is this ever happened to you?

[Fuzzy Kitten]

What I really want to know is what do they think is actually going to happen????? Do they really think that if they hang out the window and cat call or yell rude remarks that we are going to fall to our knees and yell out, "Wait, stop, I want to do you right here and now!" Do they honestly think that following us around the gym and staring is going to make them in some way desirable? I usually find these types of men to be very sad and pathetic people. I think they honestly believe that this is some way attracts us to them. If I ever saw any guy I know do that, I think I would smack him along side of his head with a 2x4 - maybe it would knock some sense into him.

As for catowner1966 - don't ever let anyone else bring you down. I have found that people are very condescending when they know you are succeeding on a program. I think, due to their own failure, they want you to fail. It somehow makes them feel better about themselves. And, looking at your in-laws, they have failed miserably at following any type of healthy lifestyle!

"The person who says it cannot be done should not interrupt the person who is doing it."

 

[CatOwner1966]

As for catowner1966 - don't ever let anyone else bring you down. I have found that people are very condescending when they know you are succeeding on a program. I think, due to their own failure, they want you to fail. It somehow makes them feel better about themselves. And, looking at your in-laws, they have failed miserably at following any type of healthy lifestyle!

"The person who says it cannot be done should not interrupt the person who is doing it."

Aww Thank you sweetie. I'm so glad that someone understands what I'm dealing with and I dread the day ath I have to see them(the in-laws) cause I know how they think and there's no telling how they will react and start treating me when they see how much weight I've lost. I'm sure they'll think I did it to "pick up men" knowing them. Yep. It's gonna get ugly.

 

[jenscats5]

What I really want to know is what do they think is actually going to happen????? Do they really think that if they hang out the window and cat call or yell rude remarks that we are going to fall to our knees and yell out, "Wait, stop, I want to do you right here and now!" Do they honestly think that following us around the gym and staring is going to make them in some way desirable? I usually find these types of men to be very sad and pathetic people. I think they honestly believe that this is some way attracts us to them. If I ever saw any guy I know do that, I think I would smack him along side of his head with a 2x4 - maybe it would knock some sense into him.

"The person who says it cannot be done should not interrupt the person who is doing it."

You read my mind!!!

 

[mbrooke5]

Last night while we were at the gym. It was one of my cardio nights and I was on the eliptical (just got on there) and one of the trainers that I talk to all the time and work out with from time to time came up to me and said faster faster. I said give me a freaken break man I just got on here. He proceeds to get in the front of the machine and grab the handles pushing me to make it go faster. A bit over the top!!! My husband was 2 machines down from me and got pissed. He got off it and walked out trying not to make a scene. He said if it happens again he's going to say something to him. I admitted he crossed the line and that I handled it and told him to STOP and he complied. I just don't understand why a woman can't just befriend a guy without it going there ya know.

Men can sure be ridiculous...I worked in a gym for awhile and some of them never seemed to learn that 1. I had a man. 2. I am a professional and i have made it clear that I would not date someone from that gym! 3. You are ugly and out of shape (90% of the time) and I still wouldn't even consider having dinner with you!!

 

[HOMMOSAUUS]

One of the things that really just pisses me off is the fact that I can't go jogging or just to go outside, without being harassed by passing cars.I don't even wear very sexy clothes, just jeans and a regular shirt. They will like say ..what's your name sweetie.. or they will whistle or they will ask do you need a ride , beep their horn or they will be acting nasty like they will give you that tounge nasty shit... Ewwwww


Gessh .. people this days.

most likely cause your as fit (sexy) as fuck!!!!!!!!