Married people..How often do you get sex?

[Longhorn85]

she has informed him, in front of reliable witnesses, now that the kids are born, that she is done with "bedroom activities".

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This is liscence to get a girlfriend.

 

[Longhorn85]

Married people and long termed relationship people..How often do you get to enjoy sex with your partner? How long in between sessions do you think is to long?

Over 13 years we've probably averaged 3/4 times a week. If we go more than 3 days without making love then there is tension.

 

[Citruscide]

Damn... that sucks. Sex is so vital to any relationship... women just stop giving it out after they know they have you... hm... so... if a woman never thinks she really HAS me... then I'll get sex all the time!! Sweet idea Bikini... from now on, I'll constantly be a challange for these dames... even when serious, I'll be chatting with other hotties, making her think her seat is constantly on edge

GENTLEMEN... WE HAVE A GAMEPLAN!!

C

 

[rnch]

Re: Re: Married people..How often do you get sex?

Over 13 years we've probably averaged 3/4 times a week. If we go more than 3 days without making love then there is tension.

only THREE QUARTERS of a time? wattsamatta, someone can't go the distance anymore?






(j/k, dude!)

 

[Lestat]

As I read this I am getting a BJ. LOL

Lol!

this gets my vote for best vote of all time!

 

[Longhorn85]

this thread is giving me a good reason to answer no...

If you focus on the negative responses only, yes.

 

[curling]

17 years. I get funest form of cardio 3 or 4 times a week. Since I am off cycle now maybe one more time would be optimum. During cycle once every three hours I would need it.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Damn... that sucks. Sex is so vital to any relationship... women just stop giving it out after they know they have you... hm... so... if a woman never thinks she really HAS me... then I'll get sex all the time!! Sweet idea Bikini... from now on, I'll constantly be a challange for these dames... even when serious, I'll be chatting with other hotties, making her think her seat is constantly on edge

GENTLEMEN... WE HAVE A GAMEPLAN!!

C

You know... you just might be onto something!

Seriously though - I find it REALLY ODD that this is the case in MOST MARRIAGES. Women routinely withhold sex or have their drive go waaaaaaaay down.

I am always ragging on women who go there.

"Well he pissed me off and I am not giving him the kitty!"

My attitude?

YOU DUMB BITCH!! Why on earth would you DEPRIVE YOURSELF of an orgasm? Because he pissed you off?! That is plain dumb! (Of course, I am not talking about serious things like cheating, etc. I am talking not taking out the trash, leaving up the toilet seat.... stupid shit.)

What did I do when my guy pissed me off?

Simple.

I would fuck his brains out..... then go shopping!

 

[Temple]

BMom - I have spent a good bit of time listening to women talk and listening to they guys talk about their women. I think there are several things going on with this. First of all I think the number of women who reach orgasm is very low despite what they say and usually it is not because their man doesn't care it is because they don't tell him what they need. Secondly, I think it would be interesting to see hormone profiles on these women. I am willing to bet that in almost every case they have low test and low progesterone. Then there is the bunch that are on prozac for whatever reason - I don't care what kind of sex drive you have before this drug it will become nonexistent with the drug.
A man goes to the doctor and says "I can't get it up" and they bend over backwards trying to solve the problem. When a woman goes in with no sex drive she basically has to go thru a whole explanation of how the relationship is fine, no she's not depressed blah blah blah and finally she ends up telling the doctor she wants some androgel and hopes he will give it to her.

Guys, do you think as many men would cheat on their wives if the wives were keeping them satisfied or is it not about sex but about sex with someone different???

 

[Longhorn85]

Why on earth would you DEPRIVE YOURSELF of an orgasm? Because he pissed you off?!

If your primary reason for having sex is to get yourself off vs pleasing your partner and being close, your marriage is doomed.