Is this considered being "macho" and is this a turnoff

[blood_drinker]

I love it when chicks hit on me, obviously. But I hate when they ask me out. I feel it is my job, and I get pissed because I feel they think I could not do it myself. I don't know how to express this when something like this happens. I feel I have to be the man and I play the man's role, I go down on her, she does not go down on me, I dominate she gives in . Is there something abnormal about this attitude? Am I a fukin idiot for thinking like this? If so, what should I do to tell the chick what I feel on this. Or what should i start doing to change my mindset? Note this isn't because I like acting tough, it just does not feel right for me.

What do you think (gals specifically).

 

[blood_drinker]

hump

 

[SeXKiTTen_CanDy]

Blood

You can’t be in charge all the time baby.

Did you say dominate? I love that word.

You’re not a dickhead for thinking this way, the only part I think is a bit weird is how you get pissed when a chick asks you out, there aint nothing wrong with that, fuck, dude, you should be proud. You don’t need to be the one in charge 24/7…. Get my drift baby?

 

[fiatconspiracy]

this is like a guy complaining his dick is just TOO big.......

 

[blood_drinker]

no well the thing is I love when they give signs they want me or are into me, that will make me go for them, but I have this huge feeling I should do it. As you can tell, Im not the "house husband" kind of guy, that would love to have a housewife's job and clean and mop and take care of the kids all day.

Thanks sex kitten for the suggestions, but how can i overcome this? I mean i realize im wrong, but to me it still feels wrong?

 

[jennifer BFL chick]

I have asked guys out before----but usually they ask me. In a sense, I can be a little old fashioned as well. Like on the first date, the guy usually pays. I like doors opened for me, ect. But I havn't always been that way. When a guys paid for me I was like "what you think I'm poor, or greedy?" or if he opened a door I thought " what you think I can't do it myself?" Then I realised, that its "nice" to act like a girl. guys LIKE to feel important--they know I can open the door myself, but its just the concept of it all. But still, if I am truly digging a guy, and he hasn't asked me out yet, then I will do it------I just can't let something good slip through my fingers.

 

[guards]

I think I can sympathise with you...... I feel the same way.

 

[luv2workout]

I see nothing wrong w/your attitude, although you wouldve fit in better in say the 70's,80's....girls are much more up front these days...some guys dig it -some dont....I, personally, have never asked a guy out - I always played those silly, hard to get games which sux too...so just ENJOY it while you can