Men a quick question .........

[mordy]

Its not about just commitment, or a name. More is commited when you sign the paper and put a ring on a finger. A man is then suddenly by law pretty much responsible for the womans livelyhood beond marriage. That means a chick can turn into a dirtly, lying, back stabbing, stealing, bitch, and when a man tries to get rid of her, its a lottery when it comes to him getting off without crippling vaginamony, i mean alimony. Its worse if the poor guy got her pregnant also.

Oh, and you chicks change too. don't give me any crap lie that you don't. You might not realize it as what you girls do is perfectly natural really, but it happens. A wise man knows that a married woman is different than a girlfriend in many ways that are not pleasurable for him.

 

[PBR]

ive been in this situation for about 3 years now....there is no such thing as friends with benefits...it maybe for a short period of time, but in my experience the women become attached. period. even the women in their late 30's -40's, they can go with it for a bit, but they eventually want more...which really has been a compliment to me...so im not bashing here at all...just saying, fuck-buddies dont last....i ask/ tell up front before i get into anything if this is the case...they are usually cool with it and understand if they want sex...if they are "looking" down the road they'll say so...

 

[Gymgurl]

Its not about just commitment, or a name. More is commited when you sign the paper and put a ring on a finger. A man is then suddenly by law pretty much responsible for the womans livelyhood beond marriage. That means a chick can turn into a dirtly, lying, back stabbing, stealing, bitch, and when a man tries to get rid of her, its a lottery when it comes to him getting off without crippling vaginamony, i mean alimony. Its worse if the poor guy got her pregnant also.

Oh, and you chicks change too. don't give me any crap lie that you don't. You might not realize it as what you girls do is perfectly natural really, but it happens. A wise man knows that a married woman is different than a girlfriend in many ways that are not pleasurable for him.

Explain the last statement about a married women..I'm not sure if I am taking this right....

 

[rudeboyja]

ive been in this situation for about 3 years now....there is no such thing as friends with benefits...it maybe for a short period of time, but in my experience the women become attached. period. even the women in their late 30's -40's, they can go with it for a bit, but they eventually want more...which really has been a compliment to me...so im not bashing here at all...just saying, fuck-buddies dont last....i ask/ tell up front before i get into anything if this is the case...they are usually cool with it and understand if they want sex...if they are "looking" down the road they'll say so...

Well i'm 32 & have had one since High School. We stopped for a while when she was married (now divorced), and it usually only happens every other month at most, but that is what it is. She knows me well & knows how I am. Hell, we go out and she even hooks me up with others. We make it a point never to plan any encounters, but we have a rule that when one of us wants it the other has to oblidge. Rare yes, but it can happen.

 

[Gymgurl]

You just have to be able to block yourself off mentaly and detatch.....I would prefer mine married I think

 

[DIVISION]

Men a quick question for you....why when you say you want to be friends can you have a ton of sex with this person and say all this lovey things and say your madly in love ...but once the relationship trys to be a serious one (no different from what it was really except for a "name") you guys are done? I never will understand that one.......why does friends with benifits work better when your in love then a real relationship?

Because men are inherently scared of commitment and also because women's attitude changes once it's officially a "relationship" rather than strictly fuckfriends.

Women change their thought process on things, they place so much emphasis on a label for the relationship......rather than what the actual foundation is built on. They see it as a status thing.......relationship, then possibly marriage.....these are intermediate steps to the final goal.

If it was all fun 'n' games, nobody would be married and everyone would be fuckfriends.



DIV

 

[artrius]

If it was all fun 'n' games, nobody would be married and everyone would be fuckfriends.


DIV

you say that as if there was something inherently wrong with that.....

 

[milo hobgoblin]

LOL..

I always LOVED this questiona dn here is your answer.

Because American men have learned that we cant trust women emotionally OR sexually and as soon as we committ.. they stop working for it and lose interest. For most women.. they second that get you.. its no longer a challenge and they get lazy in the bedroon..

But as long as your just friends.. she'll keep going down on that cock like a starvign ethiopian on a sandwhich platter.


Women broguht this shit on themseleves and now that they are having to pay the price .. they dont like it.

 

[Bikini Mod]

LOL..

I always LOVED this questiona dn here is your answer.

Because American men have learned that we cant trust women emotionally OR sexually and as soon as we committ.. they stop working for it and lose interest. For most women.. they second that get you.. its no longer a challenge and they get lazy in the bedroon..

But as long as your just friends.. she'll keep going down on that cock like a starvign ethiopian on a sandwhich platter.


Women broguht this shit on themseleves and now that they are having to pay the price .. they dont like it.

Exceptions to every rule.

I was faithfully with my exhusband for 13 years. With the exception of when I was pregnant - he NEVER had to ask for sex.... EVER. I always made sure that I was pretty for him, asked him how his day was and listened when he replied.

I wanted mad crazy at least 6 days a week - till the night he beat me to the ground. Then it was GAME OVER.

 

[Golemnium]

I only read the first post.

I think it's simple, friends with benefits, is benefits without duties.