I was just wondering today, how do people have sex with their fat mates?

[flexygrl]

Vascular,

Check your karma. That was so beautiful!


Anyway, I know most of you mean 50 pound + over weight but,


My highest weight was 161, 5'4". I hated myself. I was so mean and nasty to my husband, because I had such a horrible self image. I never, ever wanted my husband to touch me. He always wanted to have sex, I just didn't want to.

When I started to lose weight my husband said that although he did appreciate the fact that I was getting my body in shape, what he loved the most was that my attitude changed.

Our sex life since has gotten soooooo much better. When we make love it is a totally different experience now. He carresses my body feeling for changes. It's great.

 

[biteme]

Vascular,

Check your karma. That was so beautiful!


Anyway, I know most of you mean 50 pound + over weight but,


My highest weight was 161, 5'4". I hated myself. I was so mean and nasty to my husband, because I had such a horrible self image. I never, ever wanted my husband to touch me. He always wanted to have sex, I just didn't want to.

When I started to lose weight my husband said that although he did appreciate the fact that I was getting my body in shape, what he loved the most was that my attitude changed.

Our sex life since has gotten soooooo much better. When we make love it is a totally different experience now. He carresses my body feeling for changes. It's great.

After our daughter was born, my ex who is 5'3 1/2" got up to 160 and stayed there for a while, her self image plunged. I was in love with her so it didn't bother me much, I knew she would eventually lose the weight.

 

[biteme]

Re: It aint over until the fat lady has sex!

My wife currently weighs around 300 lbs. Her weight is a constant source of arguments and the like. It is extremely difficult for me to understand her inablity to loose the weight when it is relatively easy for me to loose it. Yes I have some of the same issues that others mentioned earlier. We get a lot of looks from people, hear snickers, and jokes about my wife etc.

At the same time I love my wife deeply. We have been through the very worst together and enjoyed some of the very best together. My first child was conceived during a particulary wild night where I rememeber carrying her throughout the house and doing it on every counter and table top. These days it is much different (I consider myself strong, but not that strong). It was through the difficult times combined with two pregnancies that she manged to gain about 160 lbs. not that that is a good reason, it just happened.

As far as the sex goes....these days it is absolutely unbelievable. Yes we are more limited in positions, but her desire to please me and the frequency is beyond anything I have ever seen with another women (maybe not a lot by some standards, 1 previous wife and about 35 partners).

Coupled with the fact she has a heart of gold, gave me two wonderful kids, is a great mother, and she continues to try and loose the weight (~21 lbs./ 3 months).......I guess I will keep her.

300lbs? You deserve a medal of honor. I just couldn't put up with that, beautiful on the inside or not, you should want to please your mate, now if your fat also, then you should have nothing to say.

 

[rnch]

after waking up one sunday morning and seeing the hefter sandwiched in between me and my broly; i cut WAY back on my alcohol intake thereafter!

 

[IHateCrunches]

i love blowjobs form fat chicks they get all into it. And you tell them they are doing a great job and tey love you for it.

 

[Imnotdutch]

I don't what could possibly happen that would keep you from being able to be trim. People can look attractive well into old age if they are not lazy. I've noticed that the older I get, older women are attractive to me, the ones that keep in shape. If I ever love someone and they get in an accident or become ill, I would not stop loving them because of that. That would fucking suck though.

That first sentence is actually incredibly naive. There are genuine reasons for people not being able to lose weight..........then there are lazy fuckers too.

I'm with you on the older women.........older meaning 30-40 (I am 30).....not 70-80

 

[Imnotdutch]

Re: It aint over until the fat lady has sex!

(~21 lbs./ 3 months).......I guess I will keep her

That it is pretty good going.........

 

[TC2]

Every monday morning where I work, donuts are delivered for the employees. These people complain about being fat, I overhear their conversations. They stuff their faces with donuts and wonder why they are fat. Don't complain, get off your fat ass and do something about it. I'm out of here, I can't let this body go to waste, I'm gonna share tonight.

I have the same shit happen to me at work.

One behemoth actually was talking(I don't think she really cared since she was married)about how hard it is to lose weight WHILE CRAMMING A MASSIVE DONUT THE SIZE OF HER HEAD INTO HER MOUTH.

What pisses me off the most is that I hear a lot of these women joking and laughing about how much blubber they've gained since getting married. And how their husbands just are gonna have to "deal with it".

Fuck those hogs, I told them I'd be cheating on them left and right.
something I cant stand is when a women gets married she thinks she can just do whatever she wants cause "she's got a man"

The VAST majority of my friends fuckin hate their marrieges, because as soon as they got married their wives practically make them beg for sex(even then they don't get it),blowjobs are outta the question, and they women all get together and stuff their faces.