I think because it is care free compared to all the bullshit of a maintaing a relationship, marriage, finances, getting a head, stress, and then the eventual hatered you feel for one another.
Men a quick question for you....why when you say you want to be friends can you have a ton of sex with this person and say all this lovey things and say your madly in love ...but once the relationship trys to be a serious one (no different from what it was really except for a "name") you guys are done? I never will understand that one.......why does friends with benifits work better when your in love then a real relationship?
There must be boundaries established. If the grounds were simply to be fuck buddies, then trying to turn it into a real relationship isn't fair to the other half's emotions. In this case, you can't have your cake and eat it too.
There must be a relationship mindset from the start in order to end with one when sex is at the forefront.
Very rarely if ever does each side feel the same way in these situations.
Men a quick question for you....why when you say you want to be friends can you have a ton of sex with this person and say all this lovey things and say your madly in love ...but once the relationship trys to be a serious one (no different from what it was really except for a "name") you guys are done? I never will understand that one.......why does friends with benifits work better when your in love then a real relationship?
Because men are animals of multiple sexual partners. We can't stay with only one forever. It's against our insticts of reproduction and conservation of species.
Because men are animals of multiple sexual partners. We can't stay with only one forever. It's against our NOBLE AND HONOURABLE insticts of reproduction and conservation of species.