is this ever happened to you?

[CatOwner1966]

Same here. My hubby and I have problems b/c of shit like that. I'm very foreward and speak my mind all the time,but tastefully. He is awkward and backward. I'm a very friendly person and he hates that about me. It's caused so many arguements. B/c he thinks I should go in a place keep my eyes straight ahead and not talk to anyone. Keep to myself. I would die if I had to live like that. I need to be around people. I told him once after a fight that I'm pissed b/c he has a real issue with my personality b/c it's the core of who I am. I asked him how he could protest to love me so much and hate something that is the base of who I am as a person. He got mad at me. He is working on it but it's still there and I can tell when he gets pissed even when others can't. I've thought about leaving but I do love him and this is our second marriage (with each other). We divorced once in 2000 and got back together. I'm more reluctant now to leave and feel like I need to have more of a reason to go if that makes any sense.

My husband is exactly the same way. He is very anti-social and we barely have people over to the house and he NEVER and I mean NEVER wants to go out anywhere. He just wants to come home from work and play his computer games for hours on end. He also hates it that I love having friends and going out and of course shopping and God forbid I show any kind of success in my life, well, he hates that too.

 

[momsgettinfit]

My husband is exactly the same way. He is very anti-social and we barely have people over to the house and he NEVER and I mean NEVER wants to go out anywhere. He just wants to come home from work and play his computer games for hours on end. He also hates it that I love having friends and going out and of course shopping and God forbid I show any kind of success in my life, well, he hates that too.

He goes out but doesn't like being around alot of people. He's a very private person and that's all good but don't hate me b/c I'm not. I use to fall into the role of what he thought I should do or be and finally woke the hell up and got with the program and found myself again. Hmmmmmm lets see I was in a shell and gained like 30 lbs, I'm out now and losing it. Yeah I was depressed, I do me and if he can't handle it he can go and he knows it. I'm not gonna stop him if he ever left I can handle my own and stand on my own two feet. I need no man. LOL

 

[exotic_island_girl]

ewww..this dude in the laundry was giving me this perverted look.. and whistling.

as soon as he went away and make sure no one is looking I put bleach on his laundry..

that will teach him a lesson.. sicko!

 

[CatOwner1966]

He goes out but doesn't like being around alot of people. He's a very private person and that's all good but don't hate me b/c I'm not. I use to fall into the role of what he thought I should do or be and finally woke the hell up and got with the program and found myself again. Hmmmmmm lets see I was in a shell and gained like 30 lbs, I'm out now and losing it. Yeah I was depressed, I do me and if he can't handle it he can go and he knows it. I'm not gonna stop him if he ever left I can handle my own and stand on my own two feet. I need no man. LOL

Amen! Hey! I see you're in WV. I'm not too far from there! You should email me. Maybe we can hang out. It's so rare that I find someone like me with the same interests. You seem so cool

 

[momsgettinfit]

ewww..this dude in the laundry was giving me this perverted look.. and whistling.

as soon as he went away and make sure no one is looking I put bleach on his laundry..

that will teach him a lesson.. sicko!

LOL That's so funny. I'd love to see his face when he realized it. LOL

 

[momsgettinfit]

Amen! Hey! I see you're in WV. I'm not too far from there! You should email me. Maybe we can hang out. It's so rare that I find someone like me with the same interests. You seem so cool

Awesome,it's rare to find someone close to me. I put up the location and your the first that I know of that's close. LOL Feel feel to email me my email addy is in my profile.

 

[habitualhealth]

One of the things that really just pisses me off is the fact that I can't go jogging or just to go outside, without being harassed by passing cars.I don't even wear very sexy clothes, just jeans and a regular shirt. They will like say ..what's your name sweetie.. or they will whistle or they will ask do you need a ride , beep their horn or they will be acting nasty like they will give you that tounge nasty shit... Ewwwww


Gessh .. people this days.

Yeah happens all the time. ESPECIALLY driving in the car and some schmo drives side by side my car just to gawk. I just stick my finger up my nose and grin. That usually diverts their attention elsewhere.

 

[momsgettinfit]

Yeah happens all the time. ESPECIALLY driving in the car and some schmo drives side by side my car just to gawk. I just stick my finger up my nose and grin. That usually diverts their attention elsewhere.

LOL I love it!!!

 

[jenscats5]

Here's what I'm tempted to do: Next time someone yells at me who's in a company truck, I want to write down the co. name + truck # then call the company & report them for sexual harassment.....

 

[momsgettinfit]

Here's what I'm tempted to do: Next time someone yells at me who's in a company truck, I want to write down the co. name + truck # then call the company & report them for sexual harassment.....

That's a good idea,but hopefully you don't call someplace that really doesn't give a shit or is run by someone worse.