is this ever happened to you?

[CatOwner1966]

No I haven't had that happen. They just flat out come on to a person even when they know full well your a maried woman. I also get a lot of the full body looks you know the ones where they run the eyes from head to toe. And I'm not even all that. LOL

Yeah, We have a couple of those types at my gym also. There's even one really weird guy who sits by me and wants to talk all the time while I'm trying to get my workout done. He's very nice, But I am married(unhappily) and he knows that. Anyway, Speaking of the up and down stares! My mother in law is famous for that and I haven't seen her since late Janury since I dropped this weight. She and my Sister in law and father in law are gonna freak. They are a real nightmare which explains the bad marriage but that's another story and I will NEVER apologize for taking control of my life and getting into shape. Never.

 

[jenscats5]

Yeah, We have a couple of those types at my gym also. There's even one really weird guy who sits by me and wants to talk all the time while I'm trying to get my workout done. He's very nice, But I am married(unhappily) and he knows that. Anyway, Speaking of the up and down stares! My mother in law is famous for that and I haven't seen her since late Janury since I dropped this weight. She and my Sister in law and father in law are gonna freak. They are a real nightmare which explains the bad marriage but that's another story and I will NEVER apologize for taking control of my life and getting into shape. Never.

And you should not HAVE to or be expected to.......they should be less narrow minded.....but other people "get off" on trying to bring other people down....I have zero tolerance for toxic people like that....

 

[SoKlueles]

I've seen his threads.....I'd punch him right in the face if I was one of those girls....what an ass....

amen sister

 

[exotic_island_girl]

I've seen his threads.....I'd punch him right in the face if I was one of those girls....what an ass....

I second that.

mens and camera ..shouldn't be mix it just result into catostrophe.

 

[CatOwner1966]

And you should not HAVE to or be expected to.......they should be less narrow minded.....but other people "get off" on trying to bring other people down....I have zero tolerance for toxic people like that....

Yeah, My in laws are souless clods dropped at birth and don't care who they hurt which is sad. Here are pics of the worst 3 of the bunch Father in law(Who critisizes me and tries to knock my confidence down with mindgames),My Mother in law(on the left in the second pic. She stares me up and down and gets bent out of shape when I even buy a new outfit. She will try to send breads and cakes home with her son when she sees me. I can just see it now) and last, but not least, My bully-ish loud mouthed sister in law(I call her the ringmaster. She is famous for plotting shit behind everyone's back and thinks I can't be trusted but then again the mother and father think the same. She likes to get on the phone with her mother and talk B.S. about me).Basically, The long and short of it is that they are highly unhappy and want me to be also so they knock me down to make themselves better but this time thier petty BS won't work. BTW, No, Hubby doesn't even try to defend me which is why my marriage could be in serious trouble but I have to think about me now you know?

Ok, Here they are:

Father in law:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v165/CatLover66/Chuck2.jpg

Mother in law(on the left):
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v165/CatLover66/JoanNMike.jpg

And Sister in law:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v165/CatLover66/TerHoldinUpGlass.jpg


Yep! You guessed it! They don't give a hoot about thier health and they will knock me for caring about mine . Thank God I never had THAT kind of weight problem!! Yep. Things are about to get real ugly. I know this based on 8 years of knowing them and how they behave. Talk about creepy! A$$holes!

Well, Anyway, Thought you all could use a good laugh and believe me, I'll be 40 next year and I'm gonna have a rockin bod before that. Maybe even go back to local print modeling. Life's too short <wink>

 

[jenscats5]

Are you considering divorce?? If my hubby didn't back me up I don't think I could be with him.....you can see their unhappiness in their faces.....I used to work with people like that.....ugh!!

 

[momsgettinfit]

And you should not HAVE to or be expected to.......they should be less narrow minded.....but other people "get off" on trying to bring other people down....I have zero tolerance for toxic people like that....

I second that!!!

 

[CatOwner1966]

Are you considering divorce?? If my hubby didn't back me up I don't think I could be with him.....you can see their unhappiness in their faces.....I used to work with people like that.....ugh!!

Yes I am considering it cause it's THAT bad with them. He's too much of a wimp to stand up for me so I may have no choice.

 

[jenscats5]

Yes I am considering it cause it's THAT bad with them. He's too much of a wimp to stand up for me so I may have no choice.

It sounds to me you might be relieved afterwards.....Life't too short to put up with BS like that.....

 

[momsgettinfit]

Are you considering divorce?? If my hubby didn't back me up I don't think I could be with him.....you can see their unhappiness in their faces.....I used to work with people like that.....ugh!!

Same here. My hubby and I have problems b/c of shit like that. I'm very foreward and speak my mind all the time,but tastefully. He is awkward and backward. I'm a very friendly person and he hates that about me. It's caused so many arguements. B/c he thinks I should go in a place keep my eyes straight ahead and not talk to anyone. Keep to myself. I would die if I had to live like that. I need to be around people. I told him once after a fight that I'm pissed b/c he has a real issue with my personality b/c it's the core of who I am. I asked him how he could protest to love me so much and hate something that is the base of who I am as a person. He got mad at me. He is working on it but it's still there and I can tell when he gets pissed even when others can't. I've thought about leaving but I do love him and this is our second marriage (with each other). We divorced once in 2000 and got back together. I'm more reluctant now to leave and feel like I need to have more of a reason to go if that makes any sense.