I'm not getting enough sex in my current relationship...

[digimon7068]

her life will not always be this way. Kids grow up, move out.

before my wife and i had kids, i was number one to her and she was number one to me. . .now that we have kids, she's still number one to me but i'm probably not number one to her anymore. . .that doesn't mean that she doesn't love me any more (or less). . .in fact, after 15 years of marriage, i'd say we're still "madly in love". . .but, she's a mommy now. . .if she had to choose between my life or one of theirs, i'd be dead. . .that's the way it's supposed to be. . .i'm cool with it. . .to expect a mere "girlfriend" to feel any different is just a lack of understanding of the situation. . .

 

[Nathan]

I would have stuck to your rule in the first place personally. I know this sounds bad, but I won't lie - I'm not good at dealing with shit like that. Fuck, I can't even handle knowing a dude who has been with my girl. Won't do it. If I'm dating someone and find out that is the case, I have always bailed (UNLESS I was told first and in a tactful way). After a while, I was just honest with myself that it bugs me (mostly its shit from the bar scene which was especially bad) and can't date those girls seriously. I don't know how the fuck my buddies do it. I've actually lost a lot of respect for a couple of them being such bitches around their girls and not going for what I KNOW they REALLY want. Wtf? Always go for what you really want, I don't fucking care how lofty the goal seems. If you want it, don't fuck around, go for it. I'd say the same thing about your situation and it'd just piss me off I wasn't in a situation to be getting the attention I wanted. I'd bail. In a heartbeat.

 

[covergrl80]

before my wife and i had kids, i was number one to her and she was number one to me. . .now that we have kids, she's still number one to me but i'm probably not number one to her anymore. . .that doesn't mean that she doesn't love me any more (or less). . .in fact, after 15 years of marriage, i'd say we're still "madly in love". . .but, she's a mommy now. . .if she had to choose between my life or one of theirs, i'd be dead. . .that's the way it's supposed to be. . .i'm cool with it. . .to expect a mere "girlfriend" to feel any different is just a lack of understanding of the situation. . .

I agree with you 100%

I am a single Mom and have had a few relationships, and i tell them from the very beginning " I will not be that girl that can drop everything in a moments notice to do something/go somewhere. My kid comes first because she is a child. You are a grow ass man and should be able to deal with things like this. If not then oh well. This is life, if you want me then you take all of me, the good and the bad.

I may be single for the rest of my life because I am a sinlge Mom and that is just fine with me.

 

[cindylou]

lol add 18 years to that and her vagina will be more droopy and dried up than the basset hound i have drying up in my freezer since last year

duuuude!

I know you are making a joke about all the animial loving on this site, (lol) but Basset hounds??? THose are the sweetest most gentle dogs on the PLANET. you coulda picked a diff. dog.

 

[Sub-Zero]

I would have stuck to your rule in the first place personally. I know this sounds bad, but I won't lie - I'm not good at dealing with shit like that. Fuck, I can't even handle knowing a dude who has been with my girl. Won't do it. If I'm dating someone and find out that is the case, I have always bailed (UNLESS I was told first and in a tactful way). After a while, I was just honest with myself that it bugs me (mostly its shit from the bar scene which was especially bad) and can't date those girls seriously. I don't know how the fuck my buddies do it. I've actually lost a lot of respect for a couple of them being such bitches around their girls and not going for what I KNOW they REALLY want. Wtf? Always go for what you really want, I don't fucking care how lofty the goal seems. If you want it, don't fuck around, go for it. I'd say the same thing about your situation and it'd just piss me off I wasn't in a situation to be getting the attention I wanted. I'd bail. In a heartbeat.

nathan for mod

 

[Nathan]

I'm with digimon. I personally need to be number one at some point in my life because that's how I think of the other person. You always have the choice and I'd just never choose something sub-optimal for me out of laziness or a lack of self-esteem. I see my boys do it from time to time and try to gently slap some sense into them (well, more like feel out if they understand their situation and that is what they REALLY want) but man alive, to each their own.

 

[Tytan]

You broke your own rule. You knew this would be the case and you still got w/ her. If you love her you will make the situation work, if you just need to bone every day, you`ll lose her. Take a little time to woo her more, get her to relax more and help w/ the kid. She doesn`t have as much time to relax and feel all lovey dovey because she is busy raising a child by herself. Solve you problem by stepping up to help and you`ll get what you want.

 

[javaguru]

I used to have this rule: never date single mothers. They have a lot going on in their lives, they have a higher priority than you, they get tired by the end of the day due to fussing with the kid all the time. Not to mention that the child can be a great cock block at the absolute worst times.

Then I met my current GF, and she is just a terrific girl. We’ve fallen in love, things are going incredibly well. Except she has a young daughter in pre-school. And some nights she wants her alone time after the kid goes to sleep, so I’m only sleeping over one or two nights a week. Which means we are only having sex one or two nights a week, three at the most. And I don’t think it’s enough for me.

We’ve talked about it, she is aware of how I feel, but right now with how busy she is she just can’t give any more than this. And she has always been one of those girls who can be completely happy with two or three times a week, where I’ve always preferred it every day, even more than once a day if I could get it.

It would be incredibly selfish of me to leave her over something as stupid as not enough sex given the circumstances, and given how great the relationship is going otherwise. But I can’t get it out of my thoughts, it bothers me, and I wonder if I can truly be OK with only a couple times a week. I wonder if I can truly sleep with her and not fool around at all, if I can keep my urges in check. Do I even want to?

Fuck, I never should have broken one of my rules….

Get a second girlfriend, maybe another single mother, and put her in the rotation. That gives you sex four to six times a week with different poon....

 

[vixensghost]

I think she's cheating on you...

 

[Sub-Zero]

Get a second girlfriend, maybe another single mother, and put her in the rotation. That gives you sex four to six times a week with different poon....

lol u dick