Men. any idea?

[binö]

Bino...that was a typo - I was writing fast and didn't realize till a few minutes later that I wrote "obvious" where I had intended to write "opposite"...I switched it before your post here, as you can see in the part you quoted. I agree there's nothing obvious about it. All the points you made, I have already considered...I was just offering you another side. With that in mind, care to respond again?

i would need to hear the man's deposition before responding any farther.
so far we are only hearing one side of the story, and of course it's gonna be slanted, that's what happens when you tell a story such as this.
and nice save on removing obvious

 

[nefertiti]

On the other hand, his coolness could be construed as a good sign. Maybe he genuinely sees no need for concern and has moved on already.

Maybe so, but if that's the case they still have MAJOR marital issues. He may see no cause for concern himself, but if he's seeing that she is still concerned (to say the least) and simply brushing it off and going to bed, they have a HUGE disconnect, there. (and before I get jumped on, it's a disconnect I am not blaming on either party....we've ALL seen how myway can get). If I found myself simply brushing off that my s/o was emotional over something - whether it be because of something on my end, or behavior patterns from them (ie: always over reacting), I'd wonder what I was still doing in the relationship.

One way or another this seems pretty damaged beyond repair.

 

[nefertiti]

i would need to hear the man's deposition before responding any farther.
so far we are only hearing one side of the story, and of course it's gonna be slanted, that's what happens when you tell a story such as this.
and nice save on removing obvious

It really was a typing mistake..."exactly the obvious" doesn't even make sense lol.

 

[Longhorn85]

Maybe so, but if that's the case they still have MAJOR marital issues.

Time for some counseling, perhaps? Still salvageable hopefully.

 

[cindylou]

Maybe so, but if that's the case they still have MAJOR marital issues. He may see no cause for concern himself, but if he's seeing that she is still concerned (to say the least) and simply brushing it off and going to bed, they have a HUGE disconnect, there. (and before I get jumped on, it's a disconnect I am not blaming on either party....we've ALL seen how myway can get). If I found myself simply brushing off that my s/o was emotional over something - whether it be because of something on my end, or behavior patterns from them (ie: always over reacting), I'd wonder what I was still doing in the relationship.

One way or another this seems pretty damaged beyond repair.

I agree, and also, I've also found that people mixed up with the manipulative type people end up GOING crazy becuase they have a gut feeling about something and cant prove it. That could explain myway's suspicous behavior and such anger (destroying computer) is because basically this relationship is driving her crazy.

I dont know if you guys remember the thread about my sis doing this exact thing to her husband? This is the exact same thing, only no panties. Her husband is literally losing his mind and outsiders who dont know them think he is possesive, jealous, overreacts, drinks too much etc etc.

 

[all the whey]

Did you pick them up at the laundry mat maybe?

Maybe he picked her up at the laundry?

A lot of slutty single moms there.

Roll in there with a roll of quarters and they think you are a movie star.


It also helps to throw some at the kids so they can play video games while you work it.

 

[musclemom]

Your own parents don't sell you down the river to your spouse, especially not with a new grandchild in the picture, not unless they think you're being a dog.

Trust me on this, you may believe that you have your parents totally bullshitted, but they usually know what your true character is. They may not know exactly what you're doing, but they know what you're capable of doing.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I would like just ONE "logical" explanation as to how a stranger's intimate apparell could possibly end up in a family's wash.

I could care less if it were male/female. Just come up with ONE scenario that isn't completely "out there" and I would say that MABYE the dude isn't exercising extremely poor judgment during his extra curricular activities.

 

[ceo]

I would like just ONE "logical" explanation as to how a stranger's intimate apparell could possibly end up in a family's wash.

The person who should be the most motivated to come up with that explanation in this scenario STILL hasn't provided it. How could any of us who aren't nearly as motivated possibly do as good a job as he should be able to do?

 

[vixensghost]

Time for some counseling, perhaps? Still salvageable hopefully.

You've mentioned this "salvage" concept before.


I admit it, I would NEVER be able to salvage ANYTHING in our relationship if he cheated on me- EVER. I would never respect or trust him again. Yeah, it's that cut and dry with me!

What is left to salvage if someone can not get past the type person I am? I trust easy, I love easier, I do not forgive AT ALL. It's a flaw I have and it'll never change.