Is it possible to have a sexual relation with someone without feelings

[billfred]

yes.. it is called marriage!!!

 

[rnch]

in my 20's i could have sex without knowing/liking/feeling something internal for the sex-ee; but not today. if i can't feel it in my heart, i can't boink 'em.

 

[Gymgurl]

No problem as long as you BOTH agree on it and can keep it at that level only

 

[seaking420]

we both agreed on it, but are also worried that it can lead to emotions

 

[AAP]

we both agreed on it, but are also worried that it can lead to emotions

If you already agreeing on it, you already gonna have problems down the road. If you wasn't, you would be doing it and not worrying about it.

 

[manny78]

Everything is possible (fuckfriend, friend with benefits) as long as you folks remember the agreement.

 

[AAP]

AAP, when you did have this kind of scenario did you lay some ground rules before you started?

No, not really. And it wasn't empty sex. It was HOT!! But you have to distinguish the difference between sex, the person, and sex with the person. Sometimes you know in the back of your mind that even under the right (or different) circumstances, a relationship with this person is not going to be possible (for whatever reasons) and that is your safety net to catch you from doing something foolish like falling in love.

Like for instance, I had a fuck buddy Dave. Dave and I fucked around for about 6 years. Usually about once a week, sometimes twice, sometimes whole weekends. Even when he and I were dating others. (Oh shit... here comes the morals police). It didn't bother he nor I if one or the other or both of us had someone else at the time. Sometimes we would go about 3-4 months without seeing one another and then oen day just call the other up and go "hey come over and get naked with me." Dave was a great guy, but just not relationship material (for me). It was just sex. It was fun. We had a great time in bed. Then when it was over we up and went on about our routines and days like nothing had happened. Until the next time.

 

[BBR100]

No problem as long as you BOTH agree on it and can keep it at that level only

Even if you both AGREE if you continue having sex there will be feelings.

 

[AAP]

What is all this agreeing shit? Sounds like you two sit down with a lawyer and hammer out some kind of fuck me custody.

If you have to have a talk about it, it is obviously too far gone to even consider ruling feelings out. It is usually a mutual unwritten/discussed decision that is naturally accepted before you even consider making it a regular thing.

Now when you get into the realm of one person thinking this and the other thinking picking out China patterns for the wedding.

 

[seaking420]

Without getting into detail a relationship with her is nearly imposible. That being said we do enjoy each others company