LADIES---how many guys have YOU slept with?

[Night Fly]

Being a whore or a slut has alot to do with the way you carry yourself. I mean, if you walk around and let everyone know that you sleep around...then yeah, you are going to be considered that. Also, what people don't know won't hurt them. You can carry yourself well and still like to have sex.

 

[RealDeal]

I agree & disagree with some of the above comments.

Numbers DO matter, but what matters more is WHERE those numbers came from. For example, vixenbabe states all the men she slept with were involved in a relationship with her, so that wouldn't be considered being promiscuous. Though her comment about 9 or 99 is a bit over the top...99? Shit yeah that'd be a slut!

And age is also a factor. Naturally you'd expect an older woman to have had more partners than a younger woman, but this isn't always true. There is a limit to how many is too many, but determining that line is up to the individual. If you're 24 and have been with over 10 guys, some people will think that's slutty while others won't think much of it. I think to a guy it also depends on what they're looking for with the woman in question. Is he looking for a potential wife, a temporary g/f, or someone to just have sex with.

I certainly don't like the # of guys my g/f's been with. Sometimes it gets to me if I dwell on it, but it IS in the past and there are more important things to consider.

 

[Hotdad]

I hope he believes you when you say it isn't true. There is nothing that can bug you like and over active imagination and wondering about the past.

 

[TheSalami]

i can be a very loving guy for one night.

 

[Blondie Girl]

I would never EVER tell anyone, boyfriend, best friend ANYONE how many people I've slept with, sleeping with, and whatever you want to call it.

"Relationship Habits" don't tell you anything. A woman who had a number of short-term affairs may just have been looking for you; a person who had a long-term parter may be ready to party. And how would knowing precisly how many partners a girlfriend had help the guy when he asks?

 

[macDbol]

all these chicks saying "numers dont matter" is makeing me think that the number must be high

 

[2juice]

I dont think it matters, if a chick likes to have sex then great,
thats one less prude we have to deal with. I think its possible
that some guys have a problem with it because of his own
insecurities (if you know what i mean). also as you get older your
opinion may change.

 

[bigdaddyscout1]

IM ALL ABOUT SOME ONE NIGHT STANDS AND WHY NOT WE BOTH GET OUR COOKIES..... IVE SLEPT WITH LOTS AND LOTS OF WOMAN AND I LIKED THEM ALL IN SOME WAY...... BUT IN TRUTH I COULD NEVER MARRY ONE...... SO LADIES KEEP YOUR # TO YOURSELF CUZ IT WILL FUCK WITH YOUR MANS HEAD .....HE'LL BE DOWN THERE EATING AWAY AND START TO THINK ABOUT HOW MANY DICKS HAVE BEEN IN THERE ........ OR MABYE IM JUST FUCKED UP

 

[RealDeal]

No, you're not fucked up...think that is pretty normal.

Seriously, most of you guys saying it doesn't matter must not be considering a long-term relationship or even wife material. If you're just talking about a short-term deal or a one-nighter, well sure, who gives a shit? But are you really going to date a girl for a couple of years or even marry her if she's been rodded by 10, 20, 30+ guys? Yeah, right...tell me that wouldn't bother you. If it doesn't, you're either a liar or one carefree SOB...or you've never been faced w/that situation so have no idea how you'd feel.

And ladies, if your man (again, we're talking long-term r'ships or marriage here) is honest (um, yeah) and tells you his real #, you're not going to be bothered if he says, 15, 25, 50+? Sorry, but unless you've got a shitload of ticks on your headboard, I can't imagine women wouldn't be bothered by the thought either.

 

[Diesel3d]

If she is just for fun... who cares how many guys... but if she wants to be the mother of my children I would be very picky about it. I think when I want to marry for kids, I will go to a Greek island and pick up a village girl virgin and work from there.

No way the mother of my children is going to be some slut who had different dicks in her mouth. Fucking nasty, I have no respect for that. I am a very traditional guy when it comes to this crap, but it doesn’t mean I won’t take advantage of some stupid easy girl and give her what she deserves.