I was nervous as hell. I asked her mom for her blessing the week before Cristmas, so she knew what was up. That night my wife asks if we will evr get married. I told her we would talk about it in 6 months, cause I just started a new job. Christmas morning, all presents open, sittin around chatting, and her mom comes up to me and says, "you gonna do it or what? theres vodka in the freezer if you need it." So I start in on this speach to her mom and sisters, about how great they all are, and how they have welcomed me into the family. My wife was clueless, she kept interrupting, and adding to my speech. " yeah, you are great!" and "We really Love you." So I finally get to it and drop to one knee next to her and pull out the rock, and say, " I love you, will you be my wife?" She said "yes" I thought we would be engaged for awhile, and pick a date, take our time, but later that day we had her mom and sisiters over for Christmas dinner, and her mom says, I want you to get married this year. Then my wife says Our anniversary is in august, its on a saturday, we can do it then. I'm like wtf????