Look at how sorry nordstrom's dating life is

[Testosterone boy]

do you konw where tripleblonde went? i miss her. I developed a small crush on her when we started talking via IM a month ago, our conversations went really well. Now shes gone. This sucks.

She left?

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

fickle. thats the word!

Yeah, but she was cool and I miss her...
I wonder if she's still a virgin?

 

[Moderate_THIS]

I wonder if she's still a virgin?

Not anymore and she's dead. Draw your own conclusions, folks.

 

[Lao Tzu]

Ok i have a situation. I spent about 2 hours IMing a woman in my town, and i saw a few face pics. Our personalities seem to get along and i want to see if she is date material. However i fear she may be really really fat. Im not deeply superficial mind you, i can handle chubby or 170 lb fat and my physical standards are pretty low. But i think she may be 250 lb fat, and i would not be physically attracted to someone like that.

So how do i get to see her in person w/o it sounding like a date? if im attracted to her then i can ask her out in person, if not then we can just be friends. What should my approach be. What should I say to her via IM so we can meet in person w/o there being pressure for it to be a date? should i say 'want to go to the library book sale' or would that sound like a date?

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

Why'd you change your ID mang?

 

[Lao Tzu]

Why'd you change your ID mang?

I think i want to retire the Nordstrom handle at 9999 posts.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

I think i want to retire the Nordstrom handle at 9999 posts.

Ok....

 

[Nathan]

Hey man, everyone's a little weird in some ways. I've had periods of 2 years with no sex and little to no dating,, and didn't even beat off through grades 10 and 11 pretty much since my sex drive disappeared due to depression. I always thought that was kind of weird. And it's not like it ends. I still get weird as fuck sometimes and can't even be around people without weirding everyone out. I think you need to stop putting pressure on yourself. I think it sucks that society has placed it in people's heads that they need to be interacting socially and especially sexually to be acceptable. Who the fuck cares? You either like meeting new people and spending your time trying to get laid or you don't. Nothing wrong with going either way. I do think, however, that you should at least give both a try and then gauge how you like each. Maybe there's a balance you can find, but it sounds like it's something you are at least interested in otherwise you probably wouldn't be mentioning it in Internet Land. Wait, you aren't fucking with me are you?
Another trick I have found works well with overcoming shyness is drugs and lots of them.

 

[Lestat]

Ok i have a situation. I spent about 2 hours IMing a woman in my town, and i saw a few face pics. Our personalities seem to get along and i want to see if she is date material. However i fear she may be really really fat. Im not deeply superficial mind you, i can handle chubby or 170 lb fat and my physical standards are pretty low. But i think she may be 250 lb fat, and i would not be physically attracted to someone like that.

So how do i get to see her in person w/o it sounding like a date? if im attracted to her then i can ask her out in person, if not then we can just be friends. What should my approach be. What should I say to her via IM so we can meet in person w/o there being pressure for it to be a date? should i say 'want to go to the library book sale' or would that sound like a date?

Ask to get together for coffee or dessert..

meet her at the place, don't pick her up.

And dress casual and act casual.

When you see her for the first time, if she's too fat, shake her hand, don't hug her.

If she's ok initially based on physical inspection, go for a quick hug to set the tone.

 

[string_bean00]

When you see her for the first time, if she's too fat, shake her hand, don't hug her.

If she's ok initially based on physical inspection, go for a quick hug to set the tone.

Great advice here.