Last night I asked my girl to go down on me while I was driving us home.

[Longhorn85]

Sounds like a good plan, similar to the one I am trying. Tell me, when you are doing the rim job, what position is she in, is it the "doggy style" position or the missionary? Seems like doggy style would be the best to work towards anal.

 

[crash3837]

M56M, yes she really enjoys it, just getting her to return the favor has been a big chore in the past,,, its starting to get a little better though.

 

[M56M]

TTPKG,

No particular position, when i start getting into it i will eat her out in about 50 different postions...LOL. But i love doggy style the best. Even though, i know alot of woman that like to be on top when you are fucking them in the ass. So i guess its trial and error....LOL. Good Luck.

M56M, yes she really enjoys it, just getting her to return the favor has been a big chore in the past,,, its starting to get a little better though.

Well then i misunderstood, i thought you meant that she didn't like either, she just like to have sex, and no foreplay. And wasn't into dirty sex.

But if she likes to getting her shit off, and then not return the favor....

Then i would be outta there REAL fast.

M56M

 

[dudelift]

Well , i've just about given up on my wife . I will try to get it to happen once again, but damn it's soooooo frustrating sometimes, but the fact of the matter is that im not goin anywhere , so i mi'daswell make it happen !!

 

[curling]

Well , i've just about given up on my wife . I will try to get it to happen once again, but damn it's soooooo frustrating sometimes, but the fact of the matter is that im not goin anywhere , so i mi'daswell make it happen !!

Hey dude the advice I gave was for crash. You are in a different situation since you are married. I would have a long talk with and do me and my wife did. I told her I loved her very much but I have needs as a man. And I told she has needs as a woman. So I said why don't you make a list and so will I with 20 things you would like to see me do for you and I will make the same list for you. It is all about communication. And doing the right thing to turn her on and then vice a versa she will do things to turn you on. Then you will have a very successful happy marriage for the both of you. It just takes the effort to do so.

 

[JC Grifter]

Time to trade in for the newer model

 

[dudelift]

Yep , i agree curling , we've done that on several occasions , it's helped some, but always seems to go back to what it was.

I tried what M56M suggested , tried it this morning, went down on her , she said stop, i said nope lol . I didn't get to do it for too long but i did get to do it for longer than i have in a long long time . I did it cause she wasn't wet at all and we're out of KY jelly so that's why i did it , i didn't want to go through all the same foreplay bullshit as usual, with ME doin EVERYTHING as usual , so i went down on her and low and behold she was bigtime wet when i entered her !! Imagine that huh ? Damn , you'd think she freakin crave it , but she doesn't , oh well .

See y'all later .......

 

[curling]

Yep , i agree curling , we've done that on several occasions , it's helped some, but always seems to go back to what it was.



See y'all later .......

I know exactly what you are talking about but that is thing you got to "keep" working on it(just like lifting everyweek almost everyday or you start shrinking and getting small). It is a proven fact that relationships drift after time so you have constantly "work" on it to keep it hot. I would definetely tell her how important this is to you but at the same time ask her what things are important to her that you do.