some seed to spread!"
Oh, and also remember that men's egos toward sex are fragile. A man asking for sex can sometimes (but definately not always) be seen by them as a referrendum on how you feel about the guy. As simple and emotionally dim-witted as we may seem, a lackluster response to one of our sexual advances can sometimes ding our egos! Of course you can always say "not tonight", just be delicate with it. Think of it as how you want us to respond when you say "do these pants make my butt look too big?"
So is all hope lost for monogomy? Most definately not. You just have to "trick" your male partner's built-in evolutionary urges. Dress-up, roleplay, spontenaity, sex in strange/dangerous locations, different positions, different techniques... all these things send low-level signals that say "hey, this is different! You've got some seed to spread!"
Oh, and also remember that men's egos toward sex are fragile. A man asking for sex can sometimes (but definately not always) be seen by them as a referrendum on how you feel about the guy. As simple and emotionally dim-witted as we may seem, a lackluster response to one of our sexual advances can sometimes ding our egos! Of course you can always say "not tonight", just be delicate with it. Think of it as how you want us to respond when you say "do these pants make my butt look too big?"
well, to be honest, sometimes guys get spoiled or used to certain things. and when i don't get that anymore, plain ole' crackers don't do the job. i lived with a house full of strippers for some time and had dated those mysterious, crazy bitches exclusively for almost 10 years. i got used to chicks wearing spike heels and having a sex swing in the bedroom that stayed up year round. then, when i started dating librarians and the like, it was hard to go back to missionary position with all of the eye contact and that. some girls don't like to be spanked and called a slutty bitch while getting railed doggie style. my name is HT and this was my perspective......
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*MissFit*
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U know what men say this.. but give them a chick that has a higher sex drive than them and things change..
Longhorn85
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*MissFit* said:
No such animal
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