Is it possible to have a sexual relation with someone without feelings

[seaking420]

What is all this agreeing shit? Sounds like you two sit down with a lawyer and hammer out some kind of fuck me custody.

If you have to have a talk about it, it is obviously too far gone to even consider ruling feelings out. It is usually a mutual unwritten/discussed decision that is naturally accepted before you even consider making it a regular thing.

I would think you would have to talk about it first so that the both of you are on the same page, so later on down the road neither one is expecting more out of it.
Not arguing with you since I've never did this and you have, just trying to avoid problems down the road

 

[Mavafanculo]

its almost inevitable that if the Fuck Buddy thing goes on long enuf, 1 or the other will develop feelings and ruin things. and its not always the woman either.

its just hormonal - oxytocin relase with intercourse and orgasm causes emotional bonding

 

[feisty11975]

I had a FB for a while...sex was AMAZING! Still say hi when we see each other. We are now both in relationships. so, I guess I am saying YES to your question.

 

[Lestat]

its possible, tricky, but possible.

 

[krishna]

It usually blows up in your face eventually.

 

[blueta2]

For the peeps who say it can be done without feelings, you're either cold or just living in denial...I will chose the denial!
Agreement Shagreement....there is no such thing!

 

[KillahBee]

For the peeps who say it can be done without feelings, you're either cold or just living in denial...I will chose the denial!
Agreement Shagreement....there is no such thing!

You MUST be catholic, dude. Not many other types of people blindly believe that if others aren't like them, they are wrong

 

[healother]

No, not really. And it wasn't empty sex. It was HOT!! But you have to distinguish the difference between sex, the person, and sex with the person. Sometimes you know in the back of your mind that even under the right (or different) circumstances, a relationship with this person is not going to be possible (for whatever reasons) and that is your safety net to catch you from doing something foolish like falling in love.

Like for instance, I had a fuck buddy Dave. Dave and I fucked around for about 6 years. Usually about once a week, sometimes twice, sometimes whole weekends. Even when he and I were dating others. (Oh shit... here comes the morals police). It didn't bother he nor I if one or the other or both of us had someone else at the time. Sometimes we would go about 3-4 months without seeing one another and then oen day just call the other up and go "hey come over and get naked with me." Dave was a great guy, but just not relationship material (for me). It was just sex. It was fun. We had a great time in bed. Then when it was over we up and went on about our routines and days like nothing had happened. Until the next time.

I wonder if its easier to be gay and have sex without feelings than it is to be straight and have sex without feelings.

I dunno why I thought of that, but I just did.

 

[billfred]

Trueism:

Men can fuck with no emotion.

Women have to love someone to enjoy a fuck so they do or will eventually have emotions.

 

[KillahBee]

It may be the height of immaturity, insecurity, and overall cowardice to truly believe that we simply are not able to control our emotions. I feel bad for those people that operate this way. You don't even give yourselves a fighting chance.