Is my cousin gay or just asexual?

[75th]

he's not though. he has no problem talking to women. Girls i would get nervous talking to he has no problem with. He's mingled with super hot female celebs like it was nothing. i just think he didn't develop *any* sense of sexuality, which in my family is not a surprise. male influence is not a strong point.

Theres a difference between talking to wimminz and talking to wimminz, IMO.

 

[Smurfy]

perhaps you should STFU and MYOB?

well what kind of fun would that be for the rest of us?

 

[calveless wonder]

and maybe that's why women gravitate towards him, but he only intimately associates with females who are congruent with him. The average bar whore, no matter how hot, probably doesn't phase him. I've known one guy like this in my life........women threw themselves at him, mostly probably cause they knew he couldn't care less. The guy could go awhile without having sex, didn't phase him at all.......yet he women literally came at him like linebackers, and hot women too. It's like women have this internal sensor for men who aren't ruled by their dicks, to which they go into hunter killer mode to prove that they can fuck him up. Females really are terribly scandalous......

great post dude

actually, you just described me. wow, thats actually kinda crazy accurate. I've changed my position slightly from this in that i'm not *as* picky, but i normally don't like fucking or pursuing girls i don't feel on more just than a physical level. I could be a huge male whore, but it's honestly never really appealed to me in itself. the attention and variety is nice, sure...and the experience of getting to know someone new, but the sexual aspect of it has been the primary motivating factor

i could certainly see that being the case with him, to an extent....but there would be at least a few prospects he'd click with and pursue.

 

[calveless wonder]

perhaps you should STFU and MYOB?

oh the irony.

this would just be too easy

 

[myway]

Its hard to tell. Seriously.
I NEVER dated in high school. Didn't have my first "boyfriend" until I was almost 18 ...... and boy, I was sooo mean to him. Just wasn't into him.
My parents thought I might be geigh... but they didn't tell me this until after my wedding. They just said I was so into sports, all of my friends were male and I didn't really do tha hair/makeup/dressup thing.... so they thought I was maybe lesbian.
When I think about it, I'm not real sure about WHY I was like that. Sure, I was popular and I could have had great boyfriends or whatever... just had my own plans and wasn't really wanting to share my time with someone beyond friends.
Maybe he is just being picky.

 

[bigtravis]

Yeah, but what about his cousin>

Damn. LOL. One more laugh before bed.

 

[nimbus]

unless you see him actually turning down guaranteed vag, you can't be sure that issue isn't his game

 

[Metasomatized Ijolite]

He might be getting more women than you know about. He might be like me. I don't usually talk about my sex life with friends or anyone else.

 

[-Ariel-]

"Oh look at me. I'm classy/cultured and upper class."

LOL

I dunno...
I first think that there are some peeps that are well not just sexually motivated, I mean it's there... but not really there, there, as in normal.
The average male I believe has some sort of sex related desire thought go through every 10 seconds...

Thing is what I find odd about your cousin is that dude likes to party, but is not interested in girls.
The main reason I partied in undergrad... and I don't think I'm the odd one here is the possibility of getting laid.

I think the whole market, just about everything around you or 80% of it revolves around the 'possibility of getting laid'.
Not Freud, just the way it is in conditional reality.

So why does he party? How does one have fun in undergrad at a party without trying to get laid? I mean that's fundamental no?
What is feminine? Is he open about his emotions and express his vulnerabilities?
Is that what you mean? Or do you mean he wears panties? I'm not sure...

If it's the former, then it would be most likely he is gay, because have a clarity in emotional expression, yet not express a fundamental lifestyle preference of male or female would not be likely as you describe him.
If he wears panties... well dude probably just is or just likes wearing panties.

Something here doesn't make sense.
Anyway...
Probably Gay.

 

[Jon79]

flaming

u would know