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Married men: what's the longest you've gone w/o sex?

My wife is 41 as well and still has the body of a 25yr old. That was the frustrating part, she is hot and I just want her constantly and that's after 11 yrs of marriage. I don't think I'm breaking any "source" rules by giving a legitimate pharmacy that helped me out. I got the cream at powermedica. They have a 5%, 10% and 20%. The 5% will do very little and the 20%is a little too potent so 10%is the way to go. It was $110 for a 60day supply if you use 1 inch of cream per day. Have her rub it on her labia every morning and within 2 weeks tops she will feel a huge difference. This stuff is no joke, my wife tried some of the herbal products like Avlimil but they do nothing. It's all about test.
 
Milo Hobgoblin said:
any married man who puts up with tthat shit for more than a few weeks is an idiot.

any woman who is too selfish and/or stupid to realize how important sex is to a man and how much in menas to men in terms of a relationship doesnt deserve a man at all.
& that goes both ways too ... any woman who puts up w/ that shit is a fool!
And any man who is too selfish doesn't deserve her at all! :qt:
 
Milo Hobgoblin said:
my biggest fear would be marrying her and shutting that shit down..
which is what happened to my broly.

old joke: how do you stop a nympho from doing it? you marry her!"

from what he has told me, it myst be hell on earth to be married to a woman you still love but who won't have sex with you. :worried:
 
rnch said:
from what he has told me, it myst be hell on earth to be married to a woman you still love but who won't have sex with you. :worried:

Yep, that's pretty much what my buddy is going through: hell on earth. One month ago everything was honky dory, then BAM the sex was turned off like a water faucet, she shows no interest in the slightest. That would worry the hell outta me too.

MissJanet79 said:
& that goes both ways too ... any woman who puts up w/ that shit is a fool!
And any man who is too selfish doesn't deserve her at all!

I think you underestimate just how important sex is to a man, especially a married one. The fear of being "stuck" with one woman for the rest of your life, who doesn't want to even touch you let alone have sex, is damn frightening. I think I'm going to talk to my wife tonight about it, just so we are prepared if/when it happens.
 
I hate to sound like Dr. Phil (cause I can't stand that guy), but if the man's wife doesn't want sex or has no desire, then your bro has to put his foot down. If he doesn't, then it is his fault. No accusations of cheating is necessary. Perhaps he should start brainstorming ways of getting her in a better mood when it comes to that.

I'm not telling you to tell him to do this, but this is what worked for me:
I am not the type of guy who gawks at other women and makes comments like, "she's cute" or "she's hot" in front of my wife. That is my way of letting her know she is my queen and I am HER man. Now, my wife is an Army Major on active duty who spends LOTS of time working--sometimes until 9:30- 10:00 at night. Well, to make a long story short, she got to the point where she was not in the mood for months at a time. So, I purposefully started "noticing" other women while walking through the mall and making comments about attractive big booty women on TV. She got the point. No more than 5 days later she decided to put Victoria Secrets bags, candles, oils and the Liberator pillow set all up in a brother's bedroom. Nuff Sed. HOLLER!!!!
 
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bluetwistedsteel67 said:
My wife is 41 as well and still has the body of a 25yr old. That was the frustrating part, she is hot and I just want her constantly and that's after 11 yrs of marriage. I don't think I'm breaking any "source" rules by giving a legitimate pharmacy that helped me out. I got the cream at powermedica. They have a 5%, 10% and 20%. The 5% will do very little and the 20%is a little too potent so 10%is the way to go. It was $110 for a 60day supply if you use 1 inch of cream per day. Have her rub it on her labia every morning and within 2 weeks tops she will feel a huge difference. This stuff is no joke, my wife tried some of the herbal products like Avlimil but they do nothing. It's all about test.


:p :p ;)
 
If a woman has a low sex drive, it's often hormonally related and she should get her levels checked by her GYN. He can perscribe test cream and most insurance companies will cover it. Women can start menopause at 40 y.o., many don't until much later, it's genetic, she can get an idea based on her family history and the earlier she got her period the earlier she'll loose it.

I just never understood how some women can be so selfish though. Really, it's only a lack of drive, it's not like once it gets going it's painful or anything. If you really do care about your guy you would just change your mindset. Hell, I don't know any woman who enjoys doing the laundry but that gets done, so why not give your man something he really enjoys?

I don't see how a person can work 2 jobs and still have time for a relationship though...something needs to change there. Marriage should be fun, how can you have fun together when you don't see eachother?
 
I went thru this for 3 years in my first marriage. What sukked was when we first together she was a porn level lover.

But I geuss time and marriage has a way of ruining even the best of women.

So I figured after 3 years of this shit, I could justify leaving.

Now after 11 years I'm in a similar situation, only not as bad as the first. But at least now we have a much better relationship, so it is easier to live with.

But then again, my curent wife is in her 50s, so I also must accept all that entails as well.
 
Some of the responses by the dudes on this board are just plain stupid and selfish. More to life then sex, if she's not in the mood for a while suck it up, life is tough. Hope none of you ever suffer from erectile dysfunction later on in life and get dumped by your current or future wifes for some young stud, heh.

Stepping off soapbox.
 
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