Last night I asked my girl to go down on me while I was driving us home.

[XBiker]

There are pleanty of fish in the sea, get out your pole (sic) and start laying the bait to find another.

I have found that you must find a woman that has balance. Unfortunately, women do not think in rational and logical patterns (most dont...), so you must choose wisely.

Find one that's a prude and it gets boring very fast.

Find one that's a ho and you can never trust her.

Find one that's a freak on a leash and you will not be bored.

Good luck, bro.

 

[Grizzly]

Are you dating my ex? Atleast she had the common courtesy to appologize about being boring now that she's with you.

I don't know, dude. Seems to me that it may be time to make a change. I used to put up with that shit, too. I can't do it anymore. There's way too many women who are actually fun in bed and who care about your sexual pleasure to stay with one who doesn't.

 

[raft]

Don't sacrifice your happiness for hers.
My last girl, we screwed like wild dogs for a few months, and then it became a chore to her.
At first I thought it was me, but I finally realized we weren't sexually compatible.
She could go a month with no sex as if it was no problem.

Needless to say I hope shes doing well.

 

[Formula]

Well I have the greatest of them all. She does it without me asking for it. Sweeetttt

 

[Golfer18--old]

Dont give her dick, That will make her horny and she cant resist. Simple as that.

 

[Longhorn85]

Dont give her dick, That will make her horny and she cant resist. Simple as that.

Simple as that yes, if you're satisfied with sex once a month. Time to move on.

 

[alexiarenee]

Her response was: I don't feel like it.
So my response was: When DO you feel like it? Because she never really does.
So then she says: So me giving you head is that big of a deal?
And then I go on to tell her its not that its a big deal its just that all the little sexual things add up and make it fun, because right now our sex life is like a check list ,we hang out and go to bed and then its like,
-kiss a few times- CHECK
-play with her clit- CHECK
-tits,,, licked umm-CHECK
-fuck her until she gets dry, and not blow my load-CHECK
and so on.

My girlfriend then went on to say I'm sorry I can't help it I'm boring,,, its not the fact that shes boring its just that she doesn't try.

The little things that add up that I'm talking about are things like her shaving a little rumble strip, being spontanious, having my girl being the one who starts it instead of it always being me, being creative, having fun with it?
Is this to much to ask for?
All of these things I have suggested for her to do, and she hasn't even really tried any of them or stuck with them.
I asked her to maybe shave a strip and she said maybe at 1st, then I asked later and it turned into I'll do it when you least expect it. Well I dropped it and a few months passed where I would of least expected it and nothing, so I started bringing it up again and she gets pissed saying : why are you bringing this up again all of the time, its like a little kid when they ask you over and over for the same thing, its annoying ect.
So I started getting pissed saying: whats annoying is when I suggest something and it gets pushed to the side where its forgoten about, and then when I remember and bring it up I'm the one being annoying.
Its been hard for me to bring this up because I feel like if I do bring it up I'm sort of acting like this is all that matters to me.
This is not all that matters to me, but it does matter to me.

I Explained to her that this makes me feel like shes not attracted to me.
The thing I have not explained to her is that this makes me feel like maybe there is someone out there that would be more attracted to me, (I'm not saying I going to act upon these feelings, because truthfully I'm not like that)
Shed some light on my story!

Maybe we can get together cuz me and my b/f have the opposite problem!! LOL.

 

[kd]

quoting dad:

"you CANNOT apply logic and calm reasoning to the female mind"

FRlolFRlol

 

[crash3837]

alexiarenee, if your really are from Tx it would be a very long distance relationship for us.
But to everone else me and her talked today it seemed like forever.
I basically told her what I've told all of you and more, so apparently we're going to work on it, I hope this will not just be a temp solution.
The thing that just blew my mind was while we were talking she said that everything seems so dirty ect,,,(she doesn't like it when I do her from behind because its so dirty???)
She feels its not being intimate I guess because we can't see each others face doing doggy style?
I asked her what in her book is intmate?Like 1 or 2 positions?
I just don't understand

 

[alexiarenee]

It sounds to me liek you two are on the opposite ends of the sexual globe....she seems VERY old fashioned ( ans I am sorry to say it, kinda boring if you ask me ) , and you want to be nasty ( in a good way ) and try new things.
I don't know what to say othe rthan if she doesn't change, I guess you'll have to accept it, or move on if it matters to you that much.
I don't know what I would do if MY man was like that though.....we both are pretty freaky ( when we DO get it on )..
Are any men out there old fashioned, too??? Do any of you guys find doggy style and toys offensive?