Men a quick question .........

[HdanSjr]

I've tired that friends with benifit thing...didnt like it.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

got me. Men are weird....

 

[sigmund]

In my opinon when a man says he wants to be friends with "extras", it usually means he wants multiple "friends" and is playing the field / not serious about commiting to any one girl - just having a good time (nothing wrong with that as long as both parties know the deal and are happy with it).

If he starts saying things like he's in love with any of these women (with no intention of commiting) then he's an asshole and has probably confused love with lust.

 

[Gymgurl]

I have experienced the can't committ..love/lust thing is the past (long ago) I don't like the friends with benifits thing either....It is hard for women ( now remebe this one guys) but not all women to seperate sex and love.....once the sex thing comes in it is over for them.....I know and most of you bolt at that time lol!

 

[~Lexy~]

I have experienced the can't committ..love/lust thing is the past (long ago) I don't like the friends with benifits thing either....It is hard for women ( now remebe this one guys) but not all women to seperate sex and love.....once the sex thing comes in it is over for them.....I know and most of you bolt at that time lol!

You said it very well. ~~~ I think women are able to separate love and sex in their thirties a lot better.

 

[Gymgurl]

Girl ...that is one thing I can agree with you on 100%

 

[sigmund]

(now remebe this one guys) but not all women to seperate sex and love.....once the sex thing comes in it is over for them.....

So a woman allows a man to have sex with her, she then assumes that man loves her - why is this? (I'm just prompting debate)

Men and women's brains wired-up differently?

 

[Gymgurl]

Not all do..my questions was more in theory I guess.....but I have had one tell me how he loved me and then pull away all the time....but I think women equate sex with love

 

[rudeboyja]

Many do, but i've also found that if you're honest with them from jump, they're usually cool with the friends with benifits relationship. If you start playing games, getting jealous or throwing around the "L" word it's a different story

 

[Gymgurl]

You know...you are right on with that statement!