Ladies if your man was rich enough would you let him...

[jd_uk]

Yes, and your point would be?

http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/elite-between-sheets/threesomes-wtf-525961.html


I do consulting for the site www.emarital.com and actually wrote a book for them. Doesn't mean that I participate. Just as there are many many peeps on elite that don't do steroids. Hell, most of the peeps on C&C have never even seen the inside of a gym!

It is a well-known fact that there are two things that I do not share with my sisters, EVER.

And those are:

1. my shoes.

and

2. MY MAN.

Any questions?

Touchy.

Was just wondering. Naturally, i got the impression that you were into that lifestyle when i saw you had your own profile (or whatever it's called on a swinging site). The way you speak of your hubby sounds like he's into being the submissive one in your relationship.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Touchy.

Was just wondering. Naturally, i got the impression that you were into that lifestyle when i saw you had your own profile (or whatever it's called on a swinging site). The way you speak of your hubby sounds like he's into being the submissive one in your relationship.

Touchy? Nope, that is your perception alone.

I have had asshats ad nauseum call me all sorts of names because they assumed that I was into swinging/cheating/etc.

My husband is a very high powered executive and veteran when you were a twinkle in your old man's eyes. He doesn't take shit off anyone, and neither do I give it. The fact that he dotes on me doesn't make him submissive. Let's just say that he is smart enough to know where his bread is buttered.... as am I.

 

[-SD-]

Only if I can have me a pool boy.....

Thats because the question is posed with the husband making all the money and supporting your ass, not the other way around.

 

[jd_uk]

Touchy? Nope

If you say so.

I have had asshats ad nauseum call me all sorts of names because they assumed that I was into swinging/cheating/etc.

I suppose that's why you responded in such a defensive manner. I personally don't think theres anything wrong with it if couples like that.

My husband is a very high powered executive and veteran when you were a twinkle in your old man's eyes. He doesn't take shit off anyone, and neither do I give it. The fact that he dotes on me doesn't make him submissive. Let's just say that he is smart enough to know where his bread is buttered.... as am I.

lol. I'm not talking about your husband's job. I'm obviously very aware that you purposely married a very rich (and in some ways powerful) man. I was talking sexually...you just give the impression, as does he, that you are the more dominant partner in that way and he is less so. Almost as if he is turned on by it being that way. Again, just my perception based on the way you speak.

 

[Bikini Mod]

If you say so.



I suppose that's why you responded in such a defensive manner. I personally don't think theres anything wrong with it if couples like that.



lol. I'm not talking about your husband's job. I'm obviously very aware that you purposely married a very rich (and in some ways powerful) man. I was talking sexually...you just give the impression, as does he, that you are the more dominant partner in that way and he is less so. Almost as if he is turned on by it being that way. Again, just my perception based on the way you speak.

My husband was a broke dick dog when I married him. He had A LOT of money and assets when we began to date but (if you will see my Karma is a bitch thread) he got hisself into some bad situations because he became entangled/trusted the wrong people. But that is ok...

Money is not at all appealing to me. BRAINS and CHARACTER are.

And as for who is dominant? There really is none to speak of. I guess that I am "given" more authority by him, but it is well-given as I am not selfish or controlling.

What most people don't realize is that in a true dom/sub interaction it is not the dom that holds the power, but it is actually given by the submissive.

Does that make sense?

 

[jd_uk]

And as for who is dominant? There really is none to speak of. I guess that I am "given" more authority by him, but it is well-given as I am not selfish or controlling.

What most people don't realize is that in a true dom/sub interaction it is not the dom that holds the power, but it is actually given by the submissive.

Does that make sense?

Yep makes perfect sense. It just seemed obvious to me that this was your situation and he that he enjoy being the submissive one. In a way the sub one holds more power as he is 'granting it', in a way not because really he likes to pretend that he hasn't granted it in the first place and because the dom partner has more freedom. Usually.

 

[blueta2]

Can you be my reserve if my current relationship doesn't work out?

sure, as long as you dig old ladies ;-)

 

[jd_uk]

sure, as long as you dig old ladies ;-)

Older women are hot. It can be more of a challenge to please an older woman. I like that...Can be more satisfying she realises she was wrong about the younger guy.

 

[Mr. Black]

I love my guy, but seeing him being pleasured makes me LOVE him more ;-)

So I take it you and your man are into 3 somes?

 

[velvett]

I already fondle his balls.