Men a quick question .........

[DIVISION]

BAHAHAH, the big C as in she turns into a real C**T after you get married?

Not all women slack off when they get married.....surely you'd be able to see these things before you make that commitment.




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[Gymgurl]

I think there is a lot of truth here and alot of BS

 

[Ozz2001]

Men a quick question for you....why when you say you want to be friends can you have a ton of sex with this person and say all this lovey things and say your madly in love ...but once the relationship trys to be a serious one (no different from what it was really except for a "name") you guys are done? I never will understand that one.......why does friends with benifits work better when your in love then a real relationship?

Hmm simple,guys are going to say whatever they can to hit that @ss and once he does, the thrills over till the next time.If he doesnt want to get serious its because it was just a sex thing from the get go,or he didnt like the ride very well.(you dont buy a car with out a test drive) Cant put it much more straight up then that!

 

[Gymgurl]

That was honest

 

[HiDnGoD]

So a woman allows a man to have sex with her, she then assumes that man loves her - why is this? (I'm just prompting debate)

Men and women's brains wired-up differently?

Partly that & partly indoctrination I think.

 

[Gymgurl]

That is not true.....we don't assume they love us until they tell us!

 

[HiDnGoD]

That is not true.....we don't assume they love us until they tell us!

What I meant was, I think a lot of women, from the time they are little girls are taught to believe in the whole marriage white picket fence thing. & they are driven to achieve that. Not that there's anything wrong with that, but sometimes this drive blinds them to looking for the real thing & not just accepting.

 

[Gymgurl]

I agree and alot of the time we go into marriage not thinking we have to work at it

 

[HiDnGoD]

I agree and alot of the time we go into marriage not thinking we have to work at it

That's true. A lot of young married couples I know aren't willing to put the work in. It's not just fixing smething after it's gone wrong. It's communicating & finding what your partner needs & what you need, before things got critical.
A lot of people change after marriage, but it's not just the marriage cert. that does it. It's the new responsibility, time, life experiences, work, children. Through all this you have to grow together as a couple, compromising & dealing all the way.
I've got to admit, my wife has done more than I have, but I do things that she values highly, so they almost balance out.

 

[Gymgurl]

Great point!